The old disappearing trick. It would be nice to get an explanation as to why the other person just disappeared but that's not how it works. Sorry she did that but nothing can be done except move on.

Yes, it sucks. There are really those type of people who will appear and then disappear then reappear again. I am in love with one and I don't think I can play this kind of game anymore.

I have had women contact me and we have chatted for a while and things were great but then I get no more response from them.this happened already a f

That's same thew times. I just find it rude to just stop talking to someone especially if that person wanted to chat with you in the first place. I'm not a boring person and didn't say anything that would have offended them at all. I don't get it.

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Same all same all.....
I had that experience many time....
They email me first talk everyday....sounds great but they disappear because what I believe .....they found what they want....and true its rude. But we can not say anything about it.
Aim not boring person either....but I can not do anything ....just let them go....finding what they want.....

You are good looking men....you will meet another person...who will talk to you everyday.....

They've lost interest pure and simple! Hurts you but you need to keep moving forward!

I am always amazed at how people on line sometimes take things as being rude when it is neither personal or a judgment of them.

Mingle is one of my go to screens and is a fast and easy way for friends and family to give me heads up for a later call or whatever so I can be "on line" but doing many other things. Sometimes life gets crazy without notice and I have to deal with greater needs than me BSing on Mingle. Believe me if you are a close friend I will keep in touch and a select few actually have my number and address.

I am a social person but I can not possibly keep talking to everyone I meet on Mingle.

Way I roll is to give new folks a greeting and hospitality where I can . I know it can be a lonely world at various points in life and it is helpful if someone takes the time to lend a ear. I like the site and hopefully posting makes it more interesting. I am not always a sugar and spice person but if anyone reads me they know I care for most and say what I think and one can take it or leave it but if you ponder it then what I take time to say is usually in your best interest. That can be the collect you or sometimes the singular you.

If someone feels judged or ignored then I remind them that you will always be a bit disappointed how little others are thinking about you but it is not a slight and should not be taken too personal.

One thing for sure is if you want people to listen to you then you probably want to be very careful not to whine unless you really have earned the right from the people who are most likely to listen and or respond.

Also if you do NOT want to hear what folks think then don't ask questions that may get you things you do not want to hear. One thing about Mingle you will get a variety of answers. You always have the option to ignore the ones you don't like.