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Topic: How to start the conversation?
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Wed 11/12/14 08:31 PM
So I've been messaging and havent been getting really any responses so I'm starting to wonder if its because of how I'm starting a conversation. I usually say "hi how are you". Anyone with any tips please let me know

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Wed 11/12/14 08:53 PM
woah, slow your roll turbo. women on mingle are not interested in a man who cares about how a woman feels from jump street. try catcalling in different languages. pretend you aren't interested in her and ask about her sister. women on mingle respond best to charientism

forget the above and just be yourself. post in the forums, women will get interested

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Wed 11/12/14 09:23 PM
yeah what the beautiful woman above me said.... it has nothing to do with looks.... laughing so hard...
... a simple hello always gets a response...lol..

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Wed 11/12/14 09:27 PM
don't listen to her. women have smaller brains than men (it's scientifically proven) plus she has blonde hair. sheesh

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Wed 11/12/14 09:36 PM
charientism? women, bless their hearts

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Wed 11/12/14 09:43 PM
From my personal point of view, the way you start the conversation usually doesn't matter unless your impolite or say something perverted. Your appearance and what your profile says also runs a big part of attraction. A lot of people run this way. Even though I am bigger on personality I am big on looks. I hope this helps.whoa

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Wed 11/12/14 09:43 PM
Okay, I definitely seemed so rude. I apologise for that.sad2

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Wed 11/12/14 11:06 PM
What science are you talking about buddy? If you mean medicine, then you should know that male and female brains are identical except that women can multitask better than men. On the other hand, men are privileged with deep thinking skills. So basically, women can work best as CEOs, senior managers, executives..etc. While men can be scientists, philosophers..etc. Nevertheless, this is not a rule of the thumb as there are other factors which determine the overall intellectual ability. Enjoy your day mate!

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Wed 11/12/14 11:07 PM

don't listen to her. women have smaller brains than men (it's scientifically proven) plus she has blonde hair. sheesh



What science are you talking about buddy? If you mean medicine, then you should know that male and female brains are identical except that women can multitask better than men. On the other hand, men are privileged with deep thinking skills. So basically, women can work best as CEOs, senior managers, executives..etc. While men can be scientists, philosophers..etc. Nevertheless, this is not a rule of the thumb as there are other factors which determine the overall intellectual ability. Enjoy your day mate!

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Thu 11/13/14 12:21 AM
It's a numbers game. If you say, "Hi, wanna shag?"enough times, eventually someone will say yes.

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Thu 11/13/14 01:58 AM
Start out "I was thinking about you today in the men's room and was wondering how your doing" Just kidding! I agree with the Bulldog, just be yourself, post in the forums to let people know who you really are. Best of luck to you.

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Thu 11/13/14 04:00 AM

It's a numbers game. If you say, "Hi, wanna shag?"enough times, eventually someone will say yes.


I have to disagree with this, I've tried thousands of times and still nothing.

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Thu 11/13/14 05:58 AM
klc pretty much nailed it. What individual wants to feel anything less than unique? If someone took the time to actually fill out a profile and you take the time to mention something specific from that it shows that their efforts weren't wasted.

Also, realistically, you have to gauge their level of intelligence and whether or not you want to start casually or be really witty and appeal to them on that level.

Or... maybe that person just isn't into you.

Also... the numbers game isn't advisable, but it does sort of work. It all depends on if you want to be honest or manipulative.

As you may guess, sometimes my intros go well and sometimes they don't. Haha.

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Thu 11/13/14 06:31 AM

So I've been messaging and havent been getting really any responses so I'm starting to wonder if its because of how I'm starting a conversation. I usually say "hi how are you". Anyone with any tips please let me know


Read their profile before you message them...If there isn't enough info in it to provide a 'unique to them' opening line, move on.....Don't assume every female member is looking for romance:wink: ....Welcome MrBald! flowerforyou

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Thu 11/13/14 09:58 AM


It's a numbers game. If you say, "Hi, wanna shag?"enough times, eventually someone will say yes.


I have to disagree with this, I've tried thousands of times and still nothing.


Wouldn't that suck if you gave up one time too early?

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Thu 11/13/14 10:37 AM



It's a numbers game. If you say, "Hi, wanna shag?"enough times, eventually someone will say yes.


I have to disagree with this, I've tried thousands of times and still nothing.


Wouldn't that suck if you gave up one time too early?


^^^That's the spirit!bigsmile

flowerforyou

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Thu 11/13/14 10:48 AM

So I've been messaging and havent been getting really any responses so I'm starting to wonder if its because of how I'm starting a conversation. I usually say "hi how are you". Anyone with any tips please let me know
Tell them you have "abs",I got that rite here on the forums!sad2 bigsmile

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Thu 11/13/14 10:53 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Thu 11/13/14 10:53 AM
:tongue: Wanna shag?laugh





frustrated Would have had much more impact if the page didn't turn.

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Thu 11/13/14 10:54 AM




It's a numbers game. If you say, "Hi, wanna shag?"enough times, eventually someone will say yes.


I have to disagree with this, I've tried thousands of times and still nothing.


Wouldn't that suck if you gave up one time too early?


^^^That's the spirit!bigsmile

flowerforyou


:tongue: love Wanna shag?laugh


THERE!

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Thu 11/13/14 10:55 AM
Edited by Awatersign on Thu 11/13/14 10:57 AM
What klc said is true,I know from experience,and sometimes it's just not you also,people don't always put the stuff that's important in their profile,example,she may only date her race but don't have it in her profile,she maybe looking for just locals,while some you won't be able to reach for the same reason!!

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