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So it's been 7 months since my ex-partner and the mother of my 2 beautiful children took off with my son and won't let me see him. Every now and then she likes to play games and sends me a picture of my son to try to hurt me because she knows I'm hurting so bad because I don't get to see him but she doesn't care about our daughter who is in my care.. So yesterday I'm enjoying my day with my daughter and I get sent a picture message of my son. I look at the picture to see how he is going, and I freaked out. He had a purple lip and scratches all over his face. So I call the police to do a welfare check on him because I know she is neglecting him and only has him so she doesn't lose her welfare payment and won't let me see him even though there is no court order in place yet. So 2 hrs later of me worrying and crying for my son the police call me back and tell me that it was just paint.. How horrible is that? She just strategically painted cuts and bruises on his face to get a reaction out of me, why can people be so cruel?? Why won't the police and child welfare agencies do anything about this? Is it just prejudice because I'm the father??
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I'm so sorry.
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hey how r u
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She sounds kind of twisted pard
Just get the matter into court and keep a list of these weird things she does to torment you... fight for either full or at least joint custody So you will have more rights to your son... Good luck ! Sorry for your pain bro.. 
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Edited by
burgundybry
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Wed 08/21/13 05:37 PM
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definitely keep a written journal, complete with dates, times, and occurrences, in detail.
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Edited by
willing2
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Wed 08/21/13 05:40 PM
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If it's your kid and you screwing up, cheating, etcetera, you should have every right to take your children.
Put an attorney on retainer, file paternity, take the kids and tell her the papers are on their way. PS Before doing that, seek the advice if an attorney. |
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I agree with KIK...keep a calender of everything that has happened and keep that picture that she sent you and make sure you write down every time you do a welfare check on your son.
Hey I am a woman and some women are so mean when it comes to using the kids as a pawn. I am so glad that me and my ex never had problems like this. We actually got along so well that we just celebrated our son's birthdays together and had Christmas at my house. I think it is because he is single and I am single so we have no other people to cause any problems between us. I think you do need to try to get into court as soon as you can and file for joint custody so you can see your son. Why would she leave 1 child with you and take the other one? Some times I just do not understand parents. SMH!! |
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Its too bad shes resorting to playing these stupid games. I feel for ya and just be grateful that it was only paint.
You stay positive and everything will work in your favour. She will hang heself eventually..just sit back and watch. I have seen this happen many times 
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Yeh thanks guys.. Yep got a paper trail of absolutely everything she does.. In the process of filing an interim order as the family court hasn't even put a date on the legal proceedings.. Just hard to sit back and watch her destroy my sons life, wanting to so badly go round her house and boot in the door and take him but I know that will only make me look bad.. And the day I get my son I'm gone, far away from IT and she will never see them again unless my kids want to see her.. But don't think they will want to for a long time... Fingers crossed anyway
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I agree with KIK...keep a calender of everything that has happened and keep that picture that she sent you and make sure you write down every time you do a welfare check on your son. Hey I am a woman and some women are so mean when it comes to using the kids as a pawn. I am so glad that me and my ex never had problems like this. We actually got along so well that we just celebrated our son's birthdays together and had Christmas at my house. I think it is because he is single and I am single so we have no other people to cause any problems between us. I think you do need to try to get into court as soon as you can and file for joint custody so you can see your son. Why would she leave 1 child with you and take the other one? Some times I just do not understand parents. SMH!! Her excuse was, my daughter and I clash too much lmao she's a 3 yr old girl FFS.. She knows that she can't handle the both of them on her own whereas I can.. I've been there since day 1, never spent a day without my daughter and would have been the same with my son if she didn't take him away from me.. She's on drugs and so mentally unstable.. She got kicked out of the house we shared, the one she kicked me and my daughter out of before she returned. Said the police and the mafia were trying to kill her wtf? I sure know how to pick them.... |
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I agree with KIK...keep a calender of everything that has happened and keep that picture that she sent you and make sure you write down every time you do a welfare check on your son. Hey I am a woman and some women are so mean when it comes to using the kids as a pawn. I am so glad that me and my ex never had problems like this. We actually got along so well that we just celebrated our son's birthdays together and had Christmas at my house. I think it is because he is single and I am single so we have no other people to cause any problems between us. I think you do need to try to get into court as soon as you can and file for joint custody so you can see your son. Why would she leave 1 child with you and take the other one? Some times I just do not understand parents. SMH!! Her excuse was, my daughter and I clash too much lmao she's a 3 yr old girl FFS.. She knows that she can't handle the both of them on her own whereas I can.. I've been there since day 1, never spent a day without my daughter and would have been the same with my son if she didn't take him away from me.. She's on drugs and so mentally unstable.. She got kicked out of the house we shared, the one she kicked me and my daughter out of before she returned. Said the police and the mafia were trying to kill her wtf? I sure know how to pick them.... When you go to court, ask them for drug testing. IF she is doing drugs that is a good reason for them to give you your son. I just don't know how a mom could leave a child behind...but I consider myself a very good mom. I would do without to give to my boys. My kids are now 25 and 18...my oldest son lives on his own and is now engaged. My youngest son is now a freshman in college...yep I am a proud mama!!! You do your best and teach your kids to be the best that they can be. |
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when it comes to my child i do not play and you should not either. Shes not dealing wih a full deck and she has your son, so you better step it up and do what you gotta do to reclaim your boy!!
