Topic: These Kids!! Explain why kids are on a dating site.
avamari2's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:47 AM
Looking for a better source, but this one sums it up:

http://science.howstuffworks.com/life/inside-the-mind/human-brain/teenage-brain1.htm

medo05's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:49 AM
well every rule has exceptions as u see there are some kids who are 9 or 10 years old and smarter than people at 30's and 40's
well am one of the exceptions :tongue: shades

avamari2's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:49 AM
Never said I was old. I was playing off the vibe from our young male friend "Medo".

Come to think of it... he should check out the link. His quick temper (emotion) instead of legit sound reasoning, sort of exhibit exactly the thing I'm talking about...

Thanks friend!

JulieSua's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:50 AM

Julie, I suppose it really just is a"sign of the times". When I was your age

(Pause-- DID I JUST SAY THAT?!?)

ahem... it USED to be that these type of sites were pretty taboo unless you were older. But then, we had AOL chatrooms... which while not so overt, could be argued to have had the same overall purpose...

Anyways, I appreciate your input ma dear (I guess I'll just own the 'old woman' image)!


your topic really sparked an interest in me to get involve (don't as why) no harm was done, this was simply a very interesting thing cause I do wonder myself why I am on sites like this but I have yet more to discover and learn and I hope the choices I make leads me there.

no ones throwing the "old lady" lab3l no one likes to be labelled so I don't think your being one.

medo05's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:52 AM
lol am not angry or mad am just being sarcastic maybe u just couldnt get it bigsmile sorryoops

avamari2's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:53 AM

well every rule has exceptions as u see there are some kids who are 9 or 10 years old and smarter than people at 30's and 40's
well am one of the exceptions :tongue: shades


Its not a matter of intelligence... I'm plenty intelligent, always have been, but the logic behind the research most certainly holds up. "Intellect" is not a one-dimensional process. It's impossible to compare smart people, or say that one person (of any age) is smarter than another (of older , or younger) age.

And nothing about this thread had any mention of intelligence. That's all you.

JulieSua's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:53 AM

lol am not angry or mad am just being sarcastic maybe u just couldnt get it bigsmile sorryoops


reeeally? you don't say!

medo05's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:54 AM
bigsmile i didnt even check the link and that wasn't about intelligence i just stated an EXAMPLE!!

medo05's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:54 AM


lol am not angry or mad am just being sarcastic maybe u just couldnt get it bigsmile sorryoops


reeeally? you don't say!

i just said

zzzippy56's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:55 AM

well every rule has exceptions as u see there are some kids who are 9 or 10 years old and smarter than people at 30's and 40's
well am one of the exceptions :tongue: shades


I dont think you understand what she is looking for here..
Maybe in a few more years you will I'm sure of it....

medo05's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:56 AM


well every rule has exceptions as u see there are some kids who are 9 or 10 years old and smarter than people at 30's and 40's
well am one of the exceptions :tongue: shades


I dont think you understand what she is looking for here..
Maybe in a few more years you will I'm sure of it....

i dont think in few more years i will be really interested in that since i will be having more important stuff to do laugh

avamari2's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:56 AM


Julie, I suppose it really just is a"sign of the times". When I was your age

(Pause-- DID I JUST SAY THAT?!?)

ahem... it USED to be that these type of sites were pretty taboo unless you were older. But then, we had AOL chatrooms... which while not so overt, could be argued to have had the same overall purpose...

Anyways, I appreciate your input ma dear (I guess I'll just own the 'old woman' image)!


your topic really sparked an interest in me to get involve (don't as why) no harm was done, this was simply a very interesting thing cause I do wonder myself why I am on sites like this but I have yet more to discover and learn and I hope the choices I make leads me there.

no ones throwing the "old lady" lab3l no one likes to be labelled so I don't think your being one.


Thanks, but I was being fecetious... (tough crowd). I truly don't feel old, and offending me is one of the most challenging things a person could even attempt. I'm never mad.

Fired up, perhaps... never mad, and certainly never offended.

I believe one thing: no one makes you feel any way. You allow yourself to feel it or not. Never give anyone so much power.

medo05's photo
Tue 01/27/15 03:59 AM



Julie, I suppose it really just is a"sign of the times". When I was your age

(Pause-- DID I JUST SAY THAT?!?)

ahem... it USED to be that these type of sites were pretty taboo unless you were older. But then, we had AOL chatrooms... which while not so overt, could be argued to have had the same overall purpose...

