Should I care if my grandma thinks her son forgot about her?

yes put a boot in his a** make him go spend time with her before its to late

i never got to meet mine on either side

I cant make my dad do anything for one. And he saw her on Tuesday

all you can do is remember she is your grandma



the rest is up to them

how some of my family dont care about me but i do care for them

She wants me to feel bad for her. I just cant anymore.

If it's a guilt trip issue then leave it go it's not worth it to you

Does she have some dementia or any mental health issues? If he saw her Tuesday, not sure of her issue. Or does she want more attention from you??

I agree with spending as much time as you can with your grandparents while they are here. My grandpa was my best friend in the world, I was lucky, he lived to be almost 97 and died when I was 34, so I got to know him a long time. Most people are not so lucky, and his mind was sharp as a tack the whole time.

Sounds like she has some issue bothering her, maybe you need to dig and find out what the real issue is.

I love her I really do. I have lived w/her for an year and a half. Oh my its hard

just let here know you care about her and have no control over the actions of others


and just tell her every time she complains about someone


i love you grandma but i have no control over them


thats all you can do

The issue is that my grandpa died last year. They were together for 66 years

she is lonely

maybe you should get her in her to visit

I have a brother and 3 sisters that dont do crap

Oh good dad is talking to her now. And shes bit*hing about house. Great shes yelling at him.

I never hear from my oldest son and weather you're a mom or a grandma,it hurts a lot.

That makes more sense. She is missing her husband who died recently and taking it out on your dad. You live there so you get it first hand.

I moved in to take care of my parents in 2003 - what a mess, they were not making it financially or medically and then mom died in 01/06, and had dad 24/7, WOW. They were married 56 years. So I know pretty much first hand what you are going through. My brothers also did nothing.

Like Adj4u said, just tell her you love her, spend time with her so she is not feeling all alone. Your dad will have to deal with the issues too, she is still adjusting to the loss of her husband. You are doing a good thing being there for her though. Take care.

i never met my grandpa.he passed on 3 months before my mom was born.my grandma passed away 8 days AFTER my 17th birthday.did i cry? yes.internally i did.i was her pallbearer.my grandparents on my dads side i never really knew.so it did not bother me at all.BUT it just about killed me litterally when my mom passed on 23 months EXACTLY after my grandma.remember this:YOUR LOVED ONES ARE ALWAYS WITH YOU NO MATTER WHAT. a pastor told me this.my dad just passed away in janurary of this year.him and i were friends,i NEVER had a real FATHER-SON relationship with him.

I do my best. She drives me nuts tho. She treats me like im 5 and doesnt think I know anything.

I wish I had more help from my family.