Ok... I need help to get me startedon this site. I just want to know what I am doing wrong that there is no response. Please be honest with me...Is it the photo??? Or the profile is to...not enough. Thanks for helping. Nikki

Nikki,

You should edit your profile a bit to correct all the errors and to remove repetitious text. Try this:
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I speak French and English. I am a good listener and a down-to-earth woman. I love to laugh and to joke around. I enjoy cooking, watching movies, traveling, visiting museums, dancing, and going on day trips to various local sites and attractions. I also enjoy sports such as cycling, running, or simply walking my dog. I love all types of music, including R&B, hip-hop, and (especially!) music of the 80s and 90s.

I am looking for a down-to-earth man who enjoys life and is not afraid of trying new things.

So, come and share this great recipe with me:

1 cup of romance
1 pinch of humor
2 spoonfuls of joy
1 lb of compatibility
3 tablespoons of trust
1 cup of respect
12 oz of sharing

Mix thoroughly. Add 1 pint of tenderness to 34 pints of patience and seal with warmth, a gentle touch, and a kiss. This recipe is for a lifetime of togetherness and not a single night, as do not omit any ingredients or rush the cooking process.

I look forward to hearing from you! :-)
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You are not doing anything wrong--just competing with lots of other folks out there who offer different things and may be more specific in what they want.

Good luck!

Jeffrey

Salut Nikki!

Your profile is ok other than grammar, sentence structure and punctuation. It's pretty easy to read and understand. It has lots of information. Your current picture is pretty good but maybe add more? There are reasons you could be getting few responses that have nothing to do with your profile. Maybe check your settings ? Or it could be your location?

Niki, your photo is good...might be the wrong site for you. Have you tried Plenty of Fish? I haven't had much luck on this site either but then I'm over 60 and that's how that is! Good luck, Karen

Niki, i would get to know the man who's reply included a recipe for happiness! He sounds like the real deal! karen

You need more photos. It's hard to see your face clearly, so work on getting more closeup face shots.

You need to lose the headline; no man I know would be interested in "saving" anyone, so you might want to come up with something less intimidating, or if you meant the headline to be humorous, you might want to mention that in your profile.

Good luck.

Thank you very much!!!