Topic: What is it?Why people keep texting me with unappropriate que
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Sun 01/26/14 09:40 AM
Hey everyone^^

Need some feedback wether my profile need to be improved, if yes,in what section?

This because i keep getting unappropriate text in term of "sexual" things..so i become curious if there is something wrong with my profile so people think they can ask things like...you know what...to me.

Appreciate all the feedback and apologize for the bad english^^

Thank you soo much^^

Journeyman236's photo
Sun 01/26/14 09:52 AM
Your profile looks fine.
Block and report the users who are sending
you inappropriate messages.

izzyphoto1977's photo
Sun 01/26/14 10:00 AM
I don't see anything wrong with your profile. The reason you get those emails is because the world if full of retarded people who seem to think that is how you get women.

But curious, why do you say "eat worm to make money"? are you saying that as a joke or do you want to be one some reality TV show like Survivor Man?

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Sun 01/26/14 10:21 AM

But curious, why do you say "eat worm to make money"? are you saying that as a joke or do you want to be one some reality TV show like Survivor Man?

That's how I read it Izzy, I figured she meant a show like "Fear Factor" laugh Something I would never do! noway

bella1foru's photo
Sun 01/26/14 10:45 AM
I get the same hun I simply asked on my profile please be close by to my area and USA only I seem to be getting EVERYONE but that give it some time am sure there are nice men on here as well :tongue:

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Sun 01/26/14 10:59 AM


But curious, why do you say "eat worm to make money"? are you saying that as a joke or do you want to be one some reality TV show like Survivor Man?

That's how I read it Izzy, I figured she meant a show like "Fear Factor" laugh Something I would never do! noway


Since she mentioned Discovery Channel. I figured it would be something like survivor man of that show with Bear Griles who eats most of his food raw.

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Sun 01/26/14 11:09 AM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Sun 01/26/14 11:18 AM
In some cultures the reference to "eat worms" has a very vulgar meaning.

Something I think some of the competition shows clearly know. But some programming agents , sponsors, contestants, and fans will put on anything as long as they don't see how it degrades them personally.

My personal belief is you can not suggest you want to be bullied only to a degree to prove a man is a man and expect it to stop when it becomes painful. Such as receiving disrespectful texts. You teach people how to treat you by sometimes the most innocent ideas and comments you make yourself and how you respond to comments made to you. Which is cutting off anyone who is offensive at the knees the first time they say or do something they chose to do and know is offensive.

Food for thought since it is my opinion is that the real measure of a strong man is he can value and respect a woman's opinion, dignity, and contribution in a relationship and still accept the gift of having the final say in things not just simply take it or demand it.

Something that both the Koran and the Bible teach and is reflected also in many Buddist teachings but religion aside is just good leadership in relationships.

The unfortunate fact when you have and open forum on the world wide (wild) web you are going to see a certain percentage of cowards that will say things they probably would not even try in real life. Maybe a slightly higher percentage than that of real life but it is a fact of life.


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Sun 01/26/14 11:09 AM
It doesn't have anything to do with your profile, some people are just rude and perverted.

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Sun 01/26/14 03:33 PM
Journeyman236 : Yes,i might gonna block them except I dont know how to do it in here,i can not find it,is it because i'm log in from my phone? but thank you so much^^

Izzyphoto1977: I hope you are right....thats the main reason why they send me all that messages is just because and only because they rude and perverted,since I'm scared that its might be my fault but i cant find it where^^ .About the eating worm,it just a methapor,i'm trying to say that my job is sooo typical and boring,but its not that i'm not grateful,but....yeop...sometime hangin out with excel all the time can be so frustating :(.I remembering the show called Bizzare Food when I type my profile...uhhnn...actually..its not necessarily eating worm ahahha.....but just doin something fun that can make money for life^^

Bella1foru : aww...so sorry for that gorgeous:(.I wish they can just dissappear...and yes,I'm not lose faith^^

PacificStar48 : Ahhhhh....thank you for telling me that "eat worms" part....i know there must be something with my profile:(.Last night just after writing this post,I found a message saying 'i will give you my worm to eat,only its thicker.....blaa..blaa..bla...' I never know that word "worm" can bring my profile into different level:(.I'm changin it!! Now i'm eating "scorpion"..aahahahah...and as i said...i'm just trying to say that i bored with job^^..thank you sooo muchhhhhhh starrr^^

Paintecards01: I'll keep that in mind^^ Thankkk youuu so muchh


all of you..thank you..thank you..thousand thank you for the feedback..means so much for me..Praying all happiness for you^^



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Sun 01/26/14 03:36 PM

Journeyman236 : Yes,i might gonna block them except I dont know how to do it in here,i can not find it,is it because i'm log in from my phone? but thank you so much^^

Izzyphoto1977: I hope you are right....thats the main reason why they send me all that messages is just because and only because they rude and perverted,since I'm scared that its might be my fault but i cant find it where^^ .About the eating worm,it just a methapor,i'm trying to say that my job is sooo typical and boring,but its not that i'm not grateful,but....yeop...sometime hangin out with excel all the time can be so frustating :(.I remembering the show called Bizzare Food when I type my profile...uhhnn...actually..its not necessarily eating worm ahahha.....but just doin something fun that can make money for life^^

