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dummy3 Joined Mon 09/30/13 Posts: 7	Mon 09/30/13 10:51 PM
I had sex with a woman sat 21st and today she called me and said shes pregnant the 31st. Is that possible? Please help!!!!!!!!!!

lilott Joined Thu 10/12/06 Posts: 2295	Mon 09/30/13 10:58 PM
If she peed on that little thing then it can show her condition within 3 or 4 days after.

KiK2me Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 8732	Mon 09/30/13 11:12 PM
Should've made like Burger King and wrapped your whopper !

Jezpassinby Joined Mon 09/03/12 Posts: 569	Mon 09/30/13 11:27 PM
It's possible, but unless you know her well... question it. This could very well be legitimate, however, as sad as it is to say, there are women out there who are looking for money or even a baby-daddy. Be supportive, but don't be a fool.

lov3purpl3 Joined Wed 09/25/13 Posts: 22	Mon 09/30/13 11:47 PM
Thank GOD I am fixed! No need to worry now. I suggest you be supoortive. The best thing you can do is to acknowledge that you could, indeed be the father. If she is truly pregnant, have a paternity test when the baby is born. If its yours, welcome to geing a daddy. If not, the choice is up to you if you decide to stay.

dummy3 Joined Mon 09/30/13 Posts: 7	Tue 10/01/13 04:41 AM
Well thanks for the help the crazy thing that got me wondering is when she called me she said she was 2weeks pregnant n I wasn't with her 2weeks ago. The math doesn't add up. I think she thinks since im a trucker that owns my own truck she hit a payday.

MoonsDragonLionWolf Joined Wed 05/08/13 Posts: 818	Tue 10/01/13 07:41 AM
I had sex with a woman sat 21st and today she called me and said shes pregnant the 31st. Is that possible? Please help!!!!!!!!!! kicks you in the face! Every action has a consequence. I suggest that you use caution next time and think with your brain first.

dummy3 Joined Mon 09/30/13 Posts: 7	Tue 10/01/13 10:30 AM Edited by dummy3 on Tue 10/01/13 10:30 AM
If she's pregnant and lets say the baby turns out to be mine how do I tell her I don't want to be with her. It was a mistake and I should've been more responsible I know.

MoonsDragonLionWolf Joined Wed 05/08/13 Posts: 818	Tue 10/01/13 11:11 AM
If she's pregnant and lets say the baby turns out to be mine how do I tell her I don't want to be with her. It was a mistake and I should've been more responsible I know. There's a price to be paid for mistakes.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 10/01/13 11:15 AM
OY VEY!!!!!! MEN: Wrap the willys!!!!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33263	Tue 10/01/13 11:34 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 10/01/13 11:34 AM
With some of today's sensitive tests you can test 6 days after conception to see if your pregnant. So technically speaking it is possible as 10 days have gone by ... Still doesn't give you guarantee that it's yours, though. If she really is pregnant and claims it to be yours, I'd want to see proof. Apart from that: Durex, don't leave home without it! Or get a snip if you don't want kids (anymore), lol

dummy3 Joined Mon 09/30/13 Posts: 7	Tue 10/01/13 12:52 PM
Ok after going bk reading my text messages I think she found out earlier. I had sex on 21st n she text me on 27 saying she had to talk to me. But I had already been avoiding her because I didn't want to be with her anymore. So I don't know if this is her way to try n trap me. But im not gonna be with her one way or another but I will be in the innocent babys life if its mine.

loovedoove Joined Sun 09/15/13 Posts: 154	Tue 10/01/13 01:00 PM
Regardless if she is pregnant or not, do not avoid her just be honest with her and hopefully she is not one of those people who love drama. Now, I did not say be mean to her but you know just sit her down and be honest. Tell her you want to take a paternity test ASAP, be clear about what path you will take with her through the court system, do not candy coat anything and skip all the drama!

dummy3 Joined Mon 09/30/13 Posts: 7	Tue 10/01/13 02:40 PM
Ok now I think shes full of it I told her I didn't want to be with her but ill tske care of the kid if it was mine n she throws at me she wants an abortion n to give her $200 I told her I don't believe in that and she insist on getting money.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45342	Tue 10/01/13 02:45 PM
Setup. Run.

dummy3 Joined Mon 09/30/13 Posts: 7	Tue 10/01/13 02:56 PM
I wanted to but I forgot she knows where I work and she threatened to go to my job and cause me to get fired. She knows I can't afford to lose my truck I just bought.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 10/01/13 03:10 PM
Hey listen: First get the paternity test...You can get one free on Maury Just think..you will both get a free trip a nice room and 15 minutes of delicious fame if it is yours...well..make sure ya got a job to take care of your kid and try to explain to him/her just how he/she was conceived...it will make her/him feel sooooo special....love

dummy3 Joined Mon 09/30/13 Posts: 7	Tue 10/01/13 03:16 PM
Lol no maury I got a good job that pays real well already. I'm a truck driver. So supporting my seed is no problem I just hate I gotta go thru this drama from not thinking with the right head.

loovedoove Joined Sun 09/15/13 Posts: 154	Tue 10/01/13 03:25 PM Edited by loovedoove on Tue 10/01/13 03:38 PM
Yeah...that is messed up. She sounds like she is scheming on you. Do not blow up though, just see what else she is capable of once she sees you are not going to change your mind. Let this situation be a lesson for all of us. You, dummy3 for obvious reasons. I promise I am not trying to throw salt on your wounds. Let this be a lesson to the rest of us because we usually throw our support to these types of females before we really see what they are all about. Good luck everyone!