Hey I'm only 20, but the luck I've had with girls can be classified as awful.
I mean, I just don't understand. I'm nice, honest, I have a career lined up, and I'm real easy to get along with. I just can find a girl either worth dating or any that stick around. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
Can someone at least point me in the right direction?

Anything, I dont care if its negative.

Chris you have everything going for you.focus on the career and the rest will follow..good luck jackie

Allright, thanks. I hope youre right. lol

i wouldn't know what to tell ya, but keep you head up and look ahead of ya, keep your career ahead of you and a fine women will come by for you! good luck!

haha, ok

chris i think ur adorable u have problems finding girls???

move to Il

Maybe I should

Maybe I should get a cool car and be a jerk. Those guys have better luck than me. Lol

I love nice guys and most of the time when i think i found one he changes out of nowhere. I don't know you but in my opinion maybe these girls you are going after are not wanting the same things you do... maybe they are looking for just a good time and nothing more. If you go for women who are wanting what you want then it might be easier find a winner. Another thing is you said girls... not women and there is a difference find a woman and your luck might change, good luck!

Girls and women, allright now youre just splitting hairs. I'm not sure of what I'm looking for, and that's definitely a problem in and of itself.

try not looking when you least expect it she'll caome along......

hmmm...

at your age, not alot of women/girls are emotionally ready to be in a relationship.....alot wanna party.....I know I did.....now look at me???

A girl wants to party and play the field... And a woman wants something more... commitment and i am sure you don't need that in your life at 20 so maybe that may be the reason why they are not taking you seriously. Most girls/women prefer older men.

i'm with gypsy, lol. the world has changed. 20 is the new 0. 40 the new 20.

we're all still just babies, but somebody better get me pregnant soon anyway.

be patient, make friends, be awesome, enjoy.

Now hang on a second I'm not looking for my future wife. God no, not now. I'm just trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. I party too, and... oh what the hell.

Hey Chris. Im twenty and what 'tonguekiss' said is very correct. Most girls my age that are actually looking for a relationship and commitment look for older guys. If they dont want a relationship/commitment then they are out having fun. We're both young you should just live freely ya know. If you seriously want to find love Don't go looking for love... let it find you because thats why its called falling... you dont mean to... you just do. But seriously there are girls out there our age that actually want a commiting relationship but they look for older men because it seems like a lot of the guys our age are players, and the same with women. Which isnt true with everyone, but most ppl our age are not looking for a relationship. Just let it find you , when its the right time and the right girl, you'll know.

I know I'm young. But that doesnt mean I can't be at least a little concerned. Its not like I'm just sitting at my house wondering why my life sucks. I'm out doin stuff, mainly getting ready to go overseas. I am looking for a relationship, you know, a girlfriend, not marriage.