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Topic: Please give me an advice
tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Mon 04/20/15 04:42 PM


Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 04/20/15 05:02 PM
Nooo doc,I think the problem's further DOWN!

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Mon 04/20/15 05:11 PM
I don't know whether this guy is really that stupid. Or we are for answering. I don't think I was that dumb at 20.

TyphoonMk1b Joined Sun 04/05/15 Posts: 290	Mon 04/20/15 05:18 PM
in short, "i am displaying my sorrow because i need a MILF to comfort me" If it were not for the english.... it might even work. but as it stands, i can only offer a trip to "ikea" and "home depot". They have the right tools and furniture for this kind of situation.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Mon 04/20/15 05:43 PM
Maybe he's drunk and doesn't realize he cant spell. And doesn't even realize he pushed post reply.

RobertLMNY Joined Sat 04/18/15 Posts: 1	Mon 04/20/15 05:44 PM
I have the answer. Period. There is no problem. You have deconstructed the woman to her purest form…her parts. And now you have come to the point that you have nowhere to go but up. In real life you need to sit down with a woman. Listen to her. Share with her. At this time you are your own Guinea Pig. Don’t overthink. Hold onto one thing in that time with her. Make her a person, then graduate her over a short period to a woman. She is fascinating. She has wants and needs. Do any of those intersect? I know that they do. Good looks attract us to the opposite sex but looks are temporary and at quick glance they are just the external things. Focus on her beauty, the stuff under the flesh. It will come back, man. Not in the porn, fantasy way. I get it, you’re 20. But make it real and you will find your niche. Luck.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10623	Mon 04/20/15 05:53 PM
It doesn't help to call people stupid.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Mon 04/20/15 06:23 PM
This is not the best place to get medical Advice but at your age with the symptoms you are describing I would suggest you look up Depression on the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill site. They have readily understandable information even videos and can get you reliable referrals if you are in the USA. Having worked with many guys in their early twenties it is not unusual for "situational " depression to occur because the support systems that used to work when you were younger are changing along with a lot of other things. Getting into a formal or informal support group can help you avoid making a minor problem into a bigger problem by becoming isolated from normal happy in person relationships, and more depressed. Which, unchecked, often presents in destructive behaviors such as poor nutrition, alcohol or drug abuse, unsafe sex practices, and just poor health practices such as lack of exercise, getting natural sunlight, using good sleep hygiene, and managing finances and career. While some of what you are feeling will probably pass on it's own in time talking to a skilled professional for a short course to manage your symptoms could improve your present and future life. Good Luck.

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Mon 04/20/15 07:48 PM
I have the answer. Period. There is no problem. You have deconstructed the woman to her purest form…her parts. And now you have come to the point that you have nowhere to go but up. In real life you need to sit down with a woman. Listen to her. Share with her. At this time you are your own Guinea Pig. Don’t overthink. Hold onto one thing in that time with her. Make her a person, then graduate her over a short period to a woman. She is fascinating. She has wants and needs. Do any of those intersect? I know that they do. Good looks attract us to the opposite sex but looks are temporary and at quick glance they are just the external things. Focus on her beauty, the stuff under the flesh. It will come back, man. Not in the porn, fantasy way. I get it, you’re 20. But make it real and you will find your niche. Luck. Very important information! Fantasies in porn do not relate to real life relationships! Get a grip and realize that sex drive is not the determining factor in a truly lasting, meaningful relationship! It takes much much more than this! If you are ONLY interested in the sex, then consult a sexual therapist! If you are interested in a more I depth relationship, then seek a relationship counselor!

zabsMan Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 48	Mon 04/20/15 09:01 PM
I have to go with what Typhoon said. Go to IKEA not only do they have the right tools and a furniture for your situation, if you are lucky enough you might come across the right kind of MILF there too who may be willing to help you if you promise to write/compose a song about them and agree to sing it to them naked in bed!!

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21249	Mon 04/20/15 09:10 PM
Chokin' the chicken is a euphamism. Opie strangled the life out of his.

SassyEuro Joined Wed 03/11/15 Posts: 1000	Mon 04/20/15 10:05 PM
hello every one. i dont know weather i should share it with you or not... but after thinking a lot i took decision that i will share my problem for sure may be i get a good suggestion. freinds actually am going to turn 20 on this upcoming 3 may...... am such a young stud but then also i have lost all my intrest in womans and sex. i dont know what actually happened with me... earlier i used to watch porn a lot i used toh have a lodz of fantasies. and now its been around 4-5 months and i havnt watched any porn. womans are now just a human being for me that have bones and flesh. am in a deep depression freinds plz help me out... i want that lust that sex drive back. as this depression is also effecting my studies and carreer. If you stopped watching porn, then you are not and maybe never were addicted. If you see women as people now,it is because you are no longer desensitized & your are in reality. But now, that you are addiction free... you need to replace that with something positive that will not harm you or anyone else. I think you are depressed because you feel a void & you may have thought that watching alot of porn was normal. Find something else to do with real people. As someone else mentioned earlier, "pity sex "... rarely works. It is unlikely to attract women by trying to make them feel sorry for you. It will chase them away. IMO .

soldierrony Joined Thu 09/04/14 Posts: 45	Tue 04/21/15 02:15 AM
thanks sassy thanks a lot

soldierrony Joined Thu 09/04/14 Posts: 45	Tue 04/21/15 02:15 AM
yes missy for sure

soldierrony Joined Thu 09/04/14 Posts: 45	Tue 04/21/15 02:16 AM
thanks a lot robert for the advice

soldierrony Joined Thu 09/04/14 Posts: 45	Tue 04/21/15 02:17 AM
no mark am not drunk am just depressed and helpless

soldierrony Joined Thu 09/04/14 Posts: 45	Tue 04/21/15 02:20 AM
no lam you suggest who will be best for me doctor or psychatrist?

soldierrony Joined Thu 09/04/14 Posts: 45	Tue 04/21/15 02:22 AM
Have you seen a doctor or psychiatrist? nops

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Tue 04/21/15 02:27 AM
Have you seen a doctor or psychiatrist? nops Maybe you should think about seeing one then?

soldierrony Joined Thu 09/04/14 Posts: 45	Tue 04/21/15 02:33 AM
Have you seen a doctor or psychiatrist? nops Maybe you should think about seeing one then? actually am not getting what the actuall problem is with me.. is it some sort of physical problem or psycological problem.... or hormonal imbalance.......