Wow!!! I would have thought you ladies would like to have a guy with a clean slate... just think about it you can teach him to do everything the way you like it.. even trick him into thinking he should do all the shopping cooking and cleaning and housework as well... darn it wait a minute I think I've been tricked already..lol

Yes.. I saw that site... wwww.hmmmnowwhatdoIdowithit.com

could e a start op...maybe there is a tutorial?

I admit I am talking about myself in this post.I am really a 36 year old virgin who should of started dating years ago. Can I have some advice on how to approach things besides be myself other forums have told me

Well, are you just sitting at home day and night? Are you 'shy'? Try to be more out-going..(maybe there's a class for that).. How about volunteering somewhere where? Take a class of something; Take up a hobby & Join a group of something that interests you.. - Chat up people in lineups, at the teller, at the grocery store.. Keep a lookout for someone who interests you - Now, don't be a frickin stalker mind you..and watch for a wedding band too, lol. Hope this gives you some ideas. Good Luck

op ... not sure ... mainly becouse you are to young for me ...
and thirty does not seem old for being a virgin ... now older and never married with no children and being a virgin ... I might think twice about dating ... but if I liked him and older & thought we could get along together ... then sure ... I would + stay with him ...