ok. so my ex an i broke up and it was mutual thing for the most part. we had been doing a long distance relationship for almost a year. our anniversary would have been this thursday the 18th. he called me and he told me that he wants us to remain close because he still loves me an i still love him but we just need a little time to get school done an whatever else. i do love him bt we are not together. i am interested in meeting new people tho. my question is do i go back to someone for a fourth (yes fourth)time if we still love each other? we have had quite a few issues in our past (as you can tell by the fourth time) i want to explore all my options and i want to know that when i find that man it will be because he is right for me nt becuz he is all i know. this has caused me to spend many nights wondering. there is nothing like talking problems out over a drink an i was hoping maybe i could take it to the bar and u all could help me out a little. thanks for any advice given.

I would date a different flavour each day.......you have to find out if he is the one for you. Why get married to someone you already hve issues with?

sounds like there are red flags in that relationship.
because you loive him you should realize that and back out.

No. You need to stay with this guy!

quit enticing me with chocolate biker!!!

Please stay with this guy! Oh gypsy its the other ginger dark chocolate. It was good! 65%.mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

The truth is, no matter what any of your close friends and family say, ( or whoever your confidant is ) you will make your own decisions, regardless if they are actually good for you in the long run or not. We can all throw opinions out there but how can any of us give you good advice? We don't know you or all of the intricacies of your relationship and there are two sides to every story.

Chad

true chad but she asked for our advice!!!

Just scratch the ich!

higher catch!!!!

Please, please please stay with this guy!

Personally, I'd take a break, plunge myself into work,school w/e you have going on..Time will tell you what is right. and keep listening to your gut and your head..when they match up it's usually the right thing. good luck!

I kno. Bt i guess i really wanna kno if i am wrong for seeing what is out there before i decide to wait on him... I know he isnt seeing anyone else right now.

I am simply not qualified to offer advice on relationships. If I had it all down and was an expert, I doubt I'd be here. I wish you well, but you are the only one who knows what you need to do. Those who offer advice do so with the luxury of standing on the sideline of your life. You know what you need to do---



-Drew

**** "Advice is what we ask for when we know the answer but wish we didn't."

drew you are sooooooooooooooooooo right!!!!

But at 22..........way too young to decide who the right man is.......my mom alwys said to play the field......I never did...I was always in these long and drawn out "relationships".....wish I would have listened to dear old mom!!

If the problems are still there, nothing has changed. Move on.

Pretty please with sugar on top. Stay with this guy. I've seen and heard this situation before.

Lol biker!!! using reverse psychology eh>?>>>>

Btw......do you want me to have a bite of your chocolate bar???

Well before i can stay he has to be ready to get serious biker...

You say you love each other but have split up 3 times so far. Ask yourself if the issues that caused you to split up are gont to resurface again.

You seem like a sweet girl it might do you good to see other people to see if you are truly ready to settle down with your ex, or if you are going back to him to avoid being alone?

Good luck to you with your deicsions.