Topic: sex on first date
Annierooroo's photo
Wed 12/02/15 01:11 PM
No way
I want to enjoy being sweeped off my feet by my prince Charming Lol

Isaac is right. I love his answer

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Wed 12/02/15 10:51 PM
hai dear


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Thu 12/03/15 01:47 AM
If both persons want than its not a bad idea,

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Thu 12/03/15 02:00 AM

Sex on first date...depends.

nothing against it,
and nothing against those who won't.

depends on so many factors, which are wide ranging.

Could be you like each other physically but know you aren't a good long-term match...so personally don't see anything wrong with having a little fun..then going on your merry way.

Could be that you are super into her, but you know she wouldn't be happy with herself if she allowed it to happen on A first date...so even if it's heading that way you stop it(even though let's face it you don't want too) because you don't want her to feel like she disrespected herself...and you're hoping that this will lead to something more serious....

but if you know she wouldn't disrespect herself for allowing it to happen, and you know it wouldn't hurt your chances at something long-term then you don't stop it lol.

But that's my opinion

I agree!
Problem is that sometimes if you try it's wrong and if you don't try it's wrong!! I guess you just have to go with the flow.
But here n Malaysia, 99.99% of the time they are just after a free meal. So you won't get much conversation let alone sex!!

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Thu 12/03/15 06:30 AM
I will never be able to understand what happened to good values, common decency and self-respect. It seems that there are so many people that think it is just fine to have sex with anyone they want to. What happened to self-control? I know that everyone has the right to their own opinion but I still do not understand it. We all have urges but we also should have the will power to control them.

Not trying to offend anybody...Just expressing my beliefs :angel:

RustyKitty's photo
Thu 12/03/15 07:09 AM
anyone remember the 60's, 70's ? dare I say 80's ??
the decades of free love..pre-aids/hiv..
plenty of one night encounters back in the day.. (not me,of course,lol,just sayin) my, my, if the walls could talk!

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 12/03/15 08:11 AM


Sex on first date...depends.

nothing against it,
and nothing against those who won't.

depends on so many factors, which are wide ranging.

Could be you like each other physically but know you aren't a good long-term match...so personally don't see anything wrong with having a little fun..then going on your merry way.

Could be that you are super into her, but you know she wouldn't be happy with herself if she allowed it to happen on A first date...so even if it's heading that way you stop it(even though let's face it you don't want too) because you don't want her to feel like she disrespected herself...and you're hoping that this will lead to something more serious....

but if you know she wouldn't disrespect herself for allowing it to happen, and you know it wouldn't hurt your chances at something long-term then you don't stop it lol.

But that's my opinion

I agree!
Problem is that sometimes if you try it's wrong and if you don't try it's wrong!! I guess you just have to go with the flow.
But here n Malaysia, 99.99% of the time they are just after a free meal. So you won't get much conversation let alone sex!!


My experience in Malaysia was different(Kota Kinabalu)....it seemed sex was always on the table...but that could be attributed to me being an American, or the Navy Uniform....

And no I'm not talking about 'pay as go'

imnauhtyboy's photo
Thu 12/03/15 08:20 AM
Depends whether it was a blind date or not

Gene143's photo
Thu 12/03/15 08:49 AM
i like to have sex with the girl who also likes too..blushing

Soccerman2880's photo
Thu 12/03/15 09:49 AM
Well said

EmJ1504's photo
Thu 12/03/15 09:54 AM
It has been known to happen...
Wasn't the first time I had met the guys though, we already knew each other but first 'date' technically.
As for the one nighters...it doesn't really qualify if you don't!

Times have changed though, I'm no longer looking for a temporary 'fix'. So now I can say "NO WAY!"

Guess what I'm saying is, it depends on the people and what they want out of the relationship.

Ravinkr's photo
Thu 12/03/15 10:03 AM

That's something, which comes beyond friendship or rather immoral..no introduction and....possibly no..

hottsurd's photo
Thu 12/03/15 10:04 AM
Possible but unlikely:wink:

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Thu 12/03/15 10:54 AM
Tbone, thatll probably get deleted but Im damn glad I saw it beforehand rofl rofl rofl

TMommy's photo
Thu 12/03/15 11:14 AM
good gawd who bought that child that shirt..I would so smack that mother surprised

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Thu 12/03/15 11:20 AM
Tbone, thatll probably get deleted but Im damn glad I saw it beforehand rofl rofl rofl


I'm always glad when I can make people laugh... :thumbsup: laugh

good gawd who bought that child that shirt..I would so smack that mother surprised


:laughing: My best guess is that the T-shirt originally said something else, but someone photoshopped that phrase onto it... :laughing:

hmarafath's photo
Fri 12/04/15 02:54 AM
hi

hmarafath's photo
Fri 12/04/15 02:54 AM
hiii

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Fri 12/04/15 08:27 AM
It's a no no for me......I prefer to get to know my date well first and establish emotional attachment. Sex is lovelier and fulfilling if you both love each other.

As for those who are open into this kind of set up, it depends on every individual where they are comfortable. If they have the guts to do it and if it's acceptable to them then no problem at all. It's individual preferences and I respect that. Indulging in sex on first date could have consequences though, as you still don't know well your date , he might have STD or any venereal diseasesnoway shocked oops well, just an advice always have a safe sex:thumbsup: :wink:

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Fri 12/04/15 08:27 AM
It's a no no for me......I prefer to get to know my date well first and establish emotional attachment. Sex is lovelier and fulfilling if you both love each other.

As for those who are open into this kind of set up, it depends on every individual where they are comfortable. If they have the guts to do it and if it's acceptable to them then no problem at all. It's individual preferences and I respect that. Indulging in sex on first date could have consequences though, as you still don't know well your date , he might have STD or any venereal diseasesnoway shocked oops well, just an advice always have a safe sex:thumbsup: :wink: