Topic: Foolish or disgraceful?
msharmony's photo
Sat 12/14/13 09:00 AM
and look at the silly and disrespectful BISHOP participating in a photo during the memorial


no photo
Sat 12/14/13 09:03 AM



ok

but when I go to a circus,, or attend a dance, I don't stare at the band the whole time they are on stage, or the actors in the circus


I also mingle and talk and possibly take photos with those around me

I think many americans do the same,,,,,,,,


I know someone who went to a funeral earlier this week. At the tables afterward, there were cameras for people to take pictures of themselves and other guests. According to what many said here, that would be inappropriate.


And that's a FUNERAL,, with a few intimate and personal friends and family

this was a memorial, at a stadium with thousands of people from all around the world, gathered for CELEBRATIO OF LIFE That lasted hours


more photos from the event americans assume should be somber


http://www.newvision.co.ug/news/650343-world-unites-for-mandela-memorial.html


WARNING: this page may offend those who find other cultural practices disrespectful or silly


Exactly. That happened at a funeral, that was a somber event, which is why I used it as a comparison. Does it happen at all funerals? Of course not. Is it terrible for happening at an event like that? Again, no.

no photo
Sat 12/14/13 09:10 AM



Ah, gotcha. It's different because they're world leaders, not real people.


No, you don't get me...... I consider world leaders real people....


Then please do explain why it was inappropriate in that particular setting.


No...laugh

no photo
Sat 12/14/13 09:12 AM
Why am I not surprised there is no reasoning behind it? haha.

Anyway, it wouldn't matter if world leaders attended the funeral I mentioned. The cameras were for everyone to use.

msharmony's photo
Sat 12/14/13 09:14 AM




ok

but when I go to a circus,, or attend a dance, I don't stare at the band the whole time they are on stage, or the actors in the circus


I also mingle and talk and possibly take photos with those around me

I think many americans do the same,,,,,,,,


I know someone who went to a funeral earlier this week. At the tables afterward, there were cameras for people to take pictures of themselves and other guests. According to what many said here, that would be inappropriate.


And that's a FUNERAL,, with a few intimate and personal friends and family

this was a memorial, at a stadium with thousands of people from all around the world, gathered for CELEBRATIO OF LIFE That lasted hours


more photos from the event americans assume should be somber


http://www.newvision.co.ug/news/650343-world-unites-for-mandela-memorial.html


WARNING: this page may offend those who find other cultural practices disrespectful or silly


Exactly. That happened at a funeral, that was a somber event, which is why I used it as a comparison. Does it happen at all funerals? Of course not. Is it terrible for happening at an event like that? Again, no.


especially when the photographer himself EXPLAINED The atmosphere of the event, we cant seem to see beyond the context of how OUR Events are meant to occur



I just find it strange that people assume that every moment of an event that long was meant to be spent somber and staring straight ahead,


with no breaks, with no moments when nothing was on stage, with no moment to take a photo (as the hundreds of photographers around obviously could do),,,,,, its just interesting,,, I have never been to an event longer than two hours without taking a break to chat with my neighbor, look someplace else,,take a photo(if its an event that doesn't happen often),,,,,etc,,,,

no photo
Sat 12/14/13 09:17 AM


I personally think it's not appropriate for them to take selfies when they should be focusing on the event. I think it makes them looking silly. But I'm not going to be up in arms about it. There are plenty of things the prez does to be up in arms about. Obamacare anyone?



I don't think americans know much about what the event actually was

it was a party atmosphere, not a stare at a stage for five hours atmosphere


in some cultures, even here in the states, funerals are not somber affairs. they are treated as a celebration. much depends on the cultural context.

I refrain from any opinion really because as Leigh pointed out there are far more important things to worry about, second, we really do not know what was going on at the time, and third we - at least I - am not aware of the cultural context

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 12/14/13 09:24 AM
If people think it's ok....great. Not everyone thinks the same.

