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Topic: Fellas....if you had to choose...
1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 09:25 PM
Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship? Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items. Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for?

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Fri 08/09/13 09:28 PM
Boys will be boys. Toys are just that, toys. A loving relationship should be forever.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 09:35 PM
Boys will be boys. Toys are just that, toys. A loving relationship should be forever. I would also give up my boy toy for a good relationship.

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Fri 08/09/13 09:38 PM
Yes, but could you have a meaningful relationship with Tommy boy?

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 09:39 PM
Yes, but could you have a meaningful relationship with Tommy boy? Who?

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Fri 08/09/13 09:42 PM
Oh Cyndi, you mean to say no to Chris Farley?

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Fri 08/09/13 09:47 PM
i said it before and i'll say it again you get nothing for nothing expect it when you're backseat driving and your hands ain't on the wheel ohkay now that i got that out of my system, it shouldn't have to be about a man giving up his life for a woman or her giving up her life for him. an adult male and an adult female should be able to merge their separate lives together and find some common ground. on occasion he could go with her to do something she likes and she could go with him to do something he likes. can't we all just get along

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 09:48 PM
Oh Cyndi, you mean to say no to Chris Farley? Oh that one...Big guy in a little coat...Tommy boy. But I say no to everyone.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 09:52 PM
i said it before and i'll say it again you get nothing for nothing expect it when you're backseat driving and your hands ain't on the wheel ohkay now that i got that out of my system, it shouldn't have to be about a man giving up his life for a woman or her giving up her life for him. an adult male and an adult female should be able to merge their separate lives together and find some common ground. on occasion he could go with her to do something she likes and she could go with him to do something he likes. can't we all just get along Nicely said. This is more about extreme circumstances, like going through a hardship.

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Fri 08/09/13 09:57 PM
A circumcision would be extreme, and a hardship at my age. <<<nearly faints at the thought.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 10:03 PM
A circumcision would be extreme, and a hardship at my age. <<<nearly faints at the thought. Whoa there! Let's not get THAT extreme. Anyway, I said boy toys. When you're in a relationship...that one's not YOUR toy!

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Fri 08/09/13 10:05 PM
Well...this is easy. Since I don't really care about guy toys....cars ,bikes,guns,etc....it wouldn't bother me. What would bother me...would be a woman having the gall to ask me to give up something I like. That...I would construe as jealous insecurity. Everyone should get to retain some of their individuality. Sure there needs to be compromises...time together and time to still be your own person. If I was flat out told...."I don't want you to (fill in the blank)" I would be disappointed.

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Fri 08/09/13 10:09 PM
A circumcision would be extreme, and a hardship at my age. <<<nearly faints at the thought. Whoa there! Let's not get THAT extreme. Anyway, I said boy toys. When you're in a relationship...that one's not YOUR toy! Is that a discreet way of saying I should quit playing with it?

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 10:14 PM Edited by 1Cynderella on Fri 08/09/13 10:16 PM
Well...this is easy. Since I don't really care about guy toys....cars ,bikes,guns,etc....it wouldn't bother me. What would bother me...would be a woman having the gall to ask me to give up something I like. That...I would construe as jealous insecurity. Everyone should get to retain some of their individuality. Sure there needs to be compromises...time together and time to still be your own person. If I was flat out told...."I don't want you to (fill in the blank)" I would be disappointed. Yeah....my bad. I should have clarified the point better. By "for the good of your relationship" I meant that it's a good relationship but going through a hardship of some sort. No one is making any demands. It would be your own choice to give something up for the sake of the relationship....to be able to stay together.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Fri 08/09/13 10:16 PM
Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship? Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items. Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? Boy toys? What boy toys?

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 10:20 PM
A circumcision would be extreme, and a hardship at my age. <<<nearly faints at the thought. Whoa there! Let's not get THAT extreme. Anyway, I said boy toys. When you're in a relationship...that one's not YOUR toy! Is that a discreet way of saying I should quit playing with it? Only if you're taking it away from her to play by yourself.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Fri 08/09/13 10:21 PM
Sure....I would sacrifice for the good thing I got. These days...it is no longer about me...it is about we.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 10:23 PM
Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship? Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items. Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? Boy toys? What boy toys? You've never heard of motorcycles and boats and sports cars referred to as boys toys before? In Kansas City we have boys toys conventions. I suppose one day someone will sue.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Fri 08/09/13 10:25 PM
Sure....I would sacrifice for the good thing I got. These days...it is no longer about me...it is about we. I have another thread asking the gals if they'd give up their "stuff" too. I'm getting more responses here though. Curious, that.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4693	Sat 08/10/13 01:08 AM
Could you give up your boy toys for the good of your relationship? Could you give up your motorcycle, boat, or man cave or comparable items. Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? This is a conspiracy to get guys to part with their things because women don't like guys to have them, they come up with ways to get you to part with them. You must have heard the words, "You think more of that ********** than you do of me!" Sorry and all that, but unless it is a question of life or death it isn't going to happen. You can have the girlfriend/wife, all you need to do is take over the payments.