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| Topic: Giving up is so easy | |
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Well I saw the attitude of people towards relationship and post this thread. It is really strange to see that few days back, you are head over heels for this person and today you can't stand them. Isn't love enough to overlook all other issues? Isn't love the strength to fight any odds and make the relation work? I remember you asking a similar question not that long ago. No, love is not always enough. Love cannot always make everything work. You know, if you TRULY love someone, you can set them free. And that is one of the hardest things to do! But that is the ultimate act of true, unconditional love. Love is not claiming, clinging, and trying to force things to work when you obviously cannot make them work. Splitting up doesn't mean you don't love each other anymore. But sometimes you simply cannot live together / be in a relationship together, in spite of that love. Then you let go. In love. And again, that is what you'd do when you truly love someone. |
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I love u
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Yeah I understand the valid points you guys give but my concern is that I only introduced them and I am kind of a match maker
 Anyway they will blame me now and later come to me only for helping them with their loneliness. I guess life is not so magically as I thought so 
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I respect the opinions given by you guys and agree with most of them. Yes going apart in case of cheating or hurting makes sense but just saying that the flame is gone as a reason to separate doesn't hit me as a valid reason. Understanding each other and discussing the issues make the life so easier but not trying anything and just going apart for foolish reasons like this just makes me feel that they were searching for the first easy exit they got. Easy way out is not a mark of good relationship and sorry to say the people involve in it Not everyone finds it necessary or good manners to explain to others the deeper personal reasons a relationship is ending. Some are actually honorable and respectful even caring enough to be discreet. When people, even family sometimes, are too into their business and push for a reason they get the standard excuse. That might not make sense to people who have a "to death us do part attitude about romance", sometimes even before marriage, it is just easier and kinder than telling folks to mind their own business. Finding fault in other's people relationships is a bad habit if you want to have life long friends. |
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"AT TIMES, DISCRETION IS THE BETTER PART OF VALOR..."
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