��It seems I must have clicked on a Oasis Singles ad as I've been told I'm showing as online there when I haven't even joined. Does anybody know how to remedy this as obviously I haven't joined as a member so can't log in to log offline if you get me.�

Don't come to the site for a month and it will get away (I think).

Contact that site

I would defiantly contact that site's administrators. I would imagine your photo has been stolen and is being used by someone with less than stellar intentions, since you have not joined that site.

On a very serious note ladies..
Could this really be possible?
I mean.. for me it is more than mudslinging and petty now.
I mean it is serious and evil.. if somebody would make an
account for you and use your picture.

Did I get it right?
Is there a way of checking the date of when this account is made?
Is it the same date that someone reach out to someone on a certain website?

The fact the you Miss post your picture in good faith for the first time in public and it would be used by someone for evil motives,
is really a serious matter.