I get that^^^

I think its the right thing to do to tell someone they are being inappropriate because my hope is that they dont realise that. If they get the message, and stop the offensive behavior, great. If they get the message and continue anyway, at least we know what kind of person they are.

The most unfortunate problem, is that if men dont hear this message from other men, it will continue, because, these sorts, already don't respect women. And without male intervention they likely never will. Thank goodness some step up but its not nearly enough of them.

Men need to stop thinking theyre being nice by not telling another guy he's being rude to women. Its not nice. Its not none of his business. It is exactly what creates the rape culture.

Anytime a man does nothing, he has supported it.

Beach glad you brought this up... Many may not know it nor have read the rules that are in the New Members Forums.. That Forum is strictly for members to introduce themselves.. I have seen many times and yes here lately were a new member will post. And many will jump in due to the way they worded the post. Or they will go read their profile and attack them for what they are looking for..

Just remember regardless if they are married or not. It takes two to tango and it never fails they can always find someone that don't care if they are..

Also I have seen several that will make fun of those that misspell words or not put them in the correct order.. Then the popcorn comes out and seems several flock to that thread just to throw in their two cents worth...

I would hate to know that anyone would do that to someone they first met.. I shake my head at times and wonder, how would they react if you meet them in person... More then once I have seen New Members deactivate.. all just because some decided to have a little fun.. it really is pretty sad to watch..

It only takes a few minutes to read what you have typed out before you click on the Post Reply link...What would you think if someone posted that towards you.... How would you feel or take it... Sure many of you would find out, that you would not like it if you were in their place..

I will agree there are many threads that it is hard to resist saying something... Too many forget there is a person behind those typed words and no one knows what they have dealt with.. With this being a international site we are going to run into language issues.. But that does not make it right to totally take over their thread for a few laughs... at someone else expense...