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I don't really believe that but would love to see people prove me wrong...am waiting
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sammysax writes is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have neve
never met in real life ? am guessing at your post cause it got cut short i did and still have with the same woman and will be for the rest of my life even though we have been broken up for a while still really think she was the best thing that walked in to my life and maybe she was the one , and i gave up to soon <shrug> but we all have are breaking points if you say it wont happen then it wont best wishes on your hunt |
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is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have neve Since it's an online dating site I have to assume you mean "never met in person" There's a success story thread. Kinda. http://mingle2.com/topic/122097 I don't really believe that but would love to see people prove me wrong...am waiting If you are looking for a ton of people to come on here and post their success stories you're going to be waiting a long time. At best you'll get a couple of anecdotal stories from people rather than a significant number of responses. People that are in love don't generally hang around dating sites just looking for people to start threads asking them to prove something. And if you're basing your beliefs or knowledge on what a handful of random strangers you will never meet assert without any real proof (how can they really prove to you they are "really" in love and not just delusional or having settled or even married at all?) do you believe that is healthy? Forums (like this) aren't for proving, they're for opinion. I don't really believe that That's good. Then don't. And don't try to fall on love online. At most try to meet people where you go off the internet and date face to face and fall in love that way. Other than that, people "fall in love" with those they've never met before allllllll the time. You ever hear of a celebrity crush? Lot of people take it farther than a "crush" believing they are in love. You ever hear of lifer prisoners or those on death row getting married and swearing it's "really" for love? People fall in love with authors all the time after reading their poetry, or fiction, or horror, or romance, or whatever genre. Why not emails? It's just as made up and dependent upon the readers interpretation. Not to mention a lot of countries practiced arranged marriages and a lot of the people that married that way came to love each other. Of course, for all I know your title could have been: -is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have never had sex with? -is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have never gone through some extreme hostage negotiation situation with? -is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have never thought you'd find attractive? -is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have never talked to? -is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have never asked how many people they slept with? Or so many other things. |
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Anything is possible.
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is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have neve Since it's an online dating site I have to assume you mean "never met in person" There's a success story thread. Kinda. http://mingle2.com/topic/122097 I don't really believe that but would love to see people prove me wrong...am waiting If you are looking for a ton of people to come on here and post their success stories you're going to be waiting a long time. At best you'll get a couple of anecdotal stories from people rather than a significant number of responses. People that are in love don't generally hang around dating sites just looking for people to start threads asking them to prove something. And if you're basing your beliefs or knowledge on what a handful of random strangers you will never meet assert without any real proof (how can they really prove to you they are "really" in love and not just delusional or having settled or even married at all?) do you believe that is healthy? Forums (like this) aren't for proving, they're for opinion. I don't really believe that That's good. Then don't. And don't try to fall on love online. At most try to meet people where you go off the internet and date face to face and fall in love that way. Other than that, people "fall in love" with those they've never met before allllllll the time. You ever hear of a celebrity crush? Lot of people take it farther than a "crush" believing they are in love. You ever hear of lifer prisoners or those on death row getting married and swearing it's "really" for love? People fall in love with authors all the time after reading their poetry, or fiction, or horror, or romance, or whatever genre. Why not emails? It's just as made up and dependent upon the readers interpretation. Not to mention a lot of countries practiced arranged marriages and a lot of the people that married that way came to love each other. Of course, for all I know your title could have been: -is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have never had sex with? -is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have never gone through some extreme hostage negotiation situation with? -is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have never thought you'd find attractive? -is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have never talked to? -is it rili possible to fall in love with someone u have never asked how many people they slept with? Or so many other things. well said : ) |
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I usually need to spend quite some time with the person, and if I fall for them, great. If I don't, there's not much that can be done about that. It's harder for me to know them, when it's over the internet. I can only know so much about him. I need to see how we compliment each other. I don't mean saying stuff like "Your jacket looks nice". There's much more to it, like not being defensive, body language, smiling often, etc.
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It depends on what you mean by "fall in love."
At least half the time, what people really mean by "fall in love," is something closer to "develop a psychological fixation" or "get really horny about." If you mean, can someone develop a real, mature level and deep sense of caring about someone they've never met, then yes I think it can happen. It's rare, and not something anyone can work on doing, though. |
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