What do you call a dog with no legs??

I signed up on this on saturday night thinking there are alot of Single Girls out there looking for a Very Nice Guy but I checked my mAIL BOX AND There was nothing in it Why? Can someone tell me if this site really works?

G.M MIA-FLORIDA

Interesting to read you 2 exchange of wisdom.
" Blondey111 and Ladywind7"

Taking it that both have a similar experience in the past
Forgive me, I can be wrong
LDR can work if there is trust, faith, and real determination.
The grass is pretty green on my side of the fence, life is comfortable,
and luckily I still have a job to supplement my pension, I own right
my own roof over my head, I have everything I need, and also space
And I NO POSH EITHER Just a HAPPY CHAP
Example ..I have a high school sweetheart living in Italy
and we talk very often, I know the spark is there.
The only problem is, ( And that's against my personal morals,
believes & principles ), that she is not divorced, just separated.
In principles, I WOULD WAIST MY TIME WITH HER knowing that
there is not a real future. I AM a Capricorn, (THE EARTH), AND I SHOULD KNOW BETTER
At least I am divorced, 24 years now, and yet holding still strong
for the next best one in my life
WHEN, or if ANY COMES ALONG

Leave it with U 2 experts to work this out

If by any chance, soon after I will retire 4 good next year,
I find a compatibility somewhere over the big pond, I don't mind
giving it a chance or go...
After all, I can support my self in a country where my Aussie pension
is accepted

So, in conclusion, regardless of one's past experiences,
LIFE GOES ON, WE ALL LOOKING FOR WARMTH IN THE HEART
BY DECIDING TO TAKE ONE MORE CHANCE IN TIME.
RESPECT to U 2

Better place, motown? Is it like when someone dies and people say they are in a better place now? oooh I don't want to be in that better place yet.

Is not too late but you better hurry up, you're a few years from plastic underwear, Bingo and reading the obituaries everyday to see who you know that croaked.

I am legally separated too (towards the end of my divorce now which has taken over 2 yrs thus far) but I think the definition of 'separated' means something different in other countries.

My ex is now living with someone else and we've both moved on. I'm 59 and I've dated so no, it's definitely not too late to start again!

Wishing you every successs.

I'll take over from there.

thank you
I am getting better, I succeeded in getting my point across without upsetting anyone

I always insist she wear her leash and collar under her blouse when we are in public.

All women are beautiful...some just wear it on the outside.

Only if you're good at rationalizing and deluding yourself.
Relationships can potentially survive long distance. If the relationship is formed and then someone has to go away for a while and then come back.

Loving romantic relationships can't really be built via long distance.
The bonding process goes through certain biological stages.
Stages are based on face to face interaction, biofeedback (hormones, indirect communication, pheromones, etc.)

Kind of like having a kid.
Think if a pregnant woman gave birth, and then immediately after the kid popped out she flew to another part of the world, and weeks/months/years later came back and spent a week with the kid, and then flew off to another part of the world for weeks/months/years then came back and spent another week with the kid, and that kept happening, and in between they'd talk on the phone, and she'd sing songs to the kid.

Do you honestly believe the natural bond between mother and child would be the same as a woman that gave birth to the kid, immediately held it, fed it, and was around since birth?

But you can get a mother and child that go through the distance thing that rationalize and tell themselves how close they are, do everything they can in those weeks together and pretend to build this close relationship.
It's just not real, it's based on wanting it to be real without the underlying natural foundation.

If you can be happy with the appearance of a "healthy" relationship, if you want a dog to dress up like a duck, can teach it to quack like a duck, get yourself to see it as a duck, and become willfully blind to when it acts like a dog, then a long distance relationship can work for you.

It doesn't happen to me often It's usually the other way around..lol.. but if they say they just want to be friends I say great!!..
Can always use a friend to go see a movie with.. can always use a friend to go have dinner with.. can always use a friend to have mind blowing sex with...lol.. so I say yes!!.. let's be friends.. but now that we are friends do you have any girl friends that I can date..hmmmmm... because apparently you and I aren't going to be sex friends...lol

I consider myself to be undateable
Of course that is only cos I'm with him, and intending to keep it that way!

From what I read, I agree with Peggy. You should always keep an eye out, and your heart open, but finding someone shouldn't be the focus of your life.
Have something going for yourself, make yourself happy, enjoy life. Then you are far more appealing, plus you'll never feel 'undateable' either because you are happy regardless.
Simply put, no one is eager to become the crutch for another's happiness, everyone is looking for a positive partner.

see people drift into one of two camps as they hit mid-life

1. no man's land or I am an island unto myself
2. grab while the gettings good


I dunno call the what you like

the first one is for the ones who have stopped trying
or have standards so high no one can meet them or
they have convinced themselves that this 'perfect' person does not exist

the second camp are the ones that jump in at a moment's notice, at every wink or flirt they are on it man..and convince themselves they have found their soulmate or they convince themselves that this person is good enough


of course those are the two extremes
many fall somewhere in between

My best roommate was a stripper...my worst was and still is, my ex-wife.
Grrrrrr...

Lived with 3 guys..
Lived with 4 girls.

I Live Alone....learned my lessons

He deactivated. And I don't know what I was thinking when I posted those links above. But then again, it was almost 5 am: here.

all I get is Ladies in their twenties!
Maybe I can pass some of them on!

Thanks for stopping by Twintidbits. Yes, hot chocolate is great. I like mine with whipped cream, but mini marshmallows are good too.

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