Bella1foru : aww...so sorry for that gorgeous:(.I wish they can just dissappear...and yes,I'm not lose faith^^

PacificStar48 : Ahhhhh....thank you for telling me that "eat worms" part....i know there must be something with my profile:(.Last night just after writing this post,I found a message saying 'i will give you my worm to eat,only its thicker.....blaa..blaa..bla...' I never know that word "worm" can bring my profile into different level:(.I'm changin it!! Now i'm eating "scorpion"..aahahahah...and as i said...i'm just trying to say that i bored with job^^..thank you sooo muchhhhhhh starrr^^

Paintecards01: I'll keep that in mind^^ Thankkk youuu so muchh


all of you..thank you..thank you..thousand thank you for the feedback..means so much for me..Praying all happiness for you^^





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Sun 01/26/14 03:55 PM
So you're just looking for something a little more fun basically. I understand that doing spreadsheets and all that has to get pretty boring. You could always do something to add excitement to it. Like set something up so that you get random shocks through out the day. It would probably provide entertainment to your co-workers. Just imagine everything is nice a quiet then all the sudden you hear a scream from across the office because someone got shocked. Wouldn't you laugh? lol

As for the relationship you're looking for it kind of sounds like a submissive and dominant relationship. I'm sure you can find what you're after. It's only weird if you think it is. Some people won't understand it and may think it's abusive. But it simply has a different dynamic than other relationships. I just hope you find the right dom for you sub personality.

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Sun 01/26/14 05:05 PM
Paintecards01: flowers

Izzyphoto1977: ahhhhh...i did that too many times^^. .singing and sending them jokes via LAN message...sometime entertain me and them enough tho^^

ahhh...and that too??!!!omg..what ive doneee:(....yes...the sub and dom things also an issue there on my profile...i dont want to mention it until someone brought up the subject.I just...its actually not sub and dom relationship..just that all this men near me seems always say yes...and if i'm arguing with them,at the end they just follow my lead :(.I dont know if they really love and respect me or just get tired because i can mumble all the time about all the thingslaugh

But unfortunately its also a boomerang to me...suddenly someone want me become their"slave" ahaahahh..i'm gonna think about something else later to put on my profile then^^

and both of you.. thank you thank you very much!!

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Sun 01/26/14 06:43 PM
Maybe they just want to do something so instead of constantly saying I want to do this and getting now where they just say "Ok lets just do what ever you want to do."

Here's an idea. You could put something on your profile about wanting to crush some guys testicles and see what kind of people you get emails from after. lol

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Sun 01/26/14 07:27 PM
I'll stop sending you those dirrrrrrrrty texts from now on. And I thought we were having fun :( I'm just joking ;) You come across as really friendly, and happy, so maybe they see that as an excuse if you seem too easy going. But you should never change to get the result you want. Stick to your guns. Assess men carefully when they chat with you. Watch out for the creeps.

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Sun 01/26/14 08:01 PM
Yeah. Don't talk to people like me. hahaha

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Sun 01/26/14 08:12 PM

I don't see anything wrong with your profile. The reason you get those emails is because the world if full of retarded people who seem to think that is how you get women.

But curious, why do you say "eat worm to make money"? are you saying that as a joke or do you want to be one some reality TV show like Survivor Man?


get it right, izz... it says "scorpions", not worms... sheesh...

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Sun 01/26/14 08:14 PM

I'll stop sending you those dirrrrrrrrty texts from now on. And I thought we were having fun :( I'm just joking ;) You come across as really friendly, and happy, so maybe they see that as an excuse if you seem too easy going. But you should never change to get the result you want. Stick to your guns. Assess men carefully when they chat with you. Watch out for the creeps.


what did you call me?surprised

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Sun 01/26/14 09:26 PM


I don't see anything wrong with your profile. The reason you get those emails is because the world if full of retarded people who seem to think that is how you get women.

But curious, why do you say "eat worm to make money"? are you saying that as a joke or do you want to be one some reality TV show like Survivor Man?


get it right, izz... it says "scorpions", not worms... sheesh...


If it says scorpions now then she changed it. It was worms.

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Sun 01/26/14 09:32 PM
Sadly folks can not write a profile that can not be "twisted" some how and or someway if someone wants to bad enough but if you err on the side of being a little careful you will be seen as a lady which is not a bad thing since good people seek like kind.

I am pretty street wise for and older lady but don't kid yourself I have had various ones pull me aside and say hey you know what that slang really means?

It is easy to slip into using a catch phrase or local slang from popular culture or even more dangerous media and not know the "history" behind it. If your brain is not one that thinks of things in chronically purely sexual terms not like you would go there.

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Fri 02/14/14 07:58 PM
Hows everyone doinggg??prayyy for a good day for my precious advisor^^

happiness for all of you^^