Topic: Is it a waste of time
musthav1's photo
Fri 10/25/13 01:12 PM
I'm new here. So far I'm not sure this is right for me. Dating sites seems to be for booty calls. Or friends with benefits. Is anyone looking for a REAL relationship?

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Fri 10/25/13 01:14 PM
Some are, some aren't. I hope you find what you want.

403010's photo
Fri 10/25/13 01:21 PM
Guys are looking for sex. That's true whether on line or out in the real world. That shouldn't be a surprise but there comes a time when a guy wants more than that from a woman. In our society the woman picks the man most of the time. We have to usually make the first approach but the woman always has the final word.
I have found that many women say or write what you have. But again, I find many women will skip over the guys who are seeking more.

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Fri 10/25/13 01:48 PM
Quite a few people have met here and became couples.

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 10/25/13 02:06 PM
Guys are looking for sex.


That is a false stereotype.

I am looking for companionship.

I don't want to have sex with a woman unless I am married to her.

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 10/25/13 02:07 PM

I'm new here. So far I'm not sure this is right for me. Dating sites seems to be for booty calls. Or friends with benefits. Is anyone looking for a REAL relationship?


musthav1,


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Fri 10/25/13 02:15 PM
I am not looking for sex. I am looking for a charming, intelligent woman to have a conversation... have not found that. Several scammers, yes: none for the conversation.

People don't seemed to want to get to know one another before jumping into bed. Why is that? Is like high school or college for me. Maybe worse.

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Fri 10/25/13 02:22 PM
Generalizations of one of gender always makes me feel so warm and fuzzy...sort of like a yeast infection.scared

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 10/25/13 02:27 PM

Generalizations of one of gender always makes me feel so warm and fuzzy...sort of like a yeast infection.scared

rofl