So it's been 7 months since my ex-partner and the mother of my 2 beautiful children took off with my son and won't let me see him. Every now and then she likes to play games and sends me a picture of my son to try to hurt me because she knows I'm hurting so bad because I don't get to see him but she doesn't care about our daughter who is in my care.. So yesterday I'm enjoying my day with my daughter and I get sent a picture message of my son. I look at the picture to see how he is going, and I freaked out. He had a purple lip and scratches all over his face. So I call the police to do a welfare check on him because I know she is neglecting him and only has him so she doesn't lose her welfare payment and won't let me see him even though there is no court order in place yet. So 2 hrs later of me worrying and crying for my son the police call me back and tell me that it was just paint.. How horrible is that? She just strategically painted cuts and bruises on his face to get a reaction out of me, why can people be so cruel?? Why won't the police and child welfare agencies do anything about this? Is it just prejudice because I'm the father?? |
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when it comes to my child i do not play and you should not either. Shes not dealing wih a full deck and she has your son, so you better step it up and do what you gotta do to reclaim your boy!! So it's been 7 months since my ex-partner and the mother of my 2 beautiful children took off with my son and won't let me see him. Every now and then she likes to play games and sends me a picture of my son to try to hurt me because she knows I'm hurting so bad because I don't get to see him but she doesn't care about our daughter who is in my care.. So yesterday I'm enjoying my day with my daughter and I get sent a picture message of my son. I look at the picture to see how he is going, and I freaked out. He had a purple lip and scratches all over his face. So I call the police to do a welfare check on him because I know she is neglecting him and only has him so she doesn't lose her welfare payment and won't let me see him even though there is no court order in place yet. So 2 hrs later of me worrying and crying for my son the police call me back and tell me that it was just paint.. How horrible is that? She just strategically painted cuts and bruises on his face to get a reaction out of me, why can people be so cruel?? Why won't the police and child welfare agencies do anything about this? Is it just prejudice because I'm the father?? I don't know the laws in your country but in matters like this, you have to be careful. It could backfire on you |
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Not much I can do.. I can't just go to her house and get my son.. She will just call the police and they will only just arrest me for trespass or some law they think i am breaking. She's keeping him way from me whilst at the same time I just want her to be involved In her daughters life.she is nuttier than a fruit cake ATM, and that's what I'm trying to explain to everyone nd anyone who should be able to determine that and act appropriately but again it leads back to prejudice because I'm the father.. I have seen a solicitor but they say it will take months to even get a mention in family court and I don't think my son has that long left TBH as the situation is getting worse nd worse.. So lost ATM but at least I have my daughter in my care, safe.. Just don't want my son to think I sacrificed/abandoned him if they decide to leave him in her care....
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Feel really sorry for you
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Feel really sorry for you Thanks mate.. Life goes on I guess and gots to keep going with it :) |
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Feel really sorry for you Thanks mate.. Life goes on I guess and gots to keep going with it :) |
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It's real stupid how the law judges people based on their gender. If she's trying to make you angry, then it sound's like she's not over you. She might be a sociopath. You never know. lol. Hope you get the help you need ;)
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It's real stupid how the law judges people based on their gender. If she's trying to make you angry, then it sound's like she's not over you. She might be a sociopath. You never know. lol. Hope you get the help you need ;) Yep she is lol. And she left me, lol and tbh stupid me probably would have went back a month ago but not now hell no.. I want a decent kind trustworthy respectful woman in my life now :) |
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