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I think men fall in love, I don't think women really fall in love they just find someone to make their life a bit easier.. By this, you best not think anymore. Until the emotional constipation wears off.   I always love reading your comments.
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I think men fall in love, I don't think women really fall in love they just find someone to make their life a bit easier.. By this, you best not think anymore. Until the emotional constipation wears off. I always love reading your comments. Well, you know how it is for those just sitting around waiting for someone to make their life easier :-) Besides, I hate seeing someone..all backed up. |
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Mon 01/20/14 04:49 PM
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I think men fall in love, I don't think women really fall in love they just find someone to make their life a bit easier. I think falling in love is more accurate then growing into love. It feels more like a free fall that you can't stop, but maybe t hats just me.  HA I knew it!...but I guess this doesn't prove my theory in any way they are surface lovers ..they fall quick to the surface What I'm describing is most likely not love at all and they are unhappy by the end of the ifactuation stage. We 'fall in to love' in a sence as its amplified with dopamine releases putting us in a euphoric state. this is only in the first intimate stage of a relationship but this my not be love at all but more infatuation. once this stage is done,many are obviously not in love at all. They are just tricked by the releases or dopamine. the last intimate stage in a relationship is love and that could take 5 years to GROW and will keep growing. Love grows.. 
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Mon 01/20/14 06:19 PM
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I think men fall in love, I don't think women really fall in love they just find someone to make their life a bit easier. I think falling in love is more accurate then growing into love. It feels more like a free fall that you can't stop, but maybe t hats just me. HA I knew it!...but I guess this doesn't prove my theory in any way they are surface lovers ..they fall quick to the surface What I'm describing is most likely not love at all and they are unhappy by the end of the ifactuation stage. We 'fall in to love' in a sence as its amplified with dopamine releases putting us in a euphoric state. this is only in the first intimate stage of a relationship but this my not be love at all but more infatuation. once this stage is done,many are obviously not in love at all. They are just tricked by the releases or dopamine. the last intimate stage in a relationship is love and that could take 5 years to GROW and will keep growing. Love grows.. Yes Jamie, you are right  ....The free fall is usually short lived and when you hit the ground, you hit hard...Sometimes hard enough to become constipated..Haha....You are also right about chemical release and amplification...Along with dopamine, other "love chemicals" include phenylethylamine, norepinephrine, oxytocin, testosterone, and of course, endorphins...A delicious cocktail that can make your heart race, you palms sweat, and your panties wet simply by looking at the person you love....Once this "stage" of falling in love is complete, a couple either grows to the next and the next and the next stage or they grow apart as life and all its challenges happen....The only thing I don't agree with in your beautiful post is placing a time limit on love's growth...For me, it is more like a plant that never stops growing.
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the last intimate stage in a relationship is love and that could take 5 years to GROW and will keep growing. Love grows.. "love grows" 
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The attraction the other may feel is from the chemical, pheromone that secretes from your body that enters hers/his.
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Edited by
BEZAX
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Mon 01/20/14 06:17 PM
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For me, it is more like a plant that never stop growing.
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For me, it is more like a plant that never stops growing. 
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Edited by
BEZAX
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Mon 01/20/14 11:51 PM
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For me, it is more like a plant that never stops growing.  just few persons understands this... you keep falling and keep growing in love...  
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Edited by
BEZAX
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Tue 01/21/14 12:04 AM
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What is love?.. Me thinks it's a vewy big an shneaky hand,it'll just pop behind you,without a sound, then give you a hard push and before ya know it, you've fallen way down deep,.. hmm... Has it ever pushed you? It sure did! That's how i met love the first time...hence, the definition.. What about you? hmm... it tried once, but I held myself, and did not fall then... are you still falling into it
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Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing. hmm... What if this reaction occurred only in your own brain, i.e. The woman or man dont feel the same with you? If the person you think you are in love with doesn't feel the same way about you. Then you're probably a stalker. lol The answer is in the question. If only one person feels that they love the other then that is all there is to it. You can't force someone to love you. You can always hope they develop those feelings. But chances are you would do better to look for someone who loves you back. |
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Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing. hmm... What if this reaction occurred only in your own brain, i.e. The woman or man dont feel the same with you? If the person you think you are in love with doesn't feel the same way about you. Then you're probably a stalker. lol The answer is in the question. If only one person feels that they love the other then that is all there is to it. You can't force someone to love you. You can always hope they develop those feelings. But chances are you would do better to look for someone who loves you back. 
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Oxytocin is a chemical released into the brain when a mother first holds her child after it is born and causes a really strong bond. But really it's a trick. It's what her body does to keep her from eating her kids when she gets really hungry.
This joke was brought to you thanks to Joe Rogan who got it from his sister. lol |
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Hi,noone can explain wat is love, coz it comes mysteriously in life and u become a part of it,and it goes by breaking heart,love is sumthng which heart say dat i love u,its inside everythng wat u love,dats y even scientists find it dificult to explain wats love:-)
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Haha..u jst tried to explain love scientifically,,,dats also a way to explain...bt love can b undrstood only when we fall into it,,,,
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A common symptom that occurs during the first stage of falling in love?...Sleeplessness
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I love everybody. How's that for love? Oh wait, I found an error in that comment already. There's one person on this forum I'm not fond of.
Let's start over. I love 99% of all ppl!!! |
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I love everybody. How's that for love? Oh wait, I found an error in that comment already. There's one person on this forum I'm not fond of. Let's start over. I love 99% of all ppl!!! Haha...You're only 39 posts in, give yourself a little more time...
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"Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love."
Albert Einstein~ |
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A common symptom that occurs during the first stage of falling in love?...Sleeplessness Have u falling, and what stage are you now?
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