How many time's has this guy been with someone, cause if he only had you and you only, he may not know what's he's doing at all to you, or just think's this is the way it should be.

Good luck to you, i know you'll need it.

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhsssssssh I would love to have a man that like touching you and let you know they care sure would not complain about it one bit heck noooooooooooooooo would enjoy every minute of it lol

where is the line when is enough to much i love to hold hands touch snuggle what is to clingy

Shoot there is no limits when your with the one you want to be with it's all good to know that person wants to be with you becaue they want to be there.

Southern Bee,, What can I say,,,,
"YOU WOULDN'T LIKE "ME"!!!!!!!
I love to hold hands and to be "CLOSE" in public or alone.
And, I love "HER" to be "THAT" way also...

Close is cool, but its "NOT" a "HAVE TO" thing...
Showing CARING, is just NICE!

I myself don't think you should have told him through the myspace thing....I think there is a lack of communication there! All I can say is that maybe you do look at him more like a friend? How do you really feel about him???

If you care about this guy at all, you should not have told him on my space.

As for him being "clingy", if your not into it, then you probably just do not have the same feelings for him that he has for you.

aww he needs his mommy

if it is the right person then you can't have enough touching
therefore he is not the right person...at this point in time,
the balance is a bit off...

when i am with mine i can never get enough. and she adores being touched by me. too much is never enough touching when *really* in love.

Just tell him as nicely as you can that you feel uncomfortable with it. Period. If he gets upset, then that's something you need to address before things get any farther along

You obviously arent comfortable with the touching issue....don't be mean to him.....tell him your feelings....and try to think if it were you in his shoes!!

You obviously arent comfortable with the touching issue....don't be mean to him.....tell him your feelings....and try to think if it were you in his shoes!!

threads like this make me realize that i need to be very careful in finding the right woman
because i'm very affectionate, so somebody who just don't feel confortable with
will just make me feel unconfortable with the relationship
just my opinion

I came from a very un touchy feely family. No hugs, nothing, no I love you, nothing!!! I would look in awe at my friends families who hugged and kissed and said I love you etc....even the aunts and uncles.

I vowed that when I had my son, we would be a huggy family because I wanted him to know he was loved. I taught him well....soo well that he has now "made" my Dad say I love you to him and give him a hug and kiss....

He actually asked my Dad why he didnt say I love you!!!! A total awakening to my dad I tell ya!!! Now he says I love you to my son....not me......but at least he says it to him!

Ditto Gyspy. But mine died BEFORE "that" was ever said by either of us.
So NOW, Me and my kids "NEVER" talk w/o them three words..lol
Funny how LIFE can "MAKE" us do different than our on parents,lol..

yes certain things.....and you are right, I never say goodbye to my son without both of us saying I love you......even if its on the phone.

there needs to be balance and a feeling that as a woman we have not conquered completely..our play mate

when a guy fawns all over us ..it takes out some of the inspiration to fawn all over him....

i could never handle being with someone that has to touch me all the time or even for too long at any given time!!!

it feels like i wanna swat a fly away or something. sheesh ..get over it already!!

this obvious biological urge men have to devour, penetrate, search and destroy all resistence...is sickening

women want an equal!!
not someone they can cleverly seduce...those are fun for awhile but get boring very fast...

so for the guy up there that said ...if you dont want to be touched.... don't look for a relationship....grow up

we don't want a lap dog...we want a grown man.

and as for not being truely in love if you don't like all the touching!!!!
that's a crock of $hit too!!!

no one has a right to qualify someone elses feelings based on such stupid criteria...

my capacity to love is tremendous and deep ...but if a guy is touching me all the time ,even gently i will either smack him finally (in jest), or become so "in avoidance" as to back off completely...

it will kill any feeling because it says he is too needy and has no respect for my personal space...to allow me a choice ALWAYS to be touched or not.

i still like holding hands

Im a touchy feely guy!!!

I love touchin stuff!!

I love to feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel too.

Some women just dont understand!!!

woman are like cars ya gotta touch m ,to tune m. lol