The topic is about opinions anyway. No proof needed....unless someone has a study on whether selfies kill brain cells or something :laughing:

Good grief Charlie Brown

metalwing's photo
Sat 12/14/13 10:12 AM

If people think it's ok....great. Not everyone thinks the same.

The topic is about opinions anyway. No proof needed....unless someone has a study on whether selfies kill brain cells or something :laughing:

Good grief Charlie Brown


I think the leaders of State should hold themselves to a higher standard.

akorfrancis's photo
Sat 12/14/13 10:27 AM
He was happy to be at home land Africa.

msharmony's photo
Sat 12/14/13 10:35 AM

He was happy to be at home land Africa.


lovely, and to know people were living his message of coming together

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 12/14/13 11:10 AM
It could be worse. They could have been making the duck faces

rofl

Conrad_73's photo
Sat 12/14/13 11:19 AM


http://thepeoplescube.com/peoples-blog/caption-this-obama-putting-the-fun-back-in-funeral-t12517.html

His behaviour sure made the Satire-Sites,and not in a very flattering way either!
Hope Mandela's Ghost haunts him for the rest of his life!

no photo
Sat 12/14/13 12:18 PM


If people think it's ok....great. Not everyone thinks the same.

The topic is about opinions anyway. No proof needed....unless someone has a study on whether selfies kill brain cells or something :laughing:

Good grief Charlie Brown


I think the leaders of State should hold themselves to a higher standard.


Should they remain somber and serious, while the rest were celebrating Mandela's life?

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 12/14/13 12:39 PM
So if you don't take a selfie then that means you have to be somber and serious? And when does taking a selfie show a celebration of his life? :laughing:

Guess whenever something comes.up...say cheese

rofl

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 12/14/13 12:42 PM
This thread makes me giggle

Of course patients think I'm crazy for giggling and they don't know why

Sojourning_Soul's photo
Sat 12/14/13 02:44 PM

This thread makes me giggle

Of course patients think I'm crazy for giggling and they don't know why


Those who are complaining about the complainers.....it is laughable bigsmile

msharmony's photo
Sat 12/14/13 02:56 PM


by definition, he didn't take a selfie,, someone else took a photo of themselves WITH HIM


Its an international event with thousands that lasted for hours

it wasn't the funeral

if people really expect no photos to be taken, whether with a cell phone or a media camera, or for people not to have side conversations (which are no more or less distracting or non attentive than taking a photo)



they aren't really being realistic



yellowrose10's photo
Sat 12/14/13 03:24 PM
Just to clarify:
1. I gave my opinion. I haven't told anyone they are wrong if their opinions are different. We all have them

2. I know it's not a funeral. It was a memorial service

3. The media is there so people all over the world could be a part of it. I don't care if people take pictures. I thought what those 3 stooges did was immature and disrespectful. They,aren't teens going to a football game

4. Symantics. The Danish PM did the selfie and the other 2 joined in.

5. I never suggested anyone be serious there. I've been to Irish wakes. It's a celebration, but I wouldn't take pictures like that. I might take pictures of the setting, etc

Not sure how taking that picture like that celebrates Mandela's life, which is why they are there.

msharmony's photo
Sat 12/14/13 03:27 PM
Edited by msharmony on Sat 12/14/13 03:31 PM
I understand all those points

I just think a photo is a photo,(unless someone is stripping , or picking their nose, or doing something else that should otherwise be private,,lol)

whether its of a person or a surrounding,,,I didn't find it silly for the bishop to smile for a photo taken by someone and I didn't find these three smiling for a photo any more silly

and celebrating life is smiling and enjoying what we have when we have it,,,

which includes taking photos of coming together in a happy moment,, or seeing those you don't often get a chance to spend time with

no photo
Sat 12/14/13 09:06 PM


This thread makes me giggle

Of course patients think I'm crazy for giggling and they don't know why


Those who are complaining about the complainers.....it is laughable bigsmile


Haven't you been complaining about Obama the whole time?