Topic: Heterosexual dating in the 21st Century
jcarrillovi's photo
Thu 12/27/12 05:45 PM
I am wondering what are the dos and donts of dating in the 21st century. I have not dated since 2005 and wondering what are the rules, accepted behavior, conversation and activities involved in dating today? Any advice or stories from your own experience or shared experiences which will help me be prepared?

Keeping an open mind!

Movie07's photo
Thu 12/27/12 05:58 PM
Hello :smile: flowerforyou welcome to the mingle site

ashryn's photo
Thu 12/27/12 06:38 PM
be honest and yet doing something out of the ordinary for a first date not just dinner you can learn so much about a person when you do something fun...for example me and a bit participated in a scavenger hunt for a first date it was so much fun another first date was going ice skating and then roasting hot dogs at a bon fire good luck!!!


no photo
Thu 12/27/12 07:31 PM
it's totally make your own rules, and be resistant to persuasion

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 12/27/12 07:41 PM
Don't believe it when they tell you that good values are out of date and this is how things are done now.

You only have the value you allow yourself to have. If you let someone treat you like a doormat you are sure to get walked on.

Be realistic. Dateing costs money and time and good responsible people usually have those in short supply.

Be the kind of date you deserve. If you are polite, friendly, fun,considerate, and responsible you up your odds of being in demand.

Have and attitude but make it a good one.

perpendicular's photo
Fri 12/28/12 10:05 AM

Don't believe it when they tell you that good values are out of date and this is how things are done now.

You only have the value you allow yourself to have. If you let someone treat you like a doormat you are sure to get walked on.

Be realistic. Dateing costs money and time and good responsible people usually have those in short supply.

Be the kind of date you deserve. If you are polite, friendly, fun,considerate, and responsible you up your odds of being in demand.

Have and attitude but make it a good one.
. This is true but not a given. I been do tht stuff since day one n still single.

jcarrillovi's photo
Sat 12/29/12 05:49 PM
Thanks

jcarrillovi's photo
Sat 12/29/12 05:49 PM
HI!

jcarrillovi's photo
Sat 12/29/12 05:51 PM
laugh

jcarrillovi's photo
Sat 12/29/12 05:52 PM
straight up advice. Thanks

TexasScoundrel's photo
Sat 12/29/12 06:17 PM
The rules are the same today as they have been for the last 30,000 years or so.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 12/29/12 07:23 PM

The rules are the same today as they have been for the last 30,000 years or so.


I agree! Well, almost that long. lol