i am 22 yr old IT proffesional from india n i am a closet lesbian...i jus wana make grt lesbian frnds who can undrstand me n talk to me but i dont get that in dis ****in straight mens world so here i am to express my freedom n love to ppl who a like minded and lovely.i wana have a good relationship wd lesbian partnr so if intrested grls pls mail me...

So what is there to not understand in a straight man's world? It is a much bigger world than just a straight man's world.

Good luck on your search but do you have a chip on your shoulder for all things male?

I understand that life in India still has a long way to go towards Woman's Suffrage and equal rights but frankly some of us man pig things do 'get it.' IMO to me the quest for happiness is often tainted by anger and pain and you are surrounded by a bunch of men who themselves have a VERY difficult time admitting to feeling 'contrary' to local custom and culture. This can mess up any chance of having a relationship you want working.

It sucks being objectified (made into an object, and not a person) by the opposite sex. I know cause I get that here in America. Here is is not about who you are but what you can do for the other person. THAT is frustrating in its own right but to carry that along with me is crazy.

Why I say this is I can see the tinge of pain in your search.

But lucky you... There are indeed women who share your needs here so your search should not be all that hard. Happy hunting!

Closets are for clothes, use the door- that is what its there for

People don't understand that have closed minds. I am a lesbian. Most of my friends are straight. I am who i am and know what i am attracted to and love being me :)

All this without the angst against heteros who are tolerant!

You my friend are on the road to a happy life for sure!

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If you don't love yourself how can you love others?