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Topic: First Impressions
whispertoascream's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:08 AM
First impressions are important. They can either make or break the start of any relationship.

whispertoascream's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:10 AM
Sorry that got posted before I was even done. So let me try this again. I am still getting use to this laptop.


First impressions are important. They can either make or break the start of any relationship. It is always good to be yourself, but at the same time you are nervous as you are not sure what the other person is like. So there is always some sort of tension. What makes a good first impression for you?

ladynluv2be's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:12 AM
The person to be themselves.

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Sun 09/23/07 08:12 AM
Yes first impressions are important ill agree with that..
you cant make a first impression twice..
and yes i will also agree that a first impression CAN make or break a relationship.
I personally just try to be myself ad relax.. and usually every is ok.

Greyhound's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:15 AM
Just be yourself... what they see is what they get,right front the start.drinker

arcadefan's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:18 AM
whispear

that is ok re-wording the same topic i don't mind

you might have different comments than i did

good luck on this topic

charles flowerforyou

how they treat you right & personality is good

JUMPTFORJOY's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:19 AM
I agree, just be yourself. If you're nervous, a good man/woman should understand, its a first date, for pete's sake. Most people are nervous. Just be yourself and your true personality will overcome the nervousness.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:20 AM
I agree with being yourself...
I try not to judge people on first impressions.
Might be missing out on something good if we
form an opinon too soon.
Yet I have met some that just don't click and never would.
Sometimes we are so nervouse- that we can act stupid.(me laugh )
I will give a person some time.


Greyhound's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:23 AM
Teddy.. the first impression I got from your polar bear is that the poor thing is dying from a hangoverdrinker

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:26 AM
Naw- just thinking "Oh Brother..." laugh

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Sun 09/23/07 08:28 AM
Two trains of thought here:

1-You never get a second chance to make a good first impression.

2-The only thing first impressions are is that. First impressions.

Which do you believe?

I'll take #2. I've mer several people in my life that I couldn't stand at first. But I gave them time, and they grew on me. I've also met people who made a great 1st impression on me, only to reveal their darker side a little later.

mishaellyn's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:31 AM
Well put Knoxman:smile:

whispertoascream's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:33 AM
You are right it is very important to be yourself. Because true colors only ever come out in the end.

dustcloud's photo
Sun 09/23/07 08:42 AM
Well I try not to make a judgement on one meeting, but some of the things that I notice on a meet and greet date is 1) how often is she on her cell phone. 2) how positive or negative her conversation is 3) how punctional she is 4) how accomodating she is compared with how accomodatin she expects me to be. I had a woman out of the blue invite me to lunch on the other side of a large metro area, and then tell me not to make her wait. I dont call her anymore

no photo
Sun 09/23/07 11:24 AM
Looks ..definately looks..... are what I get out of first impressions

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Sun 09/23/07 11:27 AM
I don't always agree on first impressions.....sometimes Im wrong about people....not very often but sometimes.

Alot of people are very nervous when meeting for the first time...I try to give people a second chance unless they are a complete azzzzzzzzzz the first time!!!laugh

Hiran's photo
Sun 09/23/07 11:31 AM
Wait, how does this thing work? What are we talking about?

no photo
Sun 09/23/07 11:32 AM
it works just like that!!!laugh

Hiran's photo
Sun 09/23/07 11:35 AM
Sorry about that, It was my first post ever and I was a little nervous about it. I feel better now that my mug is posted on the internet for everyone to see :)

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Sun 09/23/07 11:43 AM
you did fine.....great first impression!!!:wink:

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