Topic: Why?
Romanticmike52's photo
Sat 03/19/16 01:28 PM
Can anyone women explain why I'm not getting much interest to my profile?

blah..blah..'s photo
Sat 03/19/16 04:20 PM
Interest as in messages or views?

Some members can browse invisibly, so although they might be looking, it won't show.

I think most people don't seem interesting in sending and receiving messages, or maybe that's just that they don't want to send and receive from me?

I would also suggest that the site isn't as busy as it seems.

Romanticmike52's photo
Sat 03/19/16 11:08 PM
I wanted messages, you could be right, this site is probably not that busy compared to some others.

Twintidbits24's photo
Sun 03/20/16 04:04 AM

I wanted messages, you could be right, this site is probably not that busy compared to some others.


Then go to those busy sites you're saying so you won't feel bitter...lolzzzzz....whoa

Twintidbits24's photo
Sun 03/20/16 04:08 AM

Interest as in messages or views?

Some members can browse invisibly, so although they might be looking, it won't show.

I think most people don't seem interesting in sending and receiving messages, or maybe that's just that they don't want to send and receive from me?

I would also suggest that the site isn't as busy as it seems.


suggest what???....he he he....what

Robxbox73's photo
Sun 03/20/16 05:02 AM


Interest as in messages or views?

Some members can browse invisibly, so although they might be looking, it won't show.

I think most people don't seem interesting in sending and receiving messages, or maybe that's just that they don't want to send and receive from me?

I would also suggest that the site isn't as busy as it seems.


suggest what???....he he he....what


Oh the site is busy. Twintidbits, that was funny. Ciao!

Bandt1428's photo
Sun 03/20/16 08:23 PM
Well you probably need to talk yourself up a bit more. So say something like "I am an honest and friendly man who loves sailing, ...... I love working out at the local gyms and am actually hoping to take up jogging again soon. Although I am deaf, I can read lips, or I could put my fingers on your lips and hear what you are saying (no wait maybe that would be a blind person that would need to touch:). It would be great to find someone to go to the local cafe with for a cup of coffee or even just go for a stroll."

I don't think you want to explain everything in detail, just hit the highlights and try to add a touch of humor. Good luck

blah..blah..'s photo
Mon 03/21/16 03:52 AM
When i said about the site not being busy, i meant with active people, yes there are lots of profiles and it shows lots of people are online but how many are actual people?

Manturkey1's photo
Mon 03/21/16 04:07 AM

When i said about the site not being busy, i meant with active people, yes there are lots of profiles and it shows lots of people are online but how many are actual people?


Looking in the fourm can tell you who is real . As for your mail, if thay Only have one photo , ask a two part question and get a one word response: = bot . indifferent

blah..blah..'s photo
Mon 03/21/16 04:13 AM
I know most of the fake profiles, and scammers tricks it doesn't take long lol

I was meaning the profiles in general not on the forums.

Manturkey1's photo
Mon 03/21/16 04:15 AM
Is a hit an miss thing .

UrMissingLib's photo
Mon 03/21/16 12:00 PM
Hi Mr. Romantic,

You got me interested in checking you up......lol

I think you limit your chances when you are selective about country or region.

Wish you the best, though!

Romanticmike52's photo
Mon 03/21/16 04:15 PM
Many thanks for your thought and advice, I will think on rearranging my profile in due course.

Romanticmike52's photo
Mon 03/21/16 11:41 PM
Well I can't afford to travel