Topic: why the hate?
PacificStar48's photo
Sun 06/24/12 05:40 PM


I took the "xX-Xx" to be kisses because she is blowing kisses in her picture.ohwell

well they are the same as my username so easily confusing


Suggestive user names are setting yourself up for a certain kind of attention and XXXX is the universal sign for adult content and to expect no holds barred adult behavior.


xXkatyXx's photo
Sun 06/24/12 05:40 PM

So, what do "xX-Xx" mean?

you know the movie xXx? well i thought i'd use the way the x's are but i added a extra big X to balance it :)

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 06/24/12 05:43 PM


Looking at your profile, and how you present yourself, it hardly surprises me that the people a profile like that would attract to respond are going to get nasty when you reject them.

I doubt that much is "lost in translation" but maybe it is harmless vamping and you might want to clean up your act if you want more consideration and respect of your absolute right to make choices.

Part of being a mature woman, and having the support of being treated like a lady, is acting like a lady across the board.

If you make yourself sound like you are willing to be anybodies girl you can't really complain when someone is offended that they don't get to be anybody. It is false advertiseing and a cost of your own behavior.

Think you kind of shot yourself in the foot complaining but maybe that got some more traffic your direction. Hopefully you don't get more than you bargain for. A hateful email for rejecting you is the least of your worries if you are promoteing yourself this way.

another thing i'd like to say is, who are you to tell me to "clean up my act"? something else, i "make myself sound like i'm willing to be anybodys girl" and that it's "false advertising" on my profile it says i'm looking for women, so i'm not saying i'm not saying i'm open to everyone


I agree with Katy on this, and not just because she's Scottish.
Nothing about her profile says that she would be anyone's girl.
Apparently someone has been rude to her just because she isn't interested in the other person. As I see it, she has a legitimate grievance.

xXkatyXx's photo
Sun 06/24/12 05:49 PM
Edited by xXkatyXx on Sun 06/24/12 05:50 PM



I took the "xX-Xx" to be kisses because she is blowing kisses in her picture.ohwell

well they are the same as my username so easily confusing


Suggestive user names are setting yourself up for a certain kind of attention and XXXX is the universal sign for adult content and to expect no holds barred adult behavior.



actually xxx is the adult content sign, maybe xxxx is for something hardcore i don't know but you seem to know alot about it. i explained what the xX Xx in my username means or at least what i intend it to mean and it don't follow your messed up ideas

Totage's photo
Sun 06/24/12 05:52 PM

when i tell people men and women i'm not interested in chatting to them or just not interested in them i get messages that say "oh ok good luck katy", but i sometimes get attacked for it, the people are 9/10 times english so i don't know if its normal or what? (i haven't met an english person before joining this site by the way) i don't mean ithis to be provoketive i'm just curious


People are weird sometimes. Try to be nice and they take offense to it.


PacificStar48's photo
Sun 06/24/12 05:57 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Sun 06/24/12 06:04 PM


Looking at your profile, and how you present yourself, it hardly surprises me that the people a profile like that would attract to respond are going to get nasty when you reject them.

I doubt that much is "lost in translation" but maybe it is harmless vamping and you might want to clean up your act if you want more consideration and respect of your absolute right to make choices.

Part of being a mature woman, and having the support of being treated like a lady, is acting like a lady across the board.

If you make yourself sound like you are willing to be anybodies girl you can't really complain when someone is offended that they don't get to be anybody. It is false advertiseing and a cost of your own behavior.

Think you kind of shot yourself in the foot complaining but maybe that got some more traffic your direction. Hopefully you don't get more than you bargain for. A hateful email for rejecting you is the least of your worries if you are promoteing yourself this way.

another thing i'd like to say is, who are you to tell me to "clean up my act"? something else, i "make myself sound like i'm willing to be anybodys girl" and that it's "false advertising" on my profile it says i'm looking for women, so i'm not saying i'm not saying i'm open to everyone


True. I stand corrected that you are advertiseing that you are looking only for women. Good luck on that one in open forums to both men and women.

I am saying be safe and use common sense. If you want and sexual encounter with women go for it but I strongly advise that you be selective about which women and they have something more to offer you than satifying your need for fun and feeling horney. Or you are going to get a lot of people you do not want and thus have a lot of rejected resentful people. Many who won't be real nice about it. Female or otherwise.

Granted when you say women only it is stupid if you are getting male responses but any woman with an ounce of common sense knows that rarely deters some men who are trolling for XXXX activity. (And yes I do know enough about it that wheather it is XXX or more it generally suggests nudity, profanity, physical contact, and often forms of public intercourse with very little regard to anyone having the right to be picky about who.) Is it fair? No but when was the real world all that fair?

xXkatyXx's photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:03 PM



Looking at your profile, and how you present yourself, it hardly surprises me that the people a profile like that would attract to respond are going to get nasty when you reject them.

I doubt that much is "lost in translation" but maybe it is harmless vamping and you might want to clean up your act if you want more consideration and respect of your absolute right to make choices.

