what to do when your other half doesnt help with bills?

How bills?only here girls looking for bills only bills

Don't feed them or comfort them, they're freeloaders.

What Hippie said. They are using you pure and simple. Either sit down and talk to them and lay down some rules and make them help out, or they need to go. It is not working if only one does ALL the work and the other leeches.

That is a parasite.

if he's TRULY my other half WE do the bills!

i agree with all the replies

Same as with a room-mate that stops paying their share of the rent; rid yourself of them.

If there is no valid reason, like Traumer said, rid yourself of them...ASAP...

If he is laid off or on disability he may have a legal excuse for not have any money to help out on bills. Otherwise, he maybe a free loader and rid yourself of that if you are not married. If you are married, I guess you are stuck with him.

I guess it depends on the situation and reason for not paying half the bills.

The situation is that you not meet the preson and they are say two days realtion to give money to pay my bills and one say to me the first day realtions to plz help me for bills.

well that strange he shud...guess hes nt the better half/....no sex fr him hell pay dnt woryy

Give us a little more info.

Toss him/her out into the street along with all their crap.

I would suggest that you don't have the best communication if you are living together and not openly discussing finances.

If you are openly discussing finances and have a system figured out that he is not keeping his end of, then you may just be dealing with someone who is not good with financial commitments.

Either way, I think it would be a good idea to communicate with him about your financial concerns. When it comes to financial problems, putting it off can only make it worse

To most shelter and hunger are strong motivators.