Anyways, I appreciate your input ma dear (I guess I'll just own the 'old woman' image)!


your topic really sparked an interest in me to get involve (don't as why) no harm was done, this was simply a very interesting thing cause I do wonder myself why I am on sites like this but I have yet more to discover and learn and I hope the choices I make leads me there.

no ones throwing the "old lady" lab3l no one likes to be labelled so I don't think your being one.


Thanks, but I was being fecetious... (tough crowd). I truly don't feel old, and offending me is one of the most challenging things a person could even attempt. I'm never mad.

Fired up, perhaps... never mad, and certainly never offended.

I believe one thing: no one makes you feel any way. You allow yourself to feel it or not. Never give anyone so much power.

why would u even get offended if someone tells you that ur old?? well i would love to be called old once bigsmile plus i neither get offended if am called young i dont really care about age but when u started the thread with mentioning ages ( 18, 19, 20) i had to do it so

avamari2's photo
Tue 01/27/15 04:03 AM


Ouch Medo! Was that necessary?

Karma's a b*tch, ya know. Be nice.

I'm not saying you shouldn't be dating. You TOTALLY SHOULD! Have a blast with it!! But... I guess I associate dating sites with people looking for a long-term, serious relationship in situations where it may not be convenient/ideal.

So, maybe I'm wrong, but you being so quick-to-temper isn't really going to help your cause, is it?


there you go, finally spilled the beans. "long term?" hmm I cant say I am at that stage esp age in my life to be settling down anytime soon, got waaay to much to look forward too in life.

though dating sites are for "long term" (I say this all in a non-temper way)I may just have to respectfully disagree with you on that.


Long-term, because it seems like an awfully huge amount of effort to go on what may amount to only one or two dates. Have you met anyone from here yet? How long did you chat before you met? What interested you in wanting to initially talk, and then enough so to meet?

JulieSua's photo
Tue 01/27/15 04:03 AM



Julie, I suppose it really just is a"sign of the times". When I was your age

(Pause-- DID I JUST SAY THAT?!?)

ahem... it USED to be that these type of sites were pretty taboo unless you were older. But then, we had AOL chatrooms... which while not so overt, could be argued to have had the same overall purpose...

Anyways, I appreciate your input ma dear (I guess I'll just own the 'old woman' image)!


your topic really sparked an interest in me to get involve (don't as why) no harm was done, this was simply a very interesting thing cause I do wonder myself why I am on sites like this but I have yet more to discover and learn and I hope the choices I make leads me there.

no ones throwing the "old lady" lab3l no one likes to be labelled so I don't think your being one.


Thanks, but I was being fecetious... (tough crowd). I truly don't feel old, and offending me is one of the most challenging things a person could even attempt. I'm never mad.

Fired up, perhaps... never mad, and certainly never offended.

I believe one thing: no one makes you feel any way. You allow yourself to feel it or not. Never give anyone so much power.


I would have to agree 100%, mad is a stage neither of us would turn too but fire up is indeed the word!

words are only words - it is what you make of it that affects. (quoted by Julie)

avamari2's photo
Tue 01/27/15 04:04 AM




Julie, I suppose it really just is a"sign of the times". When I was your age

(Pause-- DID I JUST SAY THAT?!?)

ahem... it USED to be that these type of sites were pretty taboo unless you were older. But then, we had AOL chatrooms... which while not so overt, could be argued to have had the same overall purpose...

Anyways, I appreciate your input ma dear (I guess I'll just own the 'old woman' image)!


your topic really sparked an interest in me to get involve (don't as why) no harm was done, this was simply a very interesting thing cause I do wonder myself why I am on sites like this but I have yet more to discover and learn and I hope the choices I make leads me there.

no ones throwing the "old lady" lab3l no one likes to be labelled so I don't think your being one.


Thanks, but I was being fecetious... (tough crowd). I truly don't feel old, and offending me is one of the most challenging things a person could even attempt. I'm never mad.

Fired up, perhaps... never mad, and certainly never offended.

I believe one thing: no one makes you feel any way. You allow yourself to feel it or not. Never give anyone so much power.

why would u even get offended if someone tells you that ur old?? well i would love to be called old once bigsmile plus i neither get offended if am called young i dont really care about age but when u started the thread with mentioning ages ( 18, 19, 20) i had to do it so


Young is a relative term. Young to my grandmother is still my mother's age. So... I listed ages just for the sake of clarity as to what "young" referred to in this context.

JulieSua's photo
Tue 01/27/15 04:09 AM



Ouch Medo! Was that necessary?

Karma's a b*tch, ya know. Be nice.

