Topic: starting over
ervin212's photo
Fri 02/08/13 05:13 PM
how hard is it to start over on the site?

Mortman's photo
Fri 02/08/13 10:57 PM
Why start over? You've got an OK profile. Calm down.

This isn't Match.com. The traffic might be a little slower. Be patient. Also, it's probably not a good idea to depend solely on this site for your relationship needs. Get out and meet people. Be friendly and say hi. You can do it.

Some of the best advice I ever got on finding new friends was that I should be open to finding them anywhere and everywhere. You already know to look at parties and bars. Maybe even grocery stores. You should be open to anybody you see, anywhere. Be friendly, engage in conversation, but don't be a jack-***. People get to know you and like you, then they might open your circle of friends to include people you'd never meet, otherwise.

My favorite place to meet people is on public transportation. I ride the train a few times each week and there are literally hundreds of people there. I see some regularly and I may not talk to a person right away, but after seeing the same person a few times, I may talk to them. I'm not scary, since they've seen me before. I actually met my wife while walking from a train, but we didn't really hit it off until I saw her ON the train. Think about the places you go and how you can get to know the people there.

Good luck!

TexasScoundrel's photo
Sat 02/09/13 04:14 AM
You have a good photo and your headline is AWESOME! You may consider changing they way you say things though. Instead of "I've been through a lot of challenges" try something like "I'm a man that takes challenges head on."

no photo
Sat 02/09/13 04:21 AM
If I was you, I'd not state that you were a nice guy, as so many say that, yet it doesn't always ring true. You can't tell just by someone saying it. Also, the bit in your headline "What are u gonna do?", makes it sound like you're half about to start a brawl. lol. Not that you will, It looks okay.

jessejames2's photo
Sat 02/09/13 11:15 PM
I would say starting once again instead of over.

I hate your headline.

Everybody goes through challenges so I wouldn't mention it.

Write something that makes you unique.

To answer your question, impossible, unless you travel like a Globetrotter.

DLR65's photo
Mon 02/11/13 01:00 PM
I think your profile is a good one - open and honest and that you will meet the right lady when the time is right :)