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Topic: what would your ex
no1phD's photo
Sat 11/21/15 08:18 AM

I got serious flak from both, but never directly. Via the kids, friends, my mom and so on.

1st one couldn't get over me wanting out. Not sure he has till this day, even though he's been with a new partner for some 11-12 years.

2nd one has NPD, so you can expect serious flak. No way will a narcissist risk losing face by saying he was an @-hole. And praising me would mean that to him. So he won't do that. Ever.

Oh, as a side note: the quality of my BJs had nothing to do with it :angel:
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..ohhh.. Mon Cheri.. believe me the quality of the..BJ.. always has something to do with it..lol.wink

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 11/21/15 09:16 AM


I got serious flak from both, but never directly. Via the kids, friends, my mom and so on.

1st one couldn't get over me wanting out. Not sure he has till this day, even though he's been with a new partner for some 11-12 years.

2nd one has NPD, so you can expect serious flak. No way will a narcissist risk losing face by saying he was an @-hole. And praising me would mean that to him. So he won't do that. Ever.

Oh, as a side note: the quality of my BJs had nothing to do with it :angel:
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..ohhh.. Mon Cheri.. believe me the quality of the..BJ.. always has something to do with it..lol.wink

... understandable them being upset about losing quality BJs ---> I was the one wanting out. Both times.
I'll try to take the flak as a compliment then :laughing: :laughing:

msharmony's photo
Sat 11/21/15 09:24 AM
I have to mirror soufie

my first husband would say all good (we are still friends, with a child in common who we love , and we still have a very respectful love for each other)


my second husband is, well, not a sociopath technically, but definitely suffers emotional and mental issues,, which is why we are no longer together and why I dont know what he would say,,,

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 11/21/15 09:52 AM
Edited by isaac_dede on Sat 11/21/15 09:53 AM
Not sure, I guess it would depend on whether she's in a relationship or not...

She liked to play the victim to guys she was interested in...so if she's interested in a guy she'd probably say I was the most loathsome human being on the planet.

If she's not playing the victim, then she'd probably say good things(I think lol)

Honestly not sure though.

no photo
Sat 11/21/15 12:58 PM
I believe my ex bf would say positive things about me. We are still good friends and have communication with each other from time to time. They attempted to get back to me but what's done is done, we have to move on with our lives. My ex bf's wife sometimes call me and ask advice and let's me talk to him. I always make sure in my relationship not to give my bf any reason for our break up, as what he said, he trust me so much and believe I could never do any thing wrong to ruin our relationship, only him could possibly make mistakes....and he did:) but that's life....some good things never last but what's important , you make peace with yourself and the people who have hurt you :smile: :wink: :heart: stay positive and receive positive feedbacks :smile: happy

tta1128's photo
Sat 11/21/15 03:44 PM
That I was a nice person but worked too much. Been a long time since him. But he did send me flowers a year after the divorce. I'd had surgery. The last long term relationship still wants to get back together. Been 5 yrs and heard from him 6 weeks ago asking to see me and give him another chance. Ummm.....no.

no photo
Sat 11/21/15 03:52 PM
Are we talking about the guy I quit dating last summer or are we talking about the Ex? Since he doesn't say much these days it would probably be a short conversation at the military cemetary.

Valeris's photo
Sun 11/22/15 12:40 AM

Have to say about you!.. honestly..?


My Ex's?

YIKES!

The short version of how The [My] Ex's might feel about me, perhaps would resemble something like this. A picture's worth 1000 words, right?:tongue:



When I'd get bored of dealing with them & their ways of building themselves-"Up" by verbally/emotionally-putting me-"Down"; I'd challenge them to beat me in any IQ Test of their own choice.The more arrogant & narcissistic of them,actually would. Of course, it never ended well...whoa

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