55+ Venusian woman from Mars without orbital spinning ego extracting vengeance and payback upon innocent earth men.

Holding the past pretty tight are we? :-)

sneaks in because im under age

but no words to this, just

No bad past, just empirical data, simply observation. Rare is by nature not common.

It seems similar to the phrase; a good steak is hard to find. So it is indicated that only good steaks are rare.
If most people are honest, would an honest person be hard to find? However a 55+ woman without an agenda is rare indeed.

Well, EVERYONE has an agenda, yes?!

What is your agenda? You evidently have one, since you are defining what you don't want.

Honesty, sincerity, respect for others.

Some people just cannot handle honesty. They do not truely look at themselves. I am a simple woman, but complicated due to somethings I have been working on for the last 17 yrs...and in my almost 75 yrs have had 2 wonderful husbands.....it gets lonely outliving your loved one. I frankly do not know how to meet men or women - my life always revolved around my husbands. So what does an OLD gal to meet a gentleman friend...bars & churches - forget those.
I tried both and felt very awkward.

I does seem like a lot of people are uncomfortable with honesty as well as hard to meet. Over the years I have learned I can't really live without honesty (condolences for your losses). Hmmmm, a 17 year preoccupation? Is it related to wave-particle behavior and a magnetic field by any chance? Thanks for the reply, it truly is a rainbow journey.

I must be doing something wrong everyone is in a different State than I am. Perhaps no one in my State like me, boo, hoo.