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Topic: Do women prefer men to be experienced as far as dating?
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Thu 05/02/13 07:23 AM









What do you think?


Experience isn't necessary, common sense is!.... Jessy's crutch people!!...It's not that hard!...Social skills should be "firmly" in place by the time a "boy or girl" graduates high school...Who wants to date someone who doesn't know how to date?whoa ...And knowing how to date doesn't have a damn thing to do with knowing how to kiss....although a good kisser can take the sting off a chitty date...


Yeah, they didn't actually teach dating at my high school, so that's probably why I'm still single.


Teach dating?noway ...Who said anything about teaching dating...


Well, you seem to be taking it for granted that everyone gets dating experience at high school, or that if you don't then you're an undatable loser as far as I can tell from that post.


We read very different things in that post, then. She said social skills should be in place by the time someone graduates high school. I think that's true.


Well, it's not. They didn't teach social skills at my high school.


Who said anything about "teaching" social skills in high school?...You seem to be mistakenly applying your opinions and feelings about the topic to my words just for arguments sake......Dating, social skills, and common sense were not formally "taught" in my high school either.....Dating was a very big part of my high school experience though and I anticipated reaching age 16 because that was the age my parents deemed suitable for unchaperoned dating...So Tawt, by the time I graduated highschool, I had a pretty good grip on the three R's, the D, the CS, and the SS....:tongue:


Well, good for you. What's "chaperoned dating" if it isn't adults supervising or organising it?

Yeah, dating is a big part of the high school experience and there's social pressure to be doing that. I have no clue what your post was meant to be about but it's a fact that some kids learn social skills at that age and go out on dates and school proms and all of that jazz and for other kids puberty is a horrible confusing time and they are just moody teenagers that think that the last thing that they want is to be socialised and chaperoned into a common sensical model of how people are supposed to behave.


If you have no clue, why not just ask for clarification?...My response to the OP is based on my experiences, preferences, and opins, not yours...:smile:

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Thu 05/02/13 08:14 AM

Dating and kissing are a lot like swimming.

Most of the learning comes from getting wet!
I just about choked to death on my bagel when I read that. rofl

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Thu 05/02/13 09:48 AM







What do you think?


Experience isn't necessary, common sense is!.... Jessy's crutch people!!...It's not that hard!...Social skills should be "firmly" in place by the time a "boy or girl" graduates high school...Who wants to date someone who doesn't know how to date?whoa ...And knowing how to date doesn't have a damn thing to do with knowing how to kiss....although a good kisser can take the sting off a chitty date...


Yeah, they didn't actually teach dating at my high school, so that's probably why I'm still single.


Teach dating?noway ...Who said anything about teaching dating...


Well, you seem to be taking it for granted that everyone gets dating experience at high school, or that if you don't then you're an undatable loser as far as I can tell from that post.


We read very different things in that post, then. She said social skills should be in place by the time someone graduates high school. I think that's true.


Well, it's not. They didn't teach social skills at my high school.


No one ever said anything about social skills being taught in school.

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Thu 05/02/13 10:23 AM








What do you think?


Experience isn't necessary, common sense is!.... Jessy's crutch people!!...It's not that hard!...Social skills should be "firmly" in place by the time a "boy or girl" graduates high school...Who wants to date someone who doesn't know how to date?whoa ...And knowing how to date doesn't have a damn thing to do with knowing how to kiss....although a good kisser can take the sting off a chitty date...


Yeah, they didn't actually teach dating at my high school, so that's probably why I'm still single.


Teach dating?noway ...Who said anything about teaching dating...


Well, you seem to be taking it for granted that everyone gets dating experience at high school, or that if you don't then you're an undatable loser as far as I can tell from that post.


We read very different things in that post, then. She said social skills should be in place by the time someone graduates high school. I think that's true.


Well, it's not. They didn't teach social skills at my high school.


No one ever said anything about social skills being taught in school.


Yeah, whatever.

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Thu 05/02/13 10:44 AM
Most people learn social skills by being around people. Once you get out of high school, you should have the basics of that down. And if you've got your social skills down, you should be able to get through a date.

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Thu 05/02/13 10:59 AM
I think I'd prefer experienced, but it doesn't matter to me if he isn't. It's never been a big deal for me. As long as we got along with each other, he could learn along the way. He is who he is. I can't re-write his past. Either way is fine with me :)

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Thu 05/02/13 11:27 AM

Most people learn social skills by being around people. Once you get out of high school, you should have the basics of that down. And if you've got your social skills down, you should be able to get through a date.


Okay, I'll maybe try that then.

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Thu 05/02/13 01:07 PM










What do you think?


Experience isn't necessary, common sense is!.... Jessy's crutch people!!...It's not that hard!...Social skills should be "firmly" in place by the time a "boy or girl" graduates high school...Who wants to date someone who doesn't know how to date?whoa ...And knowing how to date doesn't have a damn thing to do with knowing how to kiss....although a good kisser can take the sting off a chitty date...


Yeah, they didn't actually teach dating at my high school, so that's probably why I'm still single.


Teach dating?noway ...Who said anything about teaching dating...


Well, you seem to be taking it for granted that everyone gets dating experience at high school, or that if you don't then you're an undatable loser as far as I can tell from that post.


We read very different things in that post, then. She said social skills should be in place by the time someone graduates high school. I think that's true.


Well, it's not. They didn't teach social skills at my high school.


Who said anything about "teaching" social skills in high school?...You seem to be mistakenly applying your opinions and feelings about the topic to my words just for arguments sake......Dating, social skills, and common sense were not formally "taught" in my high school either.....Dating was a very big part of my high school experience though and I anticipated reaching age 16 because that was the age my parents deemed suitable for unchaperoned dating...So Tawt, by the time I graduated highschool, I had a pretty good grip on the three R's, the D, the CS, and the SS....:tongue:


Well, good for you. What's "chaperoned dating" if it isn't adults supervising or organising it?

Yeah, dating is a big part of the high school experience and there's social pressure to be doing that. I have no clue what your post was meant to be about but it's a fact that some kids learn social skills at that age and go out on dates and school proms and all of that jazz and for other kids puberty is a horrible confusing time and they are just moody teenagers that think that the last thing that they want is to be socialised and chaperoned into a common sensical model of how people are supposed to behave.


If you have no clue, why not just ask for clarification?...My response to the OP is based on my experiences, preferences, and opins, not yours...:smile:


Right, thanks for explaining that you weren't basing that on my experiences, preferences and opins.

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