Topic: can you sustain a relatoinship when there is no trust ?
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Sun 03/03/13 02:19 PM
I don;t agree that the relationship was necessarily for the wrong reason in the first place. That doesn't make sense

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Sun 03/03/13 02:20 PM



Depends on the amount and type of trust that is lost.


The question was, "Can you sustain a relationship where there is NO trust?"...


Ah, well, then my answer would have to be that it depends on the type of relationship laugh

I think romantic relationships are unsustainable even where there is little trust.


laugh Then I say stay single, enjoy your freedom, and play the field till the right one comes along and proves you wrong!!pitchfork

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Sun 03/03/13 02:48 PM
If you don't have trust why would you even be around that person?

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Sun 03/03/13 02:53 PM

If you don't have trust why would you even be around that person?


:thumbsup: And you know what else!!laugh I don't understand how you regain trust once someone breaks it...Personally, I would always be waiting for the other shoe to drop and there is no way I'm living my life that way....

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Sun 03/03/13 02:56 PM


If you don't have trust why would you even be around that person?


:thumbsup: And you know what else!!laugh I don't understand how you regain trust once someone breaks it...Personally, I would always be waiting for the other shoe to drop and there is no way I'm living my life that way....
Preach!!! Right on sista:banana: flowerforyou

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Sun 03/03/13 02:58 PM



If you don't have trust why would you even be around that person?


:thumbsup: And you know what else!!laugh I don't understand how you regain trust once someone breaks it...Personally, I would always be waiting for the other shoe to drop and there is no way I'm living my life that way....
Preach!!! Right on sista:banana: flowerforyou


Believe in it brother man!smokin flowerforyou

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Sun 03/03/13 03:09 PM
rofl

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Sun 03/03/13 03:17 PM

rofl


Blame it on Thug Life, I'm innocent mama!laugh laugh


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Sun 03/03/13 03:20 PM



can you sustain a relatoinship when there is no trust ?


Yes, if the couple is willing to work at rebuilding the trust.

No, even if you rebuild the trust their still doubt left.


I also agree...It's never the same...



Agreed!

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Sun 03/03/13 03:22 PM
It depends on how deeply you love your significant other.

IF you are crazy about them, you'll try to make it work, trust or not.

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Sun 03/03/13 03:26 PM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Sun 03/03/13 03:26 PM

It depends on how deeply you love your significant other.

IF you are crazy about them, you'll try to make it work, trust or not.


I know Hippy, but "trying" to make it work is just not good enough...and when it comes to loving and being loved, it shouldn't be....:smile:

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Sun 03/03/13 03:27 PM


It depends on how deeply you love your significant other.

IF you are crazy about them, you'll try to make it work, trust or not.


I know Hippy, but "trying" to make it work is just not good enough...and when it comes to loving and being loved, it shouldn't be....:smile:


Sometimes it makes sense not to trust them. Experience, my first marriage...brokenheart

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Sun 03/03/13 03:34 PM



It depends on how deeply you love your significant other.

IF you are crazy about them, you'll try to make it work, trust or not.


I know Hippy, but "trying" to make it work is just not good enough...and when it comes to loving and being loved, it shouldn't be....:smile:


Sometimes it makes sense not to trust them. Experience, my first marriage...brokenheart


I hear youflowerforyou ...My ex broke my heart too, but he did not break my belief in trust...or love:heart:

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Sun 03/03/13 04:03 PM
Any friendship is based on communication and loyalty.

If either one of those is not there, the friendship is not there.

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Mon 03/04/13 09:08 AM

I don;t agree that the relationship was necessarily for the wrong reason in the first place. That doesn't make sense

lol you had to be in my head at the moment I wrote that lol I'm not the best at articulating my thoughts, my brain rushes on while my fingers thump the keyboard...

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Mon 03/04/13 09:52 AM
a see saw doesnt work with just one person.

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Tue 03/05/13 02:50 AM
The guy who tried to win my trust back, was very clever in his tactics. He actually came across as over-exaggerating his apology. Asking me stuff that he wouldn't have asked before, like moving in together. He would constantly try to get my family members to convince me he was sorry. I thought about it, but couldn't change how I felt. And he didn't budge to even try and prove it. I notice actions, much more than words. ANYTHING can be said but not meant. Why should I buy into what someone says just because it SEEMS good?

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Tue 03/05/13 04:08 AM
No!

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Tue 03/05/13 04:16 AM
The simple answer is no. It is better to live alone if you can't trust them or they can't trust you.

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Tue 03/05/13 09:36 AM
Absoutly never,once you forgive you are really giving permission for it to happen again.