I'm not saying you shouldn't be dating. You TOTALLY SHOULD! Have a blast with it!! But... I guess I associate dating sites with people looking for a long-term, serious relationship in situations where it may not be convenient/ideal.

So, maybe I'm wrong, but you being so quick-to-temper isn't really going to help your cause, is it?


there you go, finally spilled the beans. "long term?" hmm I cant say I am at that stage esp age in my life to be settling down anytime soon, got waaay to much to look forward too in life.

though dating sites are for "long term" (I say this all in a non-temper way)I may just have to respectfully disagree with you on that.


Long-term, because it seems like an awfully huge amount of effort to go on what may amount to only one or two dates. Have you met anyone from here yet? How long did you chat before you met? What interested you in wanting to initially talk, and then enough so to meet?


oh wow so many questions...ill rephrase back to what I wrote about seeking for what we cant find in our everyday life.

I myself have JUST started taking this sort of "social" up, come here with no goal in finding "the one" but came with a wide open mind to the possibilities of ever finding someone.

avamari2's photo
Tue 01/27/15 04:14 AM




Ouch Medo! Was that necessary?

Karma's a b*tch, ya know. Be nice.

I'm not saying you shouldn't be dating. You TOTALLY SHOULD! Have a blast with it!! But... I guess I associate dating sites with people looking for a long-term, serious relationship in situations where it may not be convenient/ideal.

So, maybe I'm wrong, but you being so quick-to-temper isn't really going to help your cause, is it?


there you go, finally spilled the beans. "long term?" hmm I cant say I am at that stage esp age in my life to be settling down anytime soon, got waaay to much to look forward too in life.

though dating sites are for "long term" (I say this all in a non-temper way)I may just have to respectfully disagree with you on that.


Long-term, because it seems like an awfully huge amount of effort to go on what may amount to only one or two dates. Have you met anyone from here yet? How long did you chat before you met? What interested you in wanting to initially talk, and then enough so to meet?


oh wow so many questions...ill rephrase back to what I wrote about seeking for what we cant find in our everyday life.

I myself have JUST started taking this sort of "social" up, come here with no goal in finding "the one" but came with a wide open mind to the possibilities of ever finding someone.


The questions may help you understand where I'm at with this. Seems like a lot of effort for maybe not very fruitful reward. Also, seems dangerous... or maybe I'm paranoid, although this would be the first time anyone has called me paranoid...

The mentality you have about keeping an open mind and seeking possibilities is ALWAYS a good perspective. I wholeheartedly give you the best of luck.

:-)

JulieSua's photo
Tue 01/27/15 04:19 AM





Ouch Medo! Was that necessary?

Karma's a b*tch, ya know. Be nice.

I'm not saying you shouldn't be dating. You TOTALLY SHOULD! Have a blast with it!! But... I guess I associate dating sites with people looking for a long-term, serious relationship in situations where it may not be convenient/ideal.

So, maybe I'm wrong, but you being so quick-to-temper isn't really going to help your cause, is it?


there you go, finally spilled the beans. "long term?" hmm I cant say I am at that stage esp age in my life to be settling down anytime soon, got waaay to much to look forward too in life.

though dating sites are for "long term" (I say this all in a non-temper way)I may just have to respectfully disagree with you on that.


Long-term, because it seems like an awfully huge amount of effort to go on what may amount to only one or two dates. Have you met anyone from here yet? How long did you chat before you met? What interested you in wanting to initially talk, and then enough so to meet?


oh wow so many questions...ill rephrase back to what I wrote about seeking for what we cant find in our everyday life.

I myself have JUST started taking this sort of "social" up, come here with no goal in finding "the one" but came with a wide open mind to the possibilities of ever finding someone.


The questions may help you understand where I'm at with this. Seems like a lot of effort for maybe not very fruitful reward. Also, seems dangerous... or maybe I'm paranoid, although this would be the first time anyone has called me paranoid...

The mentality you have about keeping an open mind and seeking possibilities is ALWAYS a good perspective. I wholeheartedly give you the best of luck.

:-)


okay this kids getting tired.. thank you for the "life lesson" as this felt very much like one, you - paranoid? nah I don't think so, its obvious "ways of time where clashed" :)

Conrad_73's photo
Tue 01/27/15 04:25 AM

i was just being sarcastic cuz i find oldies here on this site hate on us (teenagers) so much as if we are their enemies bigsmile
anyhow what i meant is that like normally a stable family should be (mother, father, kids) right?? i want to have that good family at a younger age so that there will be no BIG age difference between me and my kids thts my point.


'cause,"Youth Is Wasted On The Young"!

George Bernard Shaw

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