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Topic: GUYS WHO DEACTIVATE????
SWEETENSEXYB's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:38 PM
First of all, I just wanted to get some opinions from the ladies mostly. OK, here's the deal::::: A guy writes you and says, he wants to talk, get to know you, ok, fine, you talk maybe once or twice. Then he deactivtes his acct. I am just trying to understand why men do this. What's the point. It frustrates me so much. You think you found a nice guy to talk to, and then BAM, he's gone. What was the whole point of him writing in the first place???????????

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:40 PM
I think those are the game playing ones...

Getting sick of it myself...grumble

Must be they have something to hide.

No offense to those of us who deactivate to rest for awhile.

no photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:41 PM
better now then later sweety.

no photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:41 PM
he's probably married or a major player

ouchie's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:42 PM
Unless you know someone really well and what is going on in their life you can not be sure..Don't get angry over it..I try to stay positive and just wish ppl the best..Be glad you didn't have time to get emotionally wrapped up in him first.

s1owhand's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:43 PM
deactivation. people need a break sometimes. if you've been mailing him send at least one more mail asking if he'd like to keep in touch. if he checks his mail then he'll get it.

all sorts of complicated real life situations can interfere
with jsh laugh

so i may not be a lady but i play one with she-devil from time to time....

even Lex deactivated. but he's baaaaaack...:wink:

Khamisa's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:44 PM
I understand you. You would think, that they'd have the descency to just be upfront.

SWEETENSEXYB's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:44 PM
Well guys, I'm just so tired of it. I start talking to a guy and then, like I said, he deact. This has happened one to many times. I just wish that these grown men would stop acting like little boys. Aren't there any REAL GROWN MEN left in the world?????????????grumble grumble

Queene123's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:47 PM
i think i would rather have them delete there account then having 20 yr old email me and ask what im wearing to bed, which is non of there business they need to grow up and not have such a ego issue

SWEETENSEXYB's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:47 PM
I do understand ppl need to deact. because they need a break, Hell, I did for a little bit myself. BUT I didn't start talking to all these guys and then just disapeared, As a matter of fact, evrybody I was talking to knew, I was taking a break. So, tha't no excuse. I just think it's such a waste of time.

uk1971's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:48 PM
I've had the same from women here as well. I guess it works both ways.

I won't be deactivating. At least not until either I croak or my computer blows up on me. :tongue: bigsmile

SWEETENSEXYB's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:48 PM
Hey Queen, I get that crap from the 20 something guys too. Guess it boosts there egos to try to talk to us more mature women.laugh

ouchie's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:50 PM
I don't understand why ppl always jump to conclusions and get all mad...maybe i'm missing something here?

SWEETENSEXYB's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:50 PM
Hey Tom, I guess your right, I suppose women do this to men tooo. It's just such a shame that ppl can't all be adults about things ya know??????????

SWEETENSEXYB's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:52 PM
Ouchie, maybe you are missing something. Nobody said they were mad about anything. I just wanted to get ppl's opinions about the subject. That's why we have these isn't it?????????? Voice our opinions and discuss whatever we like. RIGHT?????????????

no photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:52 PM
maybe his wife found out!!!noway

ouchie's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:53 PM
Ahhh ok lol...Thx for clearing that up cause I myself am kinda awol from the other site since i found this onelaugh

notafaker's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:54 PM
Also sometimes those aren't real accounts so the site deactivate them. Sometimes it spam causing pages that usually tryna get u to go to a porn site or to husstle you out of money dont take it personal

kidatheart70's photo
Sun 10/14/07 01:55 PM
Always expect the worst! Then when it turns out to something minor, you can be pleasantly surprised!laugh laugh laugh

widowerseeking's photo
Sun 10/14/07 02:04 PM
going to my other site to play around for awhile, while lex is off chasing his russian brides, think I will check in and see how my nigerian and aussie brides are doing.

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