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Topic: The "Gotcha" question from a man!
tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Tue 03/03/15 04:21 PM
It's kind of like a woman asking a man "do I look fat in this outfit"? I have always lied when a less "endowed" man has asked me about his size. How do you tell a man....um no really you are actually quite small. Guys....why do you ask women this???? Women always get surprised when they see me. I used to think they were just being nice and that I was really normal, but they were just being in the moment, until my ex. My ex was one of those who didn't care if you liked what she said or not, she was going to tell you without sugar coating it. She told I was above average and coming from her that was her honest opinion. I never asked if I was big or not. I have always asked if it really was good for them, did they really enjoy this or that. even though I would be careful to pay attention to reactions, body language, etc. Get out the ruler then. I've heard this line before I do believe.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10623	Tue 03/03/15 04:22 PM
I wish all women wouldn't speak for me. I prefer small. I am a small woman, so average size is too big for me. There are other things a man can do that I would rather have.

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Tue 03/03/15 04:23 PM
It's kind of like a woman asking a man "do I look fat in this outfit"? I have always lied when a less "endowed" man has asked me about his size. How do you tell a man....um no really you are actually quite small. Guys....why do you ask women this???? Have you ever dated a guy with "it"sooo tiny that when it gets really cold he like really can't find it? Yes, I have. So sad, too bad.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 03/03/15 04:24 PM Edited by no1phD on Tue 03/03/15 04:25 PM
can you^^.. elaborate please..lol WHAT!!! IT NEVER HURTS TO GET POINTERS.. .. above you..lol

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Tue 03/03/15 04:29 PM
I don't think that being petite has anything to do with what works for you with the size of a man. I am petite and well um yeah. lol.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10623	Tue 03/03/15 04:35 PM
I am smaller than petite.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 03/03/15 04:35 PM
I don't think that being petite has anything to do with what works for you with the size of a man. I am petite and well um yeah. lol. .. well um yeah.. .. may I interject here.. KING KONG DONG CRAZY..LOL.. I'm joking of course...... you seem like a very well balanced normal woman...

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Tue 03/03/15 04:37 PM
Guys bragging about BD often over - compensate. . just saying. .

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Tue 03/03/15 04:39 PM
... She told me mine was the right size. I believe it's question of vanity to ask the question. No different than a woman asking a question about her breasts or P. I believe the response is to reassure your partner or potential partner. I believe if you view their physical attributes as having the greatest importance, then you are relegating the rest of the person's potential to obscurity. I believe the potential of a true intimate relationship lies beyond the physical of our body. The body changes. It is the soul or essence of the person that will remain long after we return to the cosmos. bye now... Guess you never heard of Kundalini, Tantra? The essence of that and what it can bring you? No? Didn't think so ... We incarnated in physical bodies to experience things we cannot experience in energy form. Like pain, illness, lust, being touched, sex... If we could've experienced everything as an energy form, we wouldn't have incarnated in 3D bodies to begin with. There's nothing wrong with enjoying our bodies and the pleasure they can give us. Being touched, loved, made love to, makes us healthier and our bodies fit. It enhances the bond between two people. Ever been intimate with someone and felt your energy bodies merge into one? No? Didn't think so. . . Oh .... Bye now!

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Tue 03/03/15 04:40 PM
I am smaller than petite. So says you? I have no idea. You have no pic. But then I guess you may be kid sized. You sure you aren't a kid. I guess you're size definitely has you limited. I know a great guy for you. Seriously. You anywhere near Kansas or Iowa? He's moving to Iowa in a few months.

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Tue 03/03/15 04:42 PM
I am smaller than petite. So says you? I have no idea. You have no pic. But then I guess you may be kid sized. You sure you aren't a kid. I guess you're size definitely has you limited. I know a great guy for you. Seriously. You anywhere near Kansas or Iowa? He's moving to Iowa in a few months. I know one too.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 03/03/15 04:42 PM
Guys bragging about BD often over - compensate. . just saying. . ... if one is driving a Ferrari.. one does not park it in the garage.. . One . polishes it. to a high sheen and then drives it around the neighborhood...lol.. .

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Tue 03/03/15 04:43 PM
I don't think that being petite has anything to do with what works for you with the size of a man. I am petite and well um yeah. lol. .. well um yeah.. .. may I interject here.. KING KONG DONG CRAZY..LOL.. I'm joking of course...... you seem like a very well balanced normal woman... Ahh, success. I've scammed another. Just kidding. I am but I also know what works for me. And thanks for the well balanced comment. I do appreciate that. Now don't you go negating that with some sort of comment. lol

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 03/03/15 04:48 PM


tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Tue 03/03/15 04:53 PM
Well done. I'm amazed and awed by your complement and self control.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 03/03/15 04:55 PM
Ohhhh.. I have lots and lots of self control... an abundance of self control.... you would be" amazed "at how much self control I have..

Maxisu Joined Wed 07/16/14 Posts: 1212	Tue 03/03/15 04:59 PM
I thought it was the "motion of the ocean" that mattered? How does one set the ocean in motion when there's not enough... Maybe for some that's okay. Everyone's different. Plus what's small for one, may be enough for another. Thank god we're all unique! Bet you say that to all the guys. Well.. gotta do something to ease the pain when I put the tape measure back in my pocket, shake my head and usher him towards the door ...but it still IS the truth....

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Tue 03/03/15 05:01 PM
Ohhhh.. I have lots and lots of self control... an abundance of self control.... you would be" amazed "at how much self control I have.. Well isn't that just wonderful. lol. You are Mr. Wonderful with Self Control. Now, that benefits me how????

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 03/03/15 05:04 PM
come here.. no closer.. a little closer so I can whisper in your ear.... The benefits of self-control...mmm. .... your hair smells nice by the way..

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Tue 03/03/15 05:13 PM
come here.. no closer.. a little closer so I can whisper in your ear.... The benefits of self-control...mmm. .... your hair smells nice by the way.. Ha, you are such a flirt. You do that with all the wimmin!