I keep meeting men who want only one thing booty..where is the one man i want to spend my life with .to walk hand and hand with for better or worst where are you,why is it so hard to find the right man out there. is it so easy to just have a booty call then to be the love of someones life,IS it that easy to just turn you emotions off.or worst to cheat on you mate for a few Min's of bless.i hope that there is someone out there for me i guess i need to be patient but its hard to just walk away could you just walk away..

what would you do in this case.....:

i know how u feel hun

sometimes that BOOTY call can turn into something wonderful???
ya think?
sometimes a booty call can make you feel loved .. ???
even if just for an hour??
thats better than just sittin home alone isnt it?as long as the booty call is respected ?? gosh I dont know..
so girl..
shake your booty .. shake shake shake
shake your booty.. heheh
enjoy what life has given you ... like i said it may just turn into something wonderful.. [well as long as you know who you doin the booty with!! ]

I think this is in the wrong area but no dont just live with booty calls all the time. I did that with someone for years and that was all it was which over that length of time made me feel even worse. Its much better to be alone than to be lonely with someone right there...

Amen to THAT!!! Us women don't need to put up with the BS that these men hand out. Read up on NPD and sociopaths and just about every man you meet online is one!!! I've lived the hell of meeting my 'soulmate'....and watching him be online asking other women for sex and asking other women to marry him while we were engaged.Also sending out pics of his privates the day we got our marriage license. So, BE CAREFUL....I'm learning[very hard. because I'm that nurturing loving person] to love ME & my daughters and our little family of pets.I don't NEED a man for my happiness! It's hard, but as the last poster said...it's better being alone than being alone with your 'soulmate' by your side.Men are very OVER RATED!!!

Whatever!

Not all man online or off line just want booty and or sex whichever.

And not all man will share there sexual body parts before they get married etc, and if your man did that to you then well he more unless didn't want to be with you in the first place and I can only guess and take a guess at why you where about to marry him is because you had unprotacted sex and ended up having kids leading to married like most people now a days. And if I'm wrong about that sorry.

But not all man are like what the first poster said and the last one had said.

There are good man out there if you woman only take the time to get to find them and know them then maybe you would have somebody who cares as much as you do.

And as far as men being over Rated lol lol lol that's a laugh a second, women are as much over rated if not more and or the same as men are and yet women can go rape somebody and shot and whatever else they feel like doing and get away with bloodly murder and if a man did the same thing they go right to jail, it's crazy but it's true.

No human is ever 100% right or wrong and or perfect.

People make mistakes and you have to grow up and learn from them not look at every guy as if there the same as the last one etc.

Just because you woman have had bad relationships and or none, doesn't mean you should make that your look on out life as how all men are because not all men are like that etc.

This makes me angery as every woman on this site or most of them start topics up like this and bash men like no tomorrow but yet you don't see noting close to this from men, hmm I wonder why could it be some men choose to learn from there mistakes and move on unlike women who bash the whole hell out of guys just because they still haven't found the right guy and or more.

Crazy but it makes me angery that women think all men are like this when it's clearly untrue, because you few woman have yet to find true love and or the guy you can trust and yet you rather bash men like no tomorrow to make you feel better.

I may never get it but life must go on. If being lonely is the best thing then why not, but you never know one day when you wake up and wonder why you hadn't tired a bit more to look for the one man that will make you happy instead of bash them to death.

Oh well your choices.

Just all I have to say is not all men are like this.

Surely yeah some or most men would like to get them some while others just want to work on a relationship etc etc.

Life isn't fair and either are woman that bashing men and or make topics like this etc so they can have more woman bash more men.

well for one thing i wasing blasting any one i was asking a ??.yes i know not avery man is out for booty,am just saying i want a chance to be loved and to love even if its for a hour...

aredrosebaby, I understand and agree with you. I would like to be loved too and be in a relationship etc etc.

But that has yet to happen and that's life but I don't go around putting down others because of life and how things end up working out etc.

I just move on and wait for the best and or something more better to come along.

Thus far noting has come along as in a woman to talk to and hang out with and have fun etc, go to music events or the mall and or whereever etc etc.

well good luck i hope you find what your looking for johncenawife, sorry my words upset you ,

aredrosebaby it really wasn't your words, it was more inless how nascarmom9 was talkin and all.

But hey what do I know, everybody has there own opinions and views.

I just think it sucks when people are so closed minded and say all men are jaccka$$ or whatever, I mean I could say something near that about woman but I choose not to.

Again no hard feelings, just upsets me when a lot of woman on JSH all seemly bash men because they had one bad cookie so to speak.

well i have had more than one of them but am still standing ,have a great day

well aredrosebaby even if you have had more then one would you give up that fast and easy, it sure sound's like it to me. However Maybe I'm wrong.

It's like a mom or dad used to say if you fallen off a bike you got to pick your self up and dust your self off and try again, maybe it's not the same total thing that applys here but still if somebody gives up that easy lee then well how will they ever know if they will ever meet that one true guy or girl.

And like they say things take time, they don't happen over night.

But I'm sure every body here knows that.

true i am still looking for love ,but am not in a hurry

Yeah as one Phil Collins would say " You Can't Hurry Love ".

Best of luck to every one and you.

Um, I think
it was The Supremes
who first recorded
"You Can't Hurry Love".

Phil's was a remake.

NEWS FLASH............there are JUST AS MANY ladies "ONLY" wanting booty calls as there are guys!!!!!!

EVERYONE has to "DO" only what "THEY" want to do!
And in each person's lives, YOU can make it a mental issue of JUST A BOOTY CALL or JUST a chance to FEEL and KNOW "THAT" other person.

If I date a lady, I am probably going to sleep with her!
And if "THAT" or "WE" evolve into MORE, then GREAT, but if "WE" don't then its still GREAT as we did have fun and would stay good friends.

NOW, some "PEOPLE" will turn "THAT" not working out issue into ,"OH,"THEY" JUST WANTED A BOOTY CALL!!!!

WE are "ALL" adults and some "WILL" expect SEX, and "SOME" will expect to wait a long time to "DO THAT"?

What really "MATTERS" to me is "HOW" she is looking at the act of SEX, is "THAT" all she wants? Or is SHE also looking to find an "ALL arond FRIEND ,,,,,AND,,,,LOVER, to "MAYBE" blossom into a "REAL" love of two HEARTS!

I have felt "USED" before, and it "SUCKS", but to be open and explore each other to see and find out "MORE" about each other and their DESIRES of making LOVE, is only human!! To me.

mnhiker, your right, I just couldn't think of who sing that song first.

iam4u that is what I've been trying to state but I was the only guy here until now.

ok i give up ,laters