You know me. No problem getting dates. Finds something wrong with every guy and dumps him or drives him nuts. I am wondering if I should take like a year break from dating or what. I am just mentally exhausted. I have gotten to the point where a break up doesn't even phase me. As my one friend says "Ding ding ding! NEXT"!! I mean if they are a bad match early on, I toss them. I don't even wait to see if it will get better. I really feel like if my attitude is this bad, it's best not to date. What do you guys think?

Mebbe Cupid has bad aim for you right now... Never give up hope!

I agree dating sucks, but trying is better than not trying at all.
If things don't work out at least you know you tried. And how many real true loves does one actually meet in a life time, if any? Just one or a few, so I would say you never know until you take a chance and sometimes special people cross your path when you least expect it!!!

I don't know you, but as a casual observer I think that maybe the problem doesn't lie in the guys so much as your attitude towards dating in general. No person is perfect. Everyone has imperfections. I'd suggest approaching dating from a friendship standpoint. Accept the person for who they are first and determine from there whether dating might be the next logical step. When you find that something about them that bothers you, step back and think about whether it's really bothering you or if it's something in you that is keeping you from connecting with them on an emotional level. Maybe if you really look at the things that bug you, you'll realize it's not as big a deal as it seems.

Not again!

If you desire a long term relatonship, I would say change your tradegy seek better mates. Just dating usually is short term for many people, and usually end up from partner to partner. Imo

don;t ask me

my love life has caution tape around it

I avoid dating because it is generally boring with both of us restless to be somewhere else (me especailly) - so I avoid that

my loverman will just have to be intriguing before I will date him

I don;t do the meet & greets over coffee thing any more

Bahahaha. I read the title quick..and thought it said...Tired of Serial Killing...
I was going to post..NO

have you been spending too much time with F&L???

Tired of cereal dating?

I'm not surprised. Captain Crunch is old enough to be your father. Lucky Charm is way too short for you. Tony the Tiger would probably be jealous of your affection for Hello Kitty. Toucan Sam is bird-brained. The Trix Rabbit . . .

What?




Oh. You said serial dating.

Hahaheehee..as I was typing it..you n fear came to mind..I thought they are
The only two that will appreciate this

well, my love life has crime scene tape around it (it was killed long ago by a failed marriage). My lovergirl will undoubtedly be intrigued by my psyche profiles before she would ever consider dating me. As far as killing cereal goes, double bag at the grocery store. The other day I dropped a box of cheerios and two quarts of milk off the bike.

Leaving a trail of cheerios to find your way back? The milk might have been a bit of overkill.

Cut down that crime scene tape and get back in there!!

profiles don't cut it - I've been online a long time - people can put any freakin thing in a profile

very little intrigues me (I do have hope anyway) but I do sympathize with trying to bring groceries home on a harley - it's a pain unless you have a roadbike with good saddlebags

Thanks Shortfire. Actually, "failed marriage" were the kindest words I could muster. It was a massacre. I still have mental issues long after the divorce, but I'm making progress, and hey, I am on a dating site.

aces, great association...lol

I was talking about the analytical profiles written by psychiatrists on mental patients(case in point; 1j9b6c5).

I was talking about the analytical profiles written by psychiatrists on mental patients(case in point; 1j9b6c5).

Yeah I'm with you there. Massacre seems pretty appropriate. Keep your chin up. There's always hope.