well i guess it is in your court

SHE is calling you

if you truly love her

maybe just feel it out a little

she may have realized that she messed up

but you need to realize there are some miles between ya now

does she expect you to move there or

is she wanting to come back there

and if she wants to come back there is

she wanting to stay with you

listen to what she says

and analyze it to see what little signs are there

what ever you decide i hope it is good for you both

good luck and may much good come your way

For the first year and few months I could trust her...Being friends for now might be better. But I think she knows she messed up...Her family use to love me. I could go on vacation with her, I could sleep at her house even with her mom home. Helll we slept in the same bed. Now her new BF nobody likes. And I think she now realizes she made a mistake of hurting me although I broke up with her. Hell during our first year together there electric went out at there apartment since it was unpaid and me being the nice guy to her family I put it in my name. But Im a bad person now to her family.

Txsgal she knew him a little but not well and he liked her and he got into her head. The other thing is when this all first happened she cheated on him.,.....WITH ME because she said she wanted to get back with me. I think her problem is she doesnt like to be alone.

yo whats is tomorrow going to bring huh that's the question right i min int your with her the next with him ummm whats to stop her from having her cake and eating it to hmmmmm can you say bounce from one to the other when he comes to she her or she goes to see him hmmmmm can you say she can be faithfull ummm that's the question ummm you have a lot to think about hmmmmm like are you willing to get hurt again or the bigger problem aids

she already has a new boyfriend, a week after breakin up? move on!

With a few deviations, things sounds familiar to me. Yeah! what to do???

Grieving you had your answers in three separate threads...quit it!!!




As to you Shamrock....learn your worth...you ex, is an ex...and yes, you can love her...from afar, but I wonder what it is you are loving? When she hurt you so, at the end of your relationship with her? Are you sure it isn't the attention you are loving now?

She has a partner, and a relationship, no matter how healthy or unhealthy it is....with someone else...

Even if she has challenges respecting boundaries, doesn't mean you do.

exes are like underwear...you need to change them daily!!!

run away!!!!
run away!!!!

Hey Shamrock, what do YOU want in life??

You said SHE'S diggin her new BF, you said her family doesn't like you no more.

Its like this,, see her every once in awhile for the sex,(NOT MY CHOICE).

Talk her into leaving her new BF and coming back to you.

Or KNOW its all COMPLEXED and get away from her and move on,(my choice) you BOTH only like each others SEX,,NOT your HEARTS...

Coming from a man who has had his heart torn out ,chewed up, and spit out on ground.....screw the b***h

theres better women out there more deserving of your love , dude

i say again...
RUN AWAY!!!!!!!!!
RUN AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
RUN AWAY FAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

yeah I agree that you are loving the attention you are getting right now, but it's a land mine, I would recommend backing off before you get blown up!
it also sounds like you love to be needed...and she knows it and is using it as a lure.

But Jesse what shall I do?
Can I stay by U until I know what to do?

I'm with Izzie on this one. Run fast and take your heart with you.

Well OP........., all I can say is, when my "EX" and I were together she said, she die for me.............Now that we are apart, I wish she keep her promise !!!

As my Mom says, "Follow your first mind."
if you sense you can't trust her you are probably right
some things just aren't meant to be

If you feel you can't trust her
then leave her alone
better for everyone involved

RUN! my x did that and i kept taking her back till we got engaged then she did it again dammit

musta been waiting for the ring

shamrock this must be a trend,I just went through a very very simliar scenerio here. Put another post up about the results,I would love to know how yours turns out.