Yea that is creepy.

Some talk about their boring businesses they're launches in hopes of impressing more womens...I doubt you would personally discuss perpetual motion as an alternative to sex.

Yes, it does make for awkward family get-togethers.

Well, the guy may be the farthest from being a giver, but he may be just the single best lover in the world or the best orator.

This is not guaranteed, but it's true for four or five times out of seventeen.

I'm willing to share my body, and hers, but tough luck to her if she wants the wiener schnitzel on my plate.

Oh, I forgot to add:

There are times when I put my foot down, and one such time is that I categorically refuse to put the toilet seat down.

If she argues, I counter argue it's better this way than if I never put it up.

See what she says to that.

I am sorry, I can't buy this. A scammer leave her victim so abruptly? Never happens. Because the scammee don't fit the scam? No, that would be no problem for a good scammer. If scam A is inapplicable, she will pull Scam B. from the scambag. That scumbag.

Realistically speaking, this is the most reasonable explanation, and most the believable, the most rational. That is the very reason nobody picked up on it. You can't take truth to anywhere. You can dress the truth up, but you can't take it anywhere.

Once the truth has been spoken, there is nothing else to say.

That is why most people lie in all their social discourses. They don't want the conversation to die. Sex would necessarily ensue, and that would be horrible for them.

That's one reason why nobody picked up on this. The other is that it is unbeleivable, too fantastic, not a real-life scenario. The explanation is a story for which people are unable to or would be unwilling to suspend their disbelief.

The scenario presupposes a not-hot woman who has seventeen grandchildren, and yet also the time, the inclination, the mental capacity, and an incredible sense of wherewithal to be so methodical about finding a mate. Thirty emails? ten replies? Five candidates? etc.? This is crazy. People would not and never go through such huge efforts just to find eternal love with a compatible mate to spend their lovely happiness that's in the future for the rest of their lives with that person.

Heck, even gold-diggers never used this approach to scam investors by giving them market predictions in terms of predicting yes-no futures. The gold-digging scammers would only need to go through three or four iterations after which they can make any billionaire that still only heard the truth from the scammer, give the scammer millions. That is, one out of sixteen billionaires after 4 iterations. People are too lazy to make a million overnight, because sending sixteen letters, one each to sixteen billionaires, with a predicion to each, is too much work.

I mean to say that any elimination-type methodolgy is brilliant, it alwasy yields excellent to superb results, better than expected, but... but, it's so much work, so much hard work, that people give up before they start.

Jesus, this was a lot of f typing to tell you that yours was a brilliant solution to the enigma of the OP, but at the same time it was as useless in the same order of magnitude as it was brilliant, unfortunately.

Been there, done that. I vouch for the truth of it.

Also, people who've never had sex talk about their family, at dinner. And how the big boy in the class kicked him in the knee during recess.

I agree, and would only like to add, that some of them are much dumber than the rest of us.

This is the much-talked about Graecean Great Equalization Effort by Nature.

I think these women just don't want to bother with breaking in yet another man. They feel they had paid their dues, now it's time to relax. They want a man who's been made plyable already, they don't want the new guy with the rough edges and incomprehensible wishes to rub them the only way they can, which is the wrong.

I mean, these women know it fully well, that it does not occur to a single man that no woman goes down on men, other than prostitutes. Or it does not occur to a single man automatically that money must be spent on new pillow cases, and not just HER money exclusively, if it must.

Everybody has a vibrator now, so why not the scammers?

When the police come to investigate, the officers might ask, `why are you shaking like leaf? are you scared?` then the scammer can bang it out confidently, to mislead the investigation in order to deflect guilt, `no, I just have the vibrator on `high` .`

I wouldn't think so but I am in the same boat. When guys find out that I have never been married; they drop me like a bad habit.

I feel ya bro. It works both ways. Once chicks know I have been married 15 times (not all were cousins) they never want anything to do with me......

So, if that is true... how did you rope in the fourteen that you married after the first one?

Or maybe you had a group marriage, and married all fifteen in one single swoop. And fell them, too. A wedding night is a wedding night, no matter how many participants.

And please do not let me get into opening a discussion on the logical and moral intricacies on fidelity as created by the oaths part of the marriage ceremony.

I think so too as there is much truth in Krupa's statement.

Some guys have asked me why I haven't been married and have no kids, either. So, I'm not sure there's an age limit on it.

I'd be more wary of those who have been married and divorced more than once or twice than those who haven't been married and have no kids.

I doubt it. There are a lot of people out there who have issues with those who have never been married.

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You go, boy!!

Yep me too as they seem to carry a lot of baggage from past marriages then they take it out on me which frustrates me with men in general.

I am divorced with no kids ever. I get "WHY DID HE DIVORCE YOU?? IT'S NOT TO LATE FOR YOU TO HAVE KIDS"!!!

When they find out I divorced him, it's like "OH THE HORROR"!!!

And that I physically can't have kids, "Oh shame of you for not having them when you could. Your mother must be so disappointed that she didn't get grandchildren from you".

My ex is happily off with his girlfriend.

My mother after going through heck with my sister and nephew is grateful as anything not to have more.

My current boyfriend loves that I have no kids because his are grown and he does not want to deal with rug rats.