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Topic: Do u think Sex is necessary for this age....
Jax904's photo
Fri 01/03/14 02:36 PM
Edited by Jax904 on Fri 01/03/14 02:38 PM
Went without it for 2 years. After six months, I was able to tolerate not having it. After a year, I was able to paint over the scratches I left all over my walls and began to feel like I would survive life.

Then....Bam-Boom-Biff-Wham... had it again (3 months ago) and was afraid of the monkey on my back... after the third time The soldier was fully into the battle again... but alas... she was a HO... (Hoe, hoh, whore?) who wanted to sleep with every man she met online...

I only have 5 more months before I can tolerate not having it again, 11 months and I can paint the walls again...etc.:cry: brokenheart

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Fri 01/03/14 02:56 PM
I totally agree wth u..marplgfl!..

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Fri 01/03/14 03:00 PM
Thnk it depends on da individual..it shud be spontaneuos..& not forced or assumed!..sex is butiful wen u connect wth dat special sum 1...jst saying!

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Fri 01/03/14 03:57 PM


Hi all,
Lots of good ideas shared.
I think before any kind of sexual activity takes place there has to be some sense of a relationship or connectedness. This might develop or it might not. It might develop over a few hours or days, weeks...........
For me it has been so long I'm not sure how things might work out but I think that within a relationship things would flow naturally.
I agree with the idea of what constitutes sex is down to the participants and again part of the relationship.
I wouldn't want to leap on a woman any more than I would want her to leap on me.
Let's get that relationship first !


Well Said! :angel:


easier said than done... so far no one wants a realtionship

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Fri 01/03/14 08:29 PM
good sex yes, but sex for the sake of having it - no, or sex with a guy who is selfish in bed - no.....done with the latter two but will go for the first in a heartbeatdrool

I don;t think I could connect with a partner who was not interested or not functioning sexually. It's too important to the intimacy equation and I am not interested in "creative" ways around the type of sex I enjoy.....TBHwinking

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Fri 01/03/14 09:32 PM
yes, its a life spice.

iwil55's photo
Wed 01/08/14 02:36 PM
I think first one needs to distinguish between having sex and making love.
If there is an emotional connection, then it is usually the latter. Generally speaking, this will be much more physically and obviously emotionally satisfying.
I see a lot of mentions about selfish men in bed. Beleive me, there are selfish women too. Setting that aside,
If both the man and the woman are kind, patient, considerate, giving, creative, playful, and have some modicum of skill, then making love or having sex can be extremely physically satifying.
In that context, if I cannot make love, then I am more than willing to share having sex. And not just once, twice, or thrice, but for as long as we each have the stamina and/or desire to do so.
I beleive I will have this attitude until the day I die.

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Fri 01/10/14 04:00 PM
Well I'm 60 an i want it all time not just 2 or 3 times more do they call that old puberty lol

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Fri 01/10/14 04:01 PM
Every time I read this thread title I get horny...rofl

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Sun 01/12/14 10:44 AM
i agree with what you say you always have to keep sex exciting even by trying new ways to do so and have respect for your partner

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Sun 01/12/14 09:27 PM
sex is a normal healthy craving,if you are fit and eat the right food ,by instinct you normally crave sex at different times,i,m a naturist nudist,i am in the company of a lot of naked women at the beach most summer days,and it gives you a high sexualfeeling ,even if you don't show it physically,its all part of human makeup I think,sowanting sex at an older age ,its normaljmo

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Sun 01/12/14 10:43 PM
Im only 39 buy feel like sex keeps you feeling young:banana:

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Sun 01/12/14 11:12 PM
Don't really think it about the sex,it about the connection,heart to heart,the warmth,the passion, raw love!in it purest form! Sex with out that connection is just empty!

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Thu 01/16/14 04:03 AM
I'd much rather have all those butterfly feeling in my heart than be constantly wanting sex.... Is that all you guys think about? There is so much more. Rather have the satisfaction of knowing that I'm loved which is for a life time than something that lasts for a few minutes. flowerforyou

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Thu 01/16/14 05:52 AM

sex is a normal healthy craving,if you are fit and eat the right food ,by instinct you normally crave sex at different times,i,m a naturist nudist,i am in the company of a lot of naked women at the beach most summer days,and it gives you a high sexualfeeling ,even if you don't show it physically,its all part of human makeup I think,sowanting sex at an older age ,its normaljmo


love Who are you and how did you find us?...Welcome x 100 !!flowers

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Thu 01/16/14 10:26 AM
Edited by panchovanilla on Thu 01/16/14 10:27 AM
:tongue: Thank goodness food isn't like sex. Otherwise there would be a lot of people starving while they thought and talked and tried to figure out eatting.

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Thu 01/16/14 10:29 AM

:tongue: Thank goodness food isn't like sex. Otherwise there would be a lot of people starving while they thought and talked and tried to figure out eatting.


You do make a point!laugh

Welcome!!flowerforyou

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Thu 01/16/14 10:34 AM
Thank you:smile:

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Fri 01/17/14 10:13 AM

Every time I read this thread title I get horny...rofl

Every time I read this post...I get horny:banana:

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Fri 01/17/14 12:00 PM

:tongue: Thank goodness food isn't like sex. Otherwise there would be a lot of people starving while they thought and talked and tried to figure out eatting.



yep, thank goodness we have the instincts to keep living, by feeding our body the fuel to do so

people do starve without food, but not without MEAT<, one type of food

many people live healthy lives without it,, however if no one ate it we would probably be overpopulated with animals,,,,


similarly, I think too many people see sex as a NEED, instead of just being one type of emotional/physical fulfillment

I believe we have a need for human contact, but not a need specifically for SEX,,,, Im pretty sure of it actually since people have lived longer as virgins than others have that weren't,,,

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