Part of being a mature woman, and having the support of being treated like a lady, is acting like a lady across the board.

If you make yourself sound like you are willing to be anybodies girl you can't really complain when someone is offended that they don't get to be anybody. It is false advertiseing and a cost of your own behavior.

Think you kind of shot yourself in the foot complaining but maybe that got some more traffic your direction. Hopefully you don't get more than you bargain for. A hateful email for rejecting you is the least of your worries if you are promoteing yourself this way.

another thing i'd like to say is, who are you to tell me to "clean up my act"? something else, i "make myself sound like i'm willing to be anybodys girl" and that it's "false advertising" on my profile it says i'm looking for women, so i'm not saying i'm not saying i'm open to everyone


True. I stand corrected that you are advertiseing that you are looking only for women. Good luck on that one in open forums to both men and women.

I am saying be safe and use common sense. If you want and sexual encounter with women go for it but I strongly advise that you be selective about which women and they have something more to offer you than satifying your need for fun and feeling horney. Or you are going to get a lot of people you do not want and thus have a lot of rejected resentful people. Female or otherwise. Granted if you say women only it is stupid if you are getting male responses but any woman with an ounce of common sense knows that rarely deters some men who are trolling for XXXX activity.

i know i'll get some male responses but it's after i explain that i'm only looking for women like it says on my profile they blow-up lol

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:08 PM
i know i'll get some male responses but it's after i explain that i'm only looking for women like it says on my profile they blow-up lol


Then get yourself some popcorn and enjoy the fireworks.


xXkatyXx's photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:11 PM

i know i'll get some male responses but it's after i explain that i'm only looking for women like it says on my profile they blow-up lol


Then get yourself some popcorn and enjoy the fireworks.



LOL

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:12 PM
Well welcome to the real world where generally profiles are skimmed and once the little head starts thinking for the big head reading and comprehension really starts to faulter.

I will say that if I had a nickle for every time someone took a rejection badly then I would own the very expensive yacht some of the dingbats that have written me think I own. Think of it as a right of passage.

xXkatyXx's photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:17 PM

Well welcome to the real world where generally profiles are skimmed and once the little head starts thinking for the big head reading and comprehension really starts to faulter.

I will say that if I had a nickle for every time someone took a rejection badly then I would own the very expensive yacht some of the dingbats that have written me think I own. Think of it as a right of passage.

only a yacht? no car, no jet, no sports team or houses? lol
although car is the international word for anal i really should clean up my act hahaha

no photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:18 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Sun 06/24/12 06:21 PM


So, because someone says they're horny and looking for fun, they should expect to be attacked if they reject someone? Since when does horny mean they're going to say yes to everyone?


I did not say she has to say yes to anyone. But when you go on and adult dating site and the majority of what you say you are looking for is XXXX then you should not be surprised when you get people who want to XXXX and are not really nice when you are not willing to give them XXXX if you have not clearly stated what XXXX means. It is not rocket science. And generally in " man speak" xxxx with Horney is not just kisses regardless if she is blowing kisses in her picture or not. Even a barely legal teenager knows that.





You're really saying that because she's said she's horny, she should expect those who don't get what they want to not be nice about it? Wow.

Being horny is not a bad thing. Nor should someone have to be attacked for rejecting someone else who is horny.

no photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:20 PM



I took the "xX-Xx" to be kisses because she is blowing kisses in her picture.ohwell

well they are the same as my username so easily confusing


Suggestive user names are setting yourself up for a certain kind of attention and XXXX is the universal sign for adult content and to expect no holds barred adult behavior.




You're thinking of xxx. That's not what she has in her user name.

xXkatyXx's photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:26 PM




I took the "xX-Xx" to be kisses because she is blowing kisses in her picture.ohwell

well they are the same as my username so easily confusing


Suggestive user names are setting yourself up for a certain kind of attention and XXXX is the universal sign for adult content and to expect no holds barred adult behavior.




You're thinking of xxx. That's not what she has in her user name.

i know rightrofl

no photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:27 PM
Katy, we all get nasty responses sometimes. You just have to ignore them and move on. And unfortunately, when sex is mentioned, or implied, people get nasty attitudes about it.

Welcome to the site. I hope you enjoy it :).

xXkatyXx's photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:39 PM

Katy, we all get nasty responses sometimes. You just have to ignore them and move on. And unfortunately, when sex is mentioned, or implied, people get nasty attitudes about it.

Welcome to the site. I hope you enjoy it :).

thank you:smile:

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:42 PM
By the way, Katy,


xXkatyXx's photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:52 PM

By the way, Katy,



thanks:smile:

alookat101's photo
Sun 06/24/12 06:55 PM
At least your getting some e-mails maybe I should post some XxxXxX in my profile. By the way Welcome to Mingle2 and come join us in some of Mingles many forums. waving

xXkatyXx's photo
Sun 06/24/12 07:10 PM

At least your getting some e-mails maybe I should post some XxxXxX in my profile. By the way Welcome to Mingle2 and come join us in some of Mingles many forums. waving

thanks:smile: