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Topic: Married couple wanting a gf
Justfun_1's photo
Wed 05/13/15 01:06 PM


I know two couples who tried it,and they haven't been the same since.If you're going to try it,talk it through properly first.As one of the guys in a relationship found out,his wife started to see the third person involved behind his back.It would be too complicated for me and not worth the hassle...

I know some that it actually helped.
I think 'helped' is a bit of a cop-out. If the relationship isn't working and it takes a third party to keep it going,why bother being together ? Be single instead and play the field.
But i do accept that some couples enjoy the company of others that way and are in some strange way still exclusive in deeper emotions...

mightymoe's photo
Wed 05/13/15 01:07 PM



Some think a married couple (man and woman) wanting a girlfriend is taboo. Thoughts?
Me,NOPE,ain't happening,noway ,but wait surprised ,if it's HER idea to invite another woman,theeeen,uuuumm,maybe we can negotiate something I guess!!pitchfork bigsmile

It is my idea.


see how much he likes it when you want another dude in the mix as well...

TMommy's photo
Wed 05/13/15 01:15 PM
ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh hell no

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 05/13/15 02:53 PM



Don't share anymore after getting burnt ever stay or not is thoughts now ! I am married but ain't seen her for years don't even know how to send divorce papers to her and want a girl friend !

Talk to a lawyer you might be able to devorce her without seeing her.
I hope you find someone.


Can not afford a lawyer on minimum wage and have nearly no savings well savings probably only work out to my weeks salary !


Do you guys have something like legal aid or go to the courthouse they might give you some advice. What about a lawyer friend?
I know here you can apply for one here and if there is no contact or don't know where sheis the grant it after putting it in the news paper. There is a time you have to wait.
Good luck.

JustScribbles's photo
Wed 05/13/15 03:10 PM
Regarding the original question: I think you're on the right track. It's not everyone's taste (no pun intended :wink: ) but if the curiousity's there (for both of y'all) it's not a horrible thing to explore. It DOES take some planning and discussion, though. There are lots of variables and any or all of'em can be surprising. Talking it out ahead of time minimizes the 'bad' surprises. Can't stress it enough: Talk about it. A bunch.

I can tell you, for certain, that if your relationship - and your partner - is secure enough, it's worth it to take the plunge. Have made some good friends this way. It's not icky.

Good luck and have fun, y'all.

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Wed 05/13/15 06:04 PM

Regarding the original question: I think you're on the right track. It's not everyone's taste (no pun intended :wink: ) but if the curiousity's there (for both of y'all) it's not a horrible thing to explore. It DOES take some planning and discussion, though. There are lots of variables and any or all of'em can be surprising. Talking it out ahead of time minimizes the 'bad' surprises. Can't stress it enough: Talk about it. A bunch.

I can tell you, for certain, that if your relationship - and your partner - is secure enough, it's worth it to take the plunge. Have made some good friends this way. It's not icky.

Good luck and have fun, y'all.


what " If the relationship is secure- and your partner is secure enough" slaphead " it's worth to take the plunge" ? spock

That is like saying... " If you and your partner do NOT add another woman/ or man, then you & him are insecure alone & together "
Therefore... something is wrong with them.


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