I have lost all my friends over the years due to lifestyle changes for the better, I have lost my past relationship and I have very very little family left. I am only 35, this should not be the norm. What does a person do to maintain when one has so little? And the od thing is is that I am funny, goofy, caring, loving, loyal, trustworthy, decent looking, in shape, hard working, snuggly lol, good with conversation, passionate, willing to try just about anything, outgoing, good listener, etc etc etc.

I hope this is posted in the proper place and if not I do apologize.

it seems to me that some people make their happiness depend on things out of their own control. some need another person to be happy, some need material objects, some need more money. i guarantee i guarantee that if those things are ever met in those types of people's lives, it wont be enough

may i suggest you do what makes you happy. be content with the things you acquire for yourself. then you can invite others to share in your happiness. if they do, you are happy. if they don't, you are happy. you just might find that your joy will attract more people to you than you can shake a stick at

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the beauty of love is it is the family of those whom choose to love...

the natural enemy of the love seekers.

may your days be filled with loving, in the many places to love in your town, the nursing homes, the homeless shelters, the abused and battered shelters...

oh they so need and wish for a soul as your self with no ties nor family...

blessings blessings...

oh what a beautiful soul be the one who give of it's love kindly unto these places, and great marvelous new families it self doth find.

peace lil familyless one.

If you wait and spend time on the forums people get to know your personality and will be attracted to the good things about you. Give mingle a chance if nothing else it will give you something to do when you are bored.
You may actually find that even if you are only reading the posts and not participating some of them are very funny. I always feel down when I come onto mingle, but after reading and participating in the posts I find myself laughing out loud at some of the antics of the other posters.
Give it time you will enjoy it, you never know you may find someone.
Good luck

Here's a start,get one dog,one nice dog,you and da dog hangout,go for walks WITH, da dog, spend good quality time WITH,da dog,you see, dogs knows how to make friends,heck da dog may even help find you a mate,and most of all, da dog will even BE YOUR FRIEND,but for this purpose,you need not get an INTIMIDATING DOG, ,but I ain't say get a sissy looking dog though,try it!!

Welcome to Mingles ! The forums are the best place to have fun and get your laughs! You will find lots of funny, goofy and caring people here and will in no time feel at home. But participate more.

Put up a photo so people will know the person behind the scene. Friends will come and go, we will make new ones and they could be better.... good luck to you on your search!

You mentioned in another thread you had a daughter... There is where you should put your focus on...

As far as what the norm is what is normal anymore... Make new friends if your daughter is in school get involved make a difference starting with her... All the rest will fall into place...