Are all the good guys taken

.. it's because we're all too busy ..being hysterically funny..
eats up .a lot of time you know..
this kind of material does not just write itself.. you know..lol

No it's because most of u guys are afraid of commitment and enjoy been a pain in the *** and is looking for sex talks and most times u aren't really single just want to have fun

well and there is that too^^ I guess..

No1phd atleast u have your dog to keep u warm lol

Because girls don't respond to right guys, because they don't know how to smarm their way in!
They only reply to those that can con their way into a girls heart, and if they're good at it, why stop when they meet someone, so they do it again. Then the girl ends up thinking, "All men are bastards".
No there not, just the ones they choose are!

Sorry, Ian.

That seams a little bias / generalization.

Are all the good GIRLS/LADIES taken??

There is nothing bias about my statement it's the naked truth

Lol well I can vouch for the fact that she did specify "most" of the men she's encountered on this site, not "all" as I've experienced the same thing, and I've been here a while! Some refuse to meet in person, or can't for whatever reason that may be, some are just out for video sex, most are scammers who are usually easily detectable, and others are just plain game players. In all fairness though, I imagine lots of men experience the same with many women.

I live in a small town there are no men here that are single and my age , I would love to meet someone whether he is serious or not lol

Seriously I have not been on a date in , well I don't want to say but its been awhile

Thank u dcastelmissy.i am not here to waste anyone time so I don't want anyone to waste mine.most of these guys will tell u they have everything in this world except a good woman and when they are talking to one they don't really know because they are so much into games and right away asking for naked photos and then they complain that ladies are asking them for money.guys if u want to see ladies naked there are plenty nude sites for that

dang that's what I'm doing wrong !!.I should have asked for naked pictures first..lol.... and these sites you speak of.. that have plenty of naked pictures on them.. can you give a guy some names.. please..lol..jk..

No1phd are u familiar with search engines and do u know how to use them.

Pffffttt!!!!

I think it'll help if more women would put as much as possible in their profiles what they're looking for,cause the definition of a good man obviously ain't the same to all women,whats garbage to you maybe treasure to someone else,and visa versa,so the more specific and real you are ,the least time should be wasted,if i read someone's profile and I'm not what the describe,as a"good man,"I'd respect that and move on or just say hi anyway and good luck,but there's good men and women that aren't taken!!

send me visa and I will be there for u haha lol

Well, I have! But that doesn't keep the scammers and players away! They don't respect boundaries or profiles or anything so your suggestion doesn't help there!

shylady, honestly I was disillusioned also with online dating and turned to the forums for entertainment and to wile the time away.

I too found as Missy and you had. Took me 4 years to find somebody that actually clicked and I never approved of LDR's either.

Tomorrow I will have one day left before I meet my love who's driving over 950 miles to me.

You may want to check your profile and rewrite it. Somehow it seems a bit desperate, and vultures will hone in on that. Keep it positive. I had a full profile up for years, but was not on this site. When I took it down to barely nothing, go figure, HE starts messaging me. But I also knew him from the internet forums for a few years and we reconnected.

Use the filers on the site in the mail settings. USE THEM! They work wonders.

Good luck and keep your wits about you. There are many, many multiple profiles not just scammers, but idiots who have nothing better to do than to screw with peoples minds for kicks.