Im 21 and never been in a relationship, is it a good thing or bad thing?

I wouldn't say its good or bad. Its just comes to be how it is for some people. I wouldn't worry about it too much and keep a level head about what you really want in a partner before jumping into anything.

Well, im just curious actually:) my friend told me that it will be hard thing for me someday because i dont have any experience, it might hurt/smash my heart completely but come what may..lol.. Im a human and i know its part of life :)

I doubt it will break you completely. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders. And no one has experience at first I thinks its one of the reasons people remember their first loves so well. You know cause of all the things they learned from that experience.

Lol.. Actually you're right because if i have my experience i may know how to handle the hatred in the future(i hope i will not experience hatred when it comes to love).. Well, its up to my future i guess.. Lol

I think your smart for waiting, now your a little older some mistakes made in your teen years can affect your whole life.As far as experience its over rated because no matter how experienced you are you still make mistakes and do or say stupid things.Have fun take your time find a nice young man and just be yourself. Best wishes and good luck!

Sure you won't have any experience with relationships, but as you are a bit older, you might deal with things in a more adult way than a teenager in his/her first relationship.
So it can also be an advantage!

Yes jack :) i just wish i have good luck,lol... Thank you so much by the way :)

Actually crystal, i wish i could go back in my teenage life and gone relationship.. But i guess i made the right decision :)

Don't beat yourself up about it. You're still young enough to experiment :) And maybe you'll end up with the right guy straight away.

Its good it's better to go in some thing u know than getting yo heat broken

Just be patient and don't rush into things. Your time for a relationship will come and you'll be going into it with a grown up head on your shoulders!

Its good it's better to go in some thing u know than getting yo heat broken

too bad , a recent study showed that not falling in love till the age of 22 will decrease heart beats , and may lead to a painful loneliness .. you still have one year .. if i were you i would love the first person who sends me a mail me now on mingle2

Yeah, you're all right :) thank you so much everyone :)

mhelonkiss,,,,when a woman talks to a man long enough that she forms a opinion of him and she is NOT into him theres practically nothing he can do about it.......on the other hand she talks to him long enough to where forms opinion where she IS INTO the guy,,, then theres NOTHING practically SHE can do about it..!!!!!!!! have you ever witnessed a woman pick a jerk that treated her like dirt???,,,,,,family and friends tried to talk her out of it!!!! each time she would say BUT i love him.........its the elusive obvious.........attraction is not a choice!!!!!!!! on a logical level we say we want to have a person that has this and that great qualities.....what we do is pick them on a emotional level......it's a image [picked by our inner child].........the answer to this old puzzle is self awareness...the answer not out there........................good luck...be careful...........

I sent you a message Melony. I hope we can talk soon :)

Good thing your young and have enough time to have a relationship

i didn't even recognize this comment ! holy crap ! Alzheimer is knocking my door