Topic: Getting back in the dating game
Chiwin25's photo
Sun 04/17/16 05:31 PM
I have not dated in 17 years. Where do I begin?

nettyblue2016's photo
Sun 04/17/16 05:36 PM
Take it slow and trust your instincts.
Don't settle for anyone who doesn't meet your needs, standards.
Good Luck! waving

peggy122's photo
Sun 04/17/16 06:01 PM

Take it slow and trust your instincts.
Don't settle for anyone who doesn't meet your needs, standards.
Good Luck! waving


Nettyblue's advice is right on point :thumbsup:

There are a lot of scammers and insincere people in the dating world so alot of your time will be spent filtering out the undesirables.

And that takes time to observe.

Dont believe everything people say about themselves or about their feelings for you.

Believe only in the consistent actions that they demonstrate towards you over time.

Their actions are the truth of who they are... Not their words.

And avoid giving your contact information to guys until you have gotten to know him better through mingle emails.

Welcome to mingle. All the best to you in your search !flowerforyou

Welcome to mingle and good luck to you!

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 04/17/16 06:06 PM

I have not dated in 17 years. Where do I begin?


1) End any legal relationship with your ex- that may still exist. Men generally don't want to date a woman who is still legally married to someone.

sparkyae5's photo
Mon 04/18/16 08:32 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Mon 04/18/16 08:33 AM

Take it slow and trust your instincts.
Don't settle for anyone who doesn't meet your needs, standards.
Good Luck! waving
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good advice..people will only do to us what we allow them to do..keep those

standards very high...do not just live with guy,,make him earn you and always

remember your the prize....and always be good to yourself......if your still

connected to him wait till its over.....

no photo
Mon 04/18/16 09:01 AM
Edited by ciretom on Mon 04/18/16 09:02 AM
I have not dated in 17 years. Where do I begin?

The same place they hopefully taught you in grade school?
Dating:
Who
What
Where
When
Why
How

Answer those questions.
Not necessarily in that order.
If you get stuck on one, go to another.
Use any information from the others to help you figure out any you're stuck on.

If you can't figure any of them out, then you probably shouldn't date and should choose a different topic.

no photo
Tue 04/19/16 08:39 PM
Why has it been so hard to find you? I have searched for you sometime now. I thought I found you only to loose you. You reappear looking, smelling and smiling differently. However I loose you as quickly as you appear. I have changed and maybe you no longer know who I am. I have matured since we first met. I'm no longer a little girl but a mature woman. Carrying a briefcase of Why. Wow time has ticked away, while looking for you. Please stop appearing only so briefly that I know only your name. Please stay so I may know your your essence. Your power and weakness. I promise in return to share mine with you. So that I may relax when in need. So that you may relax knowing I have your back when you need me. It has been a long journey. I"ll keep looking for you. But Why?

mzrosie's photo
Tue 04/19/16 09:05 PM


I have not dated in 17 years. Where do I begin?


1) End any legal relationship with your ex- that may still exist. Men generally don't want to date a woman who is still legally married to someone.



^^ This one.

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