Topic: Only one message at a timde
Opentoffers's photo
Fri 03/21/14 04:23 PM
I used to send another message before my previous one was answered as it speeded up the conversation. Now I get a message to say I can't until the previous response is answered. Why?

isaac_dede's photo
Fri 03/21/14 04:38 PM
Edited by isaac_dede on Fri 03/21/14 04:38 PM
i'm not sure why that is, but I know if someone sends me another message before I answer their previous I will stop writing them all together.

Because for me, I take it the same way I would if a woman called me, left a voicemail, and then called me again before I called her back...it reads as desperate and/or not respecting/or expecting the other individual to have any sort of life.

As far as why the site won't allow you, who knows...but I'd thought I'd throw that out there.

Opentoffers's photo
Fri 03/21/14 04:40 PM
Thanks for your reply. That could well be the case. Omg desperate! How embarrassing. Will learn from that. Thanks.

soufiehere's photo
Fri 03/21/14 05:18 PM

I used to send another message before my previous one was answered as it speeded up the conversation. Now I get a message to say I can't until the previous response is answered. Why?

Why did I encounter an email limit?
'We had to place a limit on first-contact emails because
of spammers. Basically, this cuts down the number of
first-contact emails that one can send within a
two-to-three-day period (we can't divulge anymore
information about this limit). However, a member
affected by this limit will still be able to send an
unlimited number of emails to those with whom he or
she has already had some back-and-forth. It should
be noted that MinglePlus members are exempt.'

no1phD's photo
Fri 03/21/14 06:03 PM
. off-topic a bit
. I find getting a new message before I read the prior one.. confusing... I've had to tell people in the past.. send one let me respond. . then send another.. otherwise it looks like you know what I'm going to say before I say it... and I might as well just stay out of the conversation...lol.. otherwise known as verbal diarrhea..lol..

Dibbsy's photo
Fri 03/21/14 11:53 PM
I'm really confused here I'm gay (looking for men) but when I search it viewed females which I'm not interested in!!! I'm trying!! Trying!! But my profile says (men looking for men)

soufiehere's photo
Sat 03/22/14 03:04 PM

I'm really confused here I'm gay (looking for men) but when I search it viewed females which I'm not interested in!!! I'm trying!! Trying!! But my profile says (men looking for men)

Are you SURE you have selected 'man looking for:man'
when using Search?
http://mingle2.com/search