Topic: โ€œjust wondering if the looks really matter in friendship o
marie930's photo
Sun 11/15/15 11:34 PM
is it really matter?

graygentleman's photo
Sun 11/15/15 11:54 PM
In friendship that is a big NO!!

Those that have my back, give some support, and earn my trust are ALWAYS considered a friend and get my loyalty, support, and whatever I can do to help them.

Although I am not sure it matters as much as some say it does in love and relationships.

germanchoclate1981's photo
Mon 11/16/15 12:14 AM
Keep right on using that F word. And you thought the 'friend zone' was just a superstition.laugh It's real!

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 11/16/15 12:20 AM

In friendship that is a big NO!!

Those that have my back, give some support, and earn my trust are ALWAYS considered a friend and get my loyalty, support, and whatever I can do to help them.

Although I am not sure it matters as much as some say it does in love and relationships.


Perfectly said
I feel the same
Looks are only skin deep.
The heart is more important to me

graygentleman's photo
Mon 11/16/15 03:45 AM

Keep right on using that F word. And you thought the 'friend zone' was just a superstition.laugh It's real!


I am OK being in the friend zone! I am completely happy have true and loyal friends that I can count on!

Spike1964's photo
Tue 11/17/15 06:14 AM
What kind of friendship just friends looks have zero importance.

no photo
Tue 11/17/15 07:18 AM

is it really matter?


OMG...I hope not!

no1phD's photo
Tue 11/17/15 08:25 AM
Yes.. looks don't matter..
Ummm.. have you all forgotten what it was like in high school.?.. the nerdy kids the not so attractive kids.. weren't exactly very popula. .. sure they had friends but they were similar to themselves.... people generally search out friends that have the same interests and are all the same socials ground looks wise..... I really don't want to hang out with somebody more attractive than me... I would never get any girls then...lol..

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Tue 11/17/15 10:59 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž on Tue 11/17/15 11:00 AM

Yes.. looks don't matter..
Ummm.. have you all forgotten what it was like in high school.?.. the nerdy kids the not so attractive kids.. weren't exactly very popula. .. sure they had friends but they were similar to themselves.... people generally search out friends that have the same interests and are all the same socials ground looks wise..... I really don't want to hang out with somebody more attractive than me... I would never get any girls then...lol..

Ummm... not entirely true ... I knew plenty of not so good looking kids that were very popular, and not with nerdy kids, but with other really popular kids.
Also a really good looking girl, as in model material, wasn't all that popular with the guys, just because she didn't know how to carry herself. Shy and thus lacking charisma.
One of the most sexy guys I came across during high school, was very tall, didn't have the makings of a muscular guy, and wasn't particularly good looking at all. But he was unbelievably witty and funny and so bloody confident. Dammit he was hot! Every girl had a crush on him. I know I did. Major crush. Not sure if I ever got over that, I mean, I still get weak in the knees thinking about him, haha.
Even the teachers loved him. It was just the way he carried himself. Nothing to do with looks, cos he didn't really have those.
.
.

EmJ1504's photo
Tue 11/17/15 11:20 AM

Yes.. looks don't matter..
Ummm.. have you all forgotten what it was like in high school.?.. the nerdy kids the not so attractive kids.. weren't exactly very popula. .. sure they had friends but they were similar to themselves.... people generally search out friends that have the same interests and are all the same socials ground looks wise..... I really don't want to hang out with somebody more attractive than me... I would never get any girls then...lol..


I remember my English teacher saying that good looking people tend to search out friends that aren't as attractive. At that moment I made it clear to my group of friends that I was the good looking one, end of. (I guess you would only understand the irony of that if you knew me in high school!)

**Pointless post of the day complete.

topsinardo's photo
Tue 11/17/15 11:28 AM
Oh!! NO to me.. I don't really care about looks...

bapickens1's photo
Fri 11/20/15 08:26 AM
There really is still good people in the world.