i should already know the answer,so feel free to smack me in the fore head,but say someone tells you they love you but they never call you and back dont answer your questions directly and they dont do anything to show you they love you!

time to run or make an ultimatedum (SP)

Sounds like they are full of ****....sorry...

Yes. There has to be actions to back up the words.

Anybody can say anything....

Including "I love you"....

But the actions tell the tale

So much better than the words.

kick her to the curb dude that happened to me once.. it really sucks. she said the only reason she said she loved me cus i said it first.. what a *****

hes in the army but hes 3 hours away from me in the same state.i talk to my brother more often then my ex and my bro is in iraQ

i think action and words go together. you can do things to show love but some times i like to here someone say 'i love you'.

you pretty much answered your own question.. hes not worth the effort

Hmmmm..... That can go in a different direction, also.

My last long term relationship never said "I love you", in fact when I brought up going to the next step (marriage, living together) he made damn sure to tell me he didn't love me. BUT, his actions always said the opposite. Or atleast I thought they did. He was loving towards me. He treated me with the utmost respect, yada, yada... He was my best friend..... so.......who knows?????

Bee, I'm assuming this is the same guy we were discussing last night?

Because, based on everything you said then, I would have serious reservations about him....it doesn't sound like he's interested in finding/making time for you, and -- to me, anyway -- when you love someone, that relationship has to be top priority.

Not necessarily the absolute #1 thing in your life every single second, but I can't imagine "loving" somebody and only hearing from them once a month. Especially if they're only 3 hours away.

its hard because i dont wanna give on on him if he does love me but geez i leave him voicemails he dont call back he gets on myspace and leaves me these riddle like answers!

i know it sounds stupid but when we were totgether he didnt any one know we were dating!he then one day he called me out of the blue to tell me he has a female fan club!

i hate myself for being this confused!

To this old man, sounds like he is playin you. Sorry.

i know thats what i think and just when my life is peaceful he pops in again tell me he loves me and hes a busy man.

damnit i know im smarter then this but for some reason i get pulled back in like an idiot!

i wanna say to him look show me you really love me or leave me alone but hell make me feel gulity reminded me of what a busy man he is

of course they do.

Well when you decide to stand up for yourself, you will.

well i sent him a message to show me that he loves me...i put my foot down...im tired of always adjusting my time to fit his schedule

well i sent him a message to show me that he loves me...i put my foot down...im tired of always adjusting my time to fit his schedule

I am a firm believer in: Don't tell me, show me. Not just in my personal relationships but as well as with my kids. You screw up, don't apologize, show me you wrong.
In my book, actions do speak louder than words.

that's good that you did that, and anyone that dosen't give some of there time for you or the person they love should not even be calling you or writing to you.

ja