Topic: Harmful or Harmless
msharmony's photo
Thu 08/21/14 11:55 AM
So, grown women sometimes go through exhorbitant and extreme measures to look like living 'dolls, but what about still developing teens?


Ever since Barbie became one of the world’s most popular dolls, little girls have aspired to be just like the pretty plastic toy. While her body is certainly enviable — flat stomach, long legs, and large chest — her proportions are not only unrealistic, they’re also dangerous to try to emulate. But that hasn’t stopped some individuals — usually grown women — from attempting to be like her. Lolita Richi, a 16-year-old from Ukraine, is the latest (and youngest) “Human Barbie” to emerge.

Lolita has a 20-inch waist, a 32F bra size, and wears color contact lenses to emulate the wide-eyed doll-look of her fictional idol. The teenager insists that she hasn’t gone under the knife and that her photos haven’t been digitally manipulated, but her proportions seem to indicate otherwise. Dr. Anthony Youn, a Michigan-based, board-certified plastic surgeon who has not treated Lolita, told Yahoo Health that it would be “virtually impossible” to look the way that she does naturally.

The high school student isn’t the first person to transform herself into a living Mattel doll. Valeria Lukyanova, 23, is probably the most famous and was recently featured in a GQ profile, while 34-year-old Justin Jedilca is considered to be the “Human Ken doll” and has undergone more than 150 plastic surgeries. But it’s Lolita’s age that makes the whole situation all the more shocking. In the United States, cosmetic procedures cannot be performed on those younger than 18 without parental consent and many doctors simply won't perform elective surgeries on younger patients even with the parents' consent. Youn said he finds it disturbing that another physician would perform these kinds of invasive operations on a child. “She’s not done maturing both physically and mentally,” he added.




TBRich's photo
Thu 08/21/14 12:11 PM
I used to get into arguments with the sex therapists who consulted with me; there was a client who liked black women and the therapist wanted me to get him a black love doll. I told her "Whoa Hoss"; firstly, I did not consider that functional, why isn't she working on the social skills needed to get a girlfriend; more importantly, I worried about his generalization- if he was used to manipulating/dominating a doll, how would he be with a real person? Most of my guys were a bit off.

So my first reaction is that this has little to do with "looks", but with some odd need.
Now if the stars align, I don't have a problem with it, for example, I had a guy to the point where he would boil an exhaust pipe until it was just the right temperature and then go at it, recreating his first experience, instead of risking getting arrested for doing it in public to people's cars. However, in my experience the stars don't always align- is she really gonna find someone with this fetish who will be consistently loving and caring in a relationship? I wish her luck

Datwasntme's photo
Thu 08/21/14 12:16 PM

I used to get into arguments with the sex therapists who consulted with me; there was a client who liked black women and the therapist wanted me to get him a black love doll. I told her "Whoa Hoss"; firstly, I did not consider that functional, why isn't she working on the social skills needed to get a girlfriend; more importantly, I worried about his generalization- if he was used to manipulating/dominating a doll, how would he be with a real person? Most of my guys were a bit off.

So my first reaction is that this has little to do with "looks", but with some odd need.
Now if the stars align, I don't have a problem with it, for example, I had a guy to the point where he would boil an exhaust pipe until it was just the right temperature and then go at it, recreating his first experience, instead of risking getting arrested for doing it in public to people's cars. However, in my experience the stars don't always align- is she really gonna find someone with this fetish who will be consistently loving and caring in a relationship? I wish her luck


why ? same reason my x wife's doctor that she was going to , to help her deal with the fact that she could not have kids said it was ok to have other guys to sleep with <shrug>

just cause they are doctors don't mean they are right in the head lol

Datwasntme's photo
Thu 08/21/14 12:17 PM
<shrug>
love the skin your in

msharmony's photo
Thu 08/21/14 12:18 PM

I used to get into arguments with the sex therapists who consulted with me; there was a client who liked black women and the therapist wanted me to get him a black love doll. I told her "Whoa Hoss"; firstly, I did not consider that functional, why isn't she working on the social skills needed to get a girlfriend; more importantly, I worried about his generalization- if he was used to manipulating/dominating a doll, how would he be with a real person? Most of my guys were a bit off.

So my first reaction is that this has little to do with "looks", but with some odd need.
Now if the stars align, I don't have a problem with it, for example, I had a guy to the point where he would boil an exhaust pipe until it was just the right temperature and then go at it, recreating his first experience, instead of risking getting arrested for doing it in public to people's cars. However, in my experience the stars don't always align- is she really gonna find someone with this fetish who will be consistently loving and caring in a relationship? I wish her luck




always interesting TB

the short while I engaged in the phone sex industry, my mentor tried to get me to stay on with a similar argument when I complained about the perverts calling wanting me to pretend to be a child,,,,

she said as it was just 'fantasy', I was probably providing a healthy vent to prevent people from acting on such interests in real life,,


yeah, right,,,whoa

msharmony's photo
Thu 08/21/14 12:19 PM

<shrug>
love the skin your in


its very hard to do in such an image driven society, but still wonderful advice,,,

Datwasntme's photo
Thu 08/21/14 12:27 PM


<shrug>
love the skin your in


its very hard to do in such an image driven society, but still wonderful advice,,,


all depends on the person <shrug>
but yeah i can relate cause i cut my hair to fit in a little better <shrug>

no photo
Thu 08/21/14 12:50 PM
Apparently, from what I've read, some are just simply Breatharians..

TBRich's photo
Thu 08/21/14 01:00 PM


I used to get into arguments with the sex therapists who consulted with me; there was a client who liked black women and the therapist wanted me to get him a black love doll. I told her "Whoa Hoss"; firstly, I did not consider that functional, why isn't she working on the social skills needed to get a girlfriend; more importantly, I worried about his generalization- if he was used to manipulating/dominating a doll, how would he be with a real person? Most of my guys were a bit off.

So my first reaction is that this has little to do with "looks", but with some odd need.
Now if the stars align, I don't have a problem with it, for example, I had a guy to the point where he would boil an exhaust pipe until it was just the right temperature and then go at it, recreating his first experience, instead of risking getting arrested for doing it in public to people's cars. However, in my experience the stars don't always align- is she really gonna find someone with this fetish who will be consistently loving and caring in a relationship? I wish her luck


why ? same reason my x wife's doctor that she was going to , to help her deal with the fact that she could not have kids said it was ok to have other guys to sleep with <shrug>

just cause they are doctors don't mean they are right in the head lol


Yeah my ex ":put more men